FabSwingers.com forum: How to bring the subject up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being new to all this and seeing how many ppl are swingers, How would you know if a couple are interested, what signs should i look out for without just coming out with it, I have had a lot conversations with random couples in pubs/clubs that might have been trying to chat me up, am a bit slow on reading there signals, lol I always walk away thinking was they.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the best thing is to assume that unless they come right out with it they are not looking for anything more than just chatting. Stick to swingers clubs and sites like this to avoid awlward misunderstandings and punches on the nose

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

get a chameleon badge or tattoo if swingers they will ask you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being new to all this and seeing how many ppl are swingers, How would you know if a couple are interested, what signs should i look out for without just coming out with it, I have had a lot conversations with random couples in pubs/clubs that might have been trying to chat me up, am a bit slow on reading there signals, lol I always walk away thinking was they."

Have a look at their hands if they are both wearing rings, ask him if he is her friend workmates brother etc.

If he says husband and wife , move to someone with their sister lol

It's very common a lot more common than you think

Anklets are not an indication of hot wife just in case someone else suggests it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well they were either not interested in me or not swingers, Am trying not to sound like a total perv, but but when i am talking to them i cant help thinking do they or don't they but like you said i wouldn't bring the subject up myself and i have never been to swinging clubs, I wouldn't go on my own and a tattoo no thanks they look good on other ppl not me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks i will try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a chameleon badge or tattoo if swingers they will ask you lol

We got chameleons tattoos but you need to get us naked to see..... By then I think you'll know already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may he wrong, but i think the chances of you finding a swinging couple from randomly chatting on a night out are very slim. If they are cruising for a second cock it will be obvious. Best stick to prearranged meets.

In the unlikely event that you are able to talk your way into going home with a couple, its very unlikely they have thought everything through properly and it could be a recipe for disaster.

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