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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a straight guy that have up to now only been interested in meeting single women. Thought about dipping my toe in and maybe meet a couple with the lady being the source of interest. Bit apprehenseive though and dont want to feel like a pratt. Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact couples to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I realise that bit lol

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

go with the flow

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Read the couples profile, see where.gov match up and point this out when you contact them, explain what you're looking for and if things progress discuss expectations and limits beforehand.

You don't need to be bi, lots of couples enjoy a second man joining in

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

*where you match up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the centre of interest should be the couple not just her, and thats for straight guys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the centre of interest should be the couple not just her, and thats for straight guys as well

couldn't agree more, nothing gets me looking for the block quicker than a guy writing to us as if I didn't exist....dude

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"the centre of interest should be the couple not just her, and thats for straight guys as well

couldn't agree more, nothing gets me looking for the block quicker than a guy writing to us as if I didn't exist....dude "

yes the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi meeting couples can be daunting make sure u get to speak to both people and have meet where you feel comfortable public place no pressure meet every one needs to feel ok if don't ok to leave $happy hunting Plymouth bi couple if do a house meet do only what happy with don't feel have to do anything can always leave too swinging should no string fun -)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it that worries you particularly? We are a straight man couple, and all the couples we meet have straight men. Those that play with single men have plenty of fun, in fact the Mrs' love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send nice polite message to couples seeking single men. Keep a look out for socials in your area or go to a club on the single men nights.

Oh and when you message a couple or speak to them don't ignore the man or speak directly to her boobies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never ignore the guy when messaging. just like to be sure which of the couple I am chatting to. I would never be ignorant of both.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I never ignore the guy when messaging. just like to be sure which of the couple I am chatting to. I would never be ignorant of both."

It can be difficult for the single man because sometimes it isn't clear. I don't envy single men for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to hear that you never ignore the guy, so many do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to hear that you never ignore the guy, so many do !"

bloody annoying isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody annoying isnt it

very annoying and a definite way to get ours backs up and reach for the block button, all it takes is a bit of good old fashioned manners.

Hate the way that some guys think that because we are on here that we are not a close 'together' couple, its because we are close, able to communicate with each other and have the confidence in our relationship that we do invite others to join us from time to time......rant over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Understand honestly. Manners are a big thing for me too. Many ignorant people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the centre of interest should be the couple not just her, and thats for straight guys as well"

Well said. Both M need to connect too to make the experience horny and worthwhile for everyone. Lucky F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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bloody annoying isnt it

very annoying and a definite way to get ours backs up and reach for the block button, all it takes is a bit of good old fashioned manners.

Hate the way that some guys think that because we are on here that we are not a close 'together' couple, its because we are close, able to communicate with each other and have the confidence in our relationship that we do invite others to join us from time to time......rant over "

Well said 95% of the people we block is for this reson. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definately would not ignore anyone, male or female. Just saying I am straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a straight guy that have up to now only been interested in meeting single women. Thought about dipping my toe in and maybe meet a couple with the lady being the source of interest. Bit apprehenseive though and dont want to feel like a pratt. Any advice?"

See that would suggest that you're looking for couples just so you get to fuck the woman maybe because you haven't had much success with single women...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never ignore the guy when messaging. just like to be sure which of the couple I am chatting to. I would never be ignorant of both."

We don't like it when in the first few messages a guy wants to know who he's talking to. We just ask, why does that matter but invariably the conversation is different if we say it's either Martin or Diane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple, we LOVE playing with another couple, because we both get turned on by watching the other doing some dirty, sexy things to somebody else... I will admit I love to watch G he sucked off, go down on or fuck another girl... And I know he loves to watch me with another guy.

But single men? So far our experiences haven't got us anywhere we would want to take further. Most single men are only into one thing... Fucking me. But not in the way they should be, more so by not being able to talk over a few messages without spouting it out like it's his first lay.

We tend to chat, get to know people, even become friends first, before we do anything. Of course in clubs it's different, we love to chat and have a laugh first and then go into sexy fun But that's because we can see them.

So in short... Single males tend to be a no go, because the you sex above most else. At least in our experiences! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if, as the male half of the couple, i cannot have a decent chat with a guy, as thats all the interraction i would get from a single bloke, then why would we invite him to join us?

you need to fully engage with both halves of the couple for it to be right, and your opening gambit just says you arent interested in anything to do with the husband/boyfriend.

for you it may well be just about getting a bit, but for us its definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple that meet single guys, it has to be someone that's not fazed by being naked around other men, someone that Luke can get along with and hold a decent conversation. Just remember that there are 2 people involved in a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple that meet single guys, it has to be someone that's not fazed by being naked around other men, someone that Luke can get along with and hold a decent conversation. Just remember that there are 2 people involved in a couple "

Couldn't agree more, we've had meets were the man has turned up and surprise surprise has said he was not comfortable with paul being there, expecting paul to wait downstairs, never gonna happen lol

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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago

In and around

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