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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

just a thought but am I being lazy by just winking at someone I like?

i know some people hate winks

but i normally send messages and get no response,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink sometimes too, I don't mind winks as I can then check them out and wink back if I like them, exchange of messages and bingo! So no not lazy though some might think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot depends on the person. We see winks as a way of showing interest and will always check out the persons profile and message back but we don't get that many where as I think people that get lots it must be quite tiresome being bombarded with them and messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think winking was a lazy way to contact me but feel fine about getting winks. Some are just to say like your pics/profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought but am I being lazy by just winking at someone I like?

i know some people hate winks

but i normally send messages and get no response,"

How many responses are you getting from your winks?

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

If I send a wink its just to my friends on here, its just a hello nothing else intended and they know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many responses am I getting?

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"just a thought but am I being lazy by just winking at someone I like?

i know some people hate winks

but i normally send messages and get no response,

How many responses are you getting from your winks? "

well ive added them all up and at this very moment im on a grand total of 0 responses lol

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

The only winks I get are from bi- guys, usually miles away, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile, so yes, I see those as lazy.

On the other hand, I winked at a couple a while ago and it led to a meet, but usually I'd much rather send a message to someone I'm interested in as I reckon it gives me a better (albeit still very slim!) chance of a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought but am I being lazy by just winking at someone I like?

i know some people hate winks

but i normally send messages and get no response,

How many responses are you getting from your winks?

well ive added them all up and at this very moment im on a grand total of 0 responses lol"

Might be worth trying the messages again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of winks to be honest as usually they're from men who live the other side of another country I look and appreciate them but that's it. The only time I winked back at a local it was ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages much better than winks. I don't think they motivate people enough to make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are awesome.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

I'm a winker..........

Did I say that out loud!?

But seriously (to name a Phil Collins album)

I use it as an initial ice breaker. A recognition that I like what I see and I would then like to start messaging. Id like to think others see it this way too but realise they are an irritant to them.

Markx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore winkers and say it on my profile,it means they haven't read it,I'm stubborn like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo ) "

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

disheartened mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

disheartened mrs"
or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

disheartened mrs

or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up "

that would be interesting.....what could I measure that up to in a pic?? a bottle of rum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

disheartened mrs

or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up

that would be interesting.....what could I measure that up to in a pic?? a bottle of rum?"
Or 2 remotes

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

disheartened mrs

or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up

that would be interesting.....what could I measure that up to in a pic?? a bottle of rum? Or 2 remotes "

stack em up and set the camera up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

The

disheartened mrs

or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up

that would be interesting.....what could I measure that up to in a pic?? a bottle of rum? Or is2 remotes

stack em up and set the camera up "
Oh maybe one of those long tubes of Smarties you get at xmas

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Can't beat a good wink . ( No its not a typo )

I've decided I can't beat em so I've joined em. next I have to master the art of avoiding the question and avoiding the truth (if I had a cock I may also attach 15 pics)

The

disheartened mrs

or a 15 inch cock . Now that would be a pic !!! Wink away its cheers you up

that would be interesting.....what could I measure that up to in a pic?? a bottle of rum? Or is2 remotes

stack em up and set the camera up Oh maybe one of those long tubes of Smarties you get at xmas "

only if I can steal the Orange ones.....mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just a thought but am I being lazy by just winking at someone I like?

i know some people hate winks

but i normally send messages and get no response,"

The best lad I've met in here started out by winking at me! I winked back, he messaged and now we're always messaging and meeting!!!

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