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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm lost, never been replied to, what am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read of your profile and honestly ask yourself would ladies/couples see you a worth replying to

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

2 poor pics and that profile text I'm not surprised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, I'll have to have a rethink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres notting on your profile explaining who u are lol no wonder ur not gettin any replys my advice is more pics for sure either public or friends albums and deffo more info about u even have a wee look at other males profiles to get some ideas if your stuck but u wont be just talk about u what kind of a guy u are what u like doing theres tons of stuff personaly i would deffo not reply to a profile like that i wish u well happy swinging to ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that any better? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you have a read through the forums and have a look at lots of single male profiles and the ones with lots of verifications see what they do different to you, also think about attending some socials and clubs to get yourself known

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By *r Mrs Tusty69Couple
over a year ago

derby

Morning Tony

just thought I'd be honest hunn.

Just been and had a look at your profile.

everything is so uninviting.

Pictures blurred not sexy

boring information about yourself. You don't need to tell the whole of fab you've had no luck ever. Because tbh all I thought was hmm I wonder what's wrong with him. It already got me suspicious straight away.

keep trying and have a look at other profiles for ideas only. Then sit back and ask yourself.

Would you date YOURSELF.

good luck Tony

happy fabbing

Louise xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah little bit better but drop the not haven luck on here an went on fourm for sureol its a bit hard for us to explain what to write as where a couple and your well you yeno so ur on here looking for fun times and friendship your genuine ur non pushy an a really down to earth nice guy think of this site as a dating site what would u say about ur self its the same thing most women will not meet any male just after a quick shag even though its a sex site but just look at as dating bar from the hobbies part lol well i suppose u can put them up but iv never seen anyones hobbies in there profiles lol anyway after u have that sorted get on the fourms uk an ireland get in with the banter and jokes have a laugh same with chat rooms an deffo get to a meet an greet or party keep putting ur name down even.if u get refused they will see ur not a time waster an let u come along after that well thats up to u how u work if u know what i mean goodluck

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A line about why you can't accommodate would be good. If it'cos you're attached then simply say so. It will cross you off some people's list but the ones who do meet attached people tend to prefer someone be upfront about it. If it's cos you have kids or houseshare then say because many will,assume it's cos you're married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A line about why you can't accommodate would be good. If it'cos you're attached then simply say so. It will cross you off some people's list but the ones who do meet attached people tend to prefer someone be upfront about it. If it's cos you have kids or houseshare then say because many will,assume it's cos you're married. "

He says he misses sex so I've got my suspicions that he's married and not getting it at home, that's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, I was cheated on by my wife and left with nothing, had to move back in with my parents , not something I like to brag about, so that's why I haven't had a lot of sex in the last two years, as why I can't accommodate x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No, I was cheated on by my wife and left with nothing, had to move back in with my parents , not something I like to brag about, so that's why I haven't had a lot of sex in the last two years, as why I can't accommodate x"

Then just say you can't accom cos you share your place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note have a look at a few of the guys within the forums that often give feed back on profiles. By looking to see how they have construct theirs and the type of pictures / layout / wording and something about you in there.

GL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work "

In your profile you come across really nice... this just makes you look mean!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work

In your profile you come across really nice... this just makes you look mean!! "

I am nice! I am just having a light bit if banter with the man as he has been through a lot, hence the additional post directly below. But if I did offend him apologies buddy

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Consider a club or social to get to know people and to get some verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work

In your profile you come across really nice... this just makes you look mean!!

I am nice! I am just having a light bit if banter with the man as he has been through a lot, hence the additional post directly below. But if I did offend him apologies buddy "

Yeh, you did! I missed that whilst reading your profile! Good save!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work

In your profile you come across really nice... this just makes you look mean!!

I am nice! I am just having a light bit if banter with the man as he has been through a lot, hence the additional post directly below. But if I did offend him apologies buddy

Yeh, you did! I missed that whilst reading your profile! Good save! "

lol thanks would never be overtly rude as not in my nature where as silliness and light heartedness is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I must say I am shocked that you have not had them kicking the doors of there hinges to get to you. What a well constructed profile keep up the good work

In your profile you come across really nice... this just makes you look mean!!

I am nice! I am just having a light bit if banter with the man as he has been through a lot, hence the additional post directly below. But if I did offend him apologies buddy

Yeh, you did! I missed that whilst reading your profile! Good save!

lol thanks would never be overtly rude as not in my nature where as silliness and light heartedness is "

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding pictures, a lot of people seem to forget that your audience is likely to be _iewing you on a mobile phone. So your pic to me is less than 1cm and not clear at that. All I can see is the flash. I like to see a nice face or a nice body as the profile pic. If these Aren't your strong points, then put in a cock pic to entice the ladies. Fill the frame with your pic!!! Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I was cheated on by my wife and left with nothing, had to move back in with my parents , not something I like to brag about, so that's why I haven't had a lot of sex in the last two years, as why I can't accommodate x"

That sucks! Sorry to hear! I've been cheated too! X

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Spend your time looking at MENS profiles, till you get a good idea of what a good profile looks and sounds like!

Then follow their example, and polish your own profile till it shines, stands out!

The more effort you put in, the more results you will enjoy.

at the moment your profile is pants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your constructive advice everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the advice given here mate . When I first came on I asked advice And more importantly I took it !! I have since had lots of meets with lovely ladies .look at mine and get a idea . Its worked for me and I am 52

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am surprised that you are surprised that people don't contact or reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you REALLY surprised?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Are you REALLY surprised? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lost, never been replied to, what am I doing wrong? "

your profile says it all m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm lost, never been replied to, what am I doing wrong? "

The profile is over a year old and you've had no meets? That would put me off straight away.

I'd start anew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pics. Poor body shots. I look at profiles and if they dont have several very good clear face pics. Then i delete.

Sorry thats how it is. X

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