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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had some great meet from fab. Met some nice guys but now I've been messed with one too many times and need to delete this. I'm not saying it's forever I might be back but for now I'm away. Any question/advice/comments u have till Saturday. If not have fun and thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had some great meet from fab. Met some nice guys but now I've been messed with one too many times and need to delete this. I'm not saying it's forever I might be back but for now I'm away. Any question/advice/comments u have till Saturday. If not have fun and thanks x"

Bye

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it? "

our thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it? "

If I just delete then ill loose people I want to still chat to. Giving few days likely they will be on in that time

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

uh huh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A) leave the site

B) stay as you are

C) hide your profile

D) block anyone you don't want contact with

E) get in contact with people you want to stay in contact with via other means

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A) leave the site

B) stay as you are

C) hide your profile

D) block anyone you don't want contact with

E) get in contact with people you want to stay in contact with via other means"
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A- doing so

B- don't like who I am here

C-doesn't work

D- would take too long

E- I am doing so have numbers or kik for lot of them so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it?

If I just delete then ill loose people I want to still chat to. Giving few days likely they will be on in that time "

Then stay. Chat to those people and ignore everyone else! Simples!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Just put your profile to private and dont visit for a while.. Anyone that knows you can still leave messages.

No real need for drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just put your profile to private and dont visit for a while.. Anyone that knows you can still leave messages.

No real need for drama."

If ur profile is hidden people can't msg

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes they can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they can!

And if you don't set pics to private then they can still be seen too!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Yes they can!

And if you don't set pics to private then they can still be seen too!

But if you set.your preferred age to in the 90s then existing friends can message everyone else gets the warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they can!

And if you don't set pics to private then they can still be seen too!

But if you set.your preferred age to in the 90s then existing friends can message everyone else gets the warning. "

Except the 91 yr olds!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it? "

You're new to this 'flouncing' lark aren't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x"

that can not be resolved with the hide profile button.

that requires you to think through why you allow friends to do it to you and what action you have to do to stop it.......

swinging can bring out the most exploitative behaviour........ you can allow others or take action and send them packing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x"

Wouldn't class them as friends then

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

4 words

Queen

Attention

Seeking

Drama

Please reorder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x"

Take them off your friends list then! Again - simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 words

Queen

Attention

Seeking

Drama

Please reorder lol

I started a thread to say I was leaving. It was a genuine goodbye and thank you to Forumites. However I'd gone before anyone could post on it. I did day Id be back in a few months and I am. My thought are, if you start questioning whether you want to be here or not, then go and come back at a later stage.

If a man had posted this OP there would be load of comments by now on not letting the door hit his arse on the the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cry for help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a question...If you're going to go why not just delete the profile and go instead of making a big thing out of it?

You're new to this 'flouncing' lark aren't you

No I just like to see what excuses people come up with instead of just hitting delete

This way down the list of major flounce compared to some ive seen on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleas stay, I mean please, PLEASE stay. And we'll fill this thread with love to convince you. That's the right response right?

Just go. Seriously no one will care for more than a nano-second, the site will still function, the world will still turn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin"

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Just put your profile to private and dont visit for a while.. Anyone that knows you can still leave messages.

No real need for drama.

If ur profile is hidden people can't msg"

yes they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont log in then it doesnt Matter what anyone Emails you as you wont see it. you are being your own worst enemy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pleas stay, I mean please, PLEASE stay. And we'll fill this thread with love to convince you. That's the right response right?

Just go. Seriously no one will care for more than a nano-second, the site will still function, the world will still turn."

Btw Omg LMFAO (damn)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A) leave the site

B) stay as you are

C) hide your profile

D) block anyone you don't want contact with

E) get in contact with people you want to stay in contact with via other means.

A- doing so

B- don't like who I am here

C-doesn't work

D- would take too long

E- I am doing so have numbers or kik for lot of them so far "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x

Take them off your friends list then! Again - simples!

Just did n got whole lotta hassle for it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x

Take them off your friends list then! Again - simples!

Just did n got whole lotta hassle for it "

Then block them!

Life is too short to be made to feel like shit by your friendslist. Clean it out and block if you're worried about it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Doesn't fix the problem of existing friends messing with my head x

Take them off your friends list then! Again - simples!

Just did n got whole lotta hassle for it "

block the fuckers and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its only fab. its not real Life. its fab. the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so. "

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so. "

A-HA! There ya are! I knew you couldn't resist stomping your foot and saying: I am! I am big enough to play with the big kids!

Not even gracious enough to thank me for acknowledging your fondness of AM...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

I liked it but things have changed n not enjoying it like I uses to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

I liked it but things have changed n not enjoying it like I uses to x"

Then delete your account? There is no point being here if you don't enjoy it, swinging is supposed to be fun after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

I liked it but things have changed n not enjoying it like I uses to x

Then delete your account? There is no point being here if you don't enjoy it, swinging is supposed to be fun after all."
I am deleting it but there's people I want to keep in touch with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

I liked it but things have changed n not enjoying it like I uses to x

Then delete your account? There is no point being here if you don't enjoy it, swinging is supposed to be fun after all. I am deleting it but there's people I want to keep in touch with "

So message them and tell them?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

" I am deleting it but there's people I want to keep in touch with "

I don't mean to be horrible, but, you can't have that many friends that you couldn't have messaged them directly rather than post a thread on the matter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's people on forum I don't have on friends list. I've messaged some friends but not heard bk yet and others not been online x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get messed about & fed up with eejits from time to time but best advice - build a bridge & get over it, move on & enjoy the decent good ppl, there are more good folk on here than bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to leave 6 months ago whilst laying out in the sun. I came indoors, logged on, sent 3 messages, started a goodbye and thank you thread and deleted profile before anyone had time to post. In less than 5 minutes I'd become a UNLOS. Easy when you dont want to create a drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this have expired yesterday? Jus sayin

It was only posted today. Doesn't expire for another 6 days...

I guess I meant I checked... She's still on here.. Just me being silly. She's really too young (in maturity) to be on here. But thumbs up on the Arctic Monkeys!

Actually I'm perfectly young and mature enough to be on here I enjoy it just like anyone else does and am entitled to do so.

Then if you're enjoying it what was the point of this thread in the first place?

like I said in my earlier post, if this OP had been written by a man what a difference it would have made

I liked it but things have changed n not enjoying it like I uses to x

Then delete your account? There is no point being here if you don't enjoy it, swinging is supposed to be fun after all. I am deleting it but there's people I want to keep in touch with "

so Email them your contact details and if they Interested in staying in touch you will Hear From them they will still have your message even once you deleted Profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x"

So you aren;t going then? You just might go?

But hey no drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a shame . I've just looked at your profile and see you like a man in a suit with a Geordie accent

and I'm in Glasgow next week if you fancy a coffee .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for goodness sake just shut the door on way out.

What a blooming drama.

Hmmm maybe I should have just bypassed this thread

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x"

So it's really just a look at me thread and hoping to have everyone begging you to stay! As someone has said already, if you were male, this thread would be totally different!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh for goodness sake just shut the door on way out.

What a blooming drama.

Hmmm maybe I should have just bypassed this thread

Exactly. Ever heard phrase nothing nice to say say nothin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x

So it's really just a look at me thread and hoping to have everyone begging you to stay! As someone has said already, if you were male, this thread would be totally different!

I'm not bothered if no one says I should stay but no point out a msg then delete profile so no one knows who was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for goodness sake just shut the door on way out.

What a blooming drama.

Hmmm maybe I should have just bypassed this thread

Exactly. Ever heard phrase nothing nice to say say nothin "

Nope but have heard stop making a mountain out of a mole hill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x

So it's really just a look at me thread and hoping to have everyone begging you to stay! As someone has said already, if you were male, this thread would be totally different!

I'm not bothered if no one says I should stay but no point out a msg then delete profile so no one knows who was "

Stick your name in the message then

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x

So it's really just a look at me thread and hoping to have everyone begging you to stay! As someone has said already, if you were male, this thread would be totally different!

I'm not bothered if no one says I should stay but no point out a msg then delete profile so no one knows who was

Stick your name in the message then "

Entails too much common sense though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No drama just truth. Giving myself time to think so I don't lose my pics verifys profile and messages for nothing x

So it's really just a look at me thread and hoping to have everyone begging you to stay! As someone has said already, if you were male, this thread would be totally different!

I'm not bothered if no one says I should stay but no point out a msg then delete profile so no one knows who was

Stick your name in the message then

Entails too much common sense though!

Oh yeah sorry I should have thought of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh for goodness sake just shut the door on way out.

What a blooming drama.

Hmmm maybe I should have just bypassed this thread

Exactly. Ever heard phrase nothing nice to say say nothin

Nope but have heard stop making a mountain out of a mole hill

Simple forum post so can have wee chat n say bye to the nice people on fab. Not many in this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh for goodness sake just shut the door on way out.

What a blooming drama.

Hmmm maybe I should have just bypassed this thread

Exactly. Ever heard phrase nothing nice to say say nothin

Nope but have heard stop making a mountain out of a mole hill

Simple forum post so can have wee chat n say bye to the nice people on fab. Not many in this post "

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