You may be doing nothing wrong, merely needing to compete with the rest of the single guys. Id add a wider range of public pics and remove anything that could be viewed as negative or ambiguous. If it is unclear, then be very specific, so others understand you well. We wont know whether you are selecting the most appropriate recipients for your messages - if you are matching your interests to theirs, then you are doing your best. Ultimately we cant know whether they will find you attractive or not, or if your messages are great or poor. Most recipients look at the senders profile before reading messages,so refining your profile is the most important thing, alongside picking good matches. Your age may rule some out, but there are also others who like it - search wisely. Try to make some friends, perhaps who could help with travel. Also, to help keep your spirits up, as you single guys can have a hard time. Look for socials and clubs, if possible, that you can use, as it is better to not exclusively rely on just fab. Good luck! Sophie |