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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a bit of advice...

We are a couple who have decided to try something different and let each other experience a solo meet. We are both totally fine with it and L had a good solo meet with a guy we've met before. I (male of the couple) is just looking into that solo meet for myself.

Just wanted some advice ... Am I setting an impossible goal here as many successful guys seem to have a fair bit of endowment (I'm not huge but not small - average) ? Also you see single girls or couples saying no married guys which we understand. Even with permission (and the ability to contact partner) would you still be put off?

Think I can offer experience and absolutely guarantee that you won't be meeting a cheating guy or some dreamer who won't turn up. However I read how difficult it is for single guys so just wonder if it's going to be just too difficult to meet up with a single or couple on my own .

Any advice or opinion greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a guy From a couple but he Also had his own profile

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now!

It works for us/them, but if you do contact singles, I would do so off your couple profile, not from a single male, as that would definitely make me sceptical. The reason why I accepted that permission was given, was that both of them had verifications showing from both couples and singles meets, so I wish you well and hope you find what your both looking for

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

personally i would not get involved as there are loads of single guys to choose from

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just a bit of advice...

We are a couple who have decided to try something different and let each other experience a solo meet. We are both totally fine with it and L had a good solo meet with a guy we've met before. I (male of the couple) is just looking into that solo meet for myself.

Just wanted some advice ... Am I setting an impossible goal here as many successful guys seem to have a fair bit of endowment (I'm not huge but not small - average) ? Also you see single girls or couples saying no married guys which we understand. Even with permission (and the ability to contact partner) would you still be put off?

Think I can offer experience and absolutely guarantee that you won't be meeting a cheating guy or some dreamer who won't turn up. However I read how difficult it is for single guys so just wonder if it's going to be just too difficult to meet up with a single or couple on my own .

Any advice or opinion greatly appreciated"

I don't think size of penis equates with success and you're right some people won't meet married men even with permission, there isn't anything you can do about that.

I think you should carry on doing what you're doing i.e. putting yourself forward and making sure people know what you're after contact some ladies and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it from your couples profile,

Make sure you introduce the lady to your lady. Do a few socials . Invite her to your home ,

You will be surprised at how many married single women who are cheating on their husbands won't meet you. But the ones that do will be amazing

Don't message the women first let them message you, patience is a virtue and this way works..

Jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not contact another couple who like the same thing I.e meeting alone , then you could meet as couples , see how you get on and then maybe meet separately at a later date , that way you all know the score and can be sure all the partners are aware of the situation . We met a couple on holidays a few years ago and on the second meet we went to our separate hotels with each other's partners , worked well for us ,

Good luck , hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this & now have separate profiles as well as the couple one, we found other couples to be suspicious if we approached them from the couple profile seeking a single meet. We're not always well received by some couples on fab but we've had a lot of fun this way & its suited us for now x

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