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By *alda OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby

Hi,Im looking for any genuine dom masters to offer a beginner some advice and tips.

I have recently got back with my first love after a 22 year a gap,though our feelings have'nt changed,our sexual tastes have.My girl is desperate to be a sub with a master she can trust,me.

Any tips/advice for a novice would be great,also any tips on being a master from afar as well as when we are together. many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she on here? Does she know you're on here? She could look at the sub threads and there are a few Dom threads so have a browse and good luck!

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By *alda OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby

thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."
Has she any sub experience or does she have any idea as to what she likes or dislikes or what her limits might be? Also have you and dom experience at all or would you say you are closer to sub yourself? J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's lots of information out there. If it's in your 'make up' you'll be great.it all comes with trust and experience

Have fun. It's an amazing thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are totally inexperienced don't kid yourself that you are a Master...

The best advice is go to munches and meet people. Experienced doms will happily share their knowledge and potentially mentor you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with simple things like blindfolding her, tieing her hands and teasing her. Its a case of you being in charge and not pushing anything too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."

You're best telling her dude, honesty is the best policy!

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By *alda OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby

Thanks so far to all who have offered tips and advice,much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off with simple things like blindfolding her, tieing her hands and teasing her. Its a case of you being in charge and not pushing anything too quickly"

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Has she read "50 Shades of Grey" recently?

If that is where she is getting her 'sub' ideas from, then you are best off reading that then playing out any scenes from there, rather than talking to an experienced Dom.

Talk to her. Find out what she wants from a Master or Dom. She is as much, if not more, in control as you are. You need to find out her expectations. Talk to her.

Oh and talk to her again.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could always look for somewhere that is for people looking to lead a FET LIFE

You know, search the internet or something.

Also try attending fetish nights at your local club at get chatting to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."

First off is trust and honesty

So u need to do that and tell her about fab

A sub will put all her trust in you and it's important you give her your devotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus .... You either have it , or you don't

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP - talk to her first. Ask her lots of questions. Find out exactly what she is wants, what she would like to do, what would be a definate no no. It may be only a bit of role play.

If it's more, as stated above, there is a dedicated site full of people willing to help. I find the fet scene very welcoming and you can learn a lot. But you also should be clear about what you want.

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By *alda OP   Man
over a year ago

ashby

i will tell her when we are next together,i can tell her anything and her me,and i agree with the point that trust is all.

ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus .... You either have it , or you don't "

So true, I don't think it's something that can be faked

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