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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just having a search and found a friends boyfriend online, as a single male searching for couples!

Eek.... do I pretend I haven't seen?

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By *annameet6Man
over a year ago

tarvin

You have to ignore it. Put yourself in their position, im sure you appreciate someones silence.

Thats how i look at it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How close are you to your friend? If it were my close friend I'd be a bit pissed they didn't tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How close are you to your friend? If it were my close friend I'd be a bit pissed they didn't tell me."
..Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message him and see what he does, don't send facepic and arrange a meet, then turn up to meet him with you and his girlfriend and all have avoid time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My brothers best friend, his wife sisters boyfriend so I only know them socially.

But I know enough to know they are very 'coupled' up. Live together with kids etc.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"My brothers best friend, his wife sisters boyfriend so I only know them socially.

But I know enough to know they are very 'coupled' up. Live together with kids etc.

"

Thing is, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. She may well know and be perfectly happy about it. If this is true, they probably won't take kindly to you getting involved. If it was me, I would block him, so he doesn't see you and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally, steer well clear.

its always the messenger that gets shot, and lets not forget, you being on here will come out too, so you will have to tread carefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My brothers best friend, his wife sisters boyfriend so I only know them socially.

But I know enough to know they are very 'coupled' up. Live together with kids etc.

"

So not a 'friend' as such. I'd stay clear, as suggested already, you don't know what goes on in their relationship.

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By *oughnut and radoxWoman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

Will she thank you if she knows somehow I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

steer well clear x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

avoid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having a search and found a friends boyfriend online, as a single male searching for couples!

Eek.... do I pretend I haven't seen? "

Your mates boyfriend is cheating in her. Multiple times even. She would want to know and just think how you would feel if your mate knew and didn't tell you and you knew she knew later on?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

A clear case of nunya.

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"A clear case of nunya."

Agree just block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My brothers best friend, his wife sisters boyfriend so I only know them socially.

But I know enough to know they are very 'coupled' up. Live together with kids etc.

So not a 'friend' as such. I'd stay clear, as suggested already, you don't know what goes on in their relationship. "

this plus I'd block him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a really close friends boyfriend I would tell them, my friends know I'm on here though and I have nothing to hide

As it's someone you don't really know that well, I would just go with the advice given, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How close are you to your friend? If it were my close friend I'd be a bit pissed they didn't tell me...Same here. "

And here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he's not looking for a single female which could lead to more than NSA fun.....slightly twisted logic I know, but you get my drift!

Unless you discuss relationship issues with her ~ I wouldn't say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't you doing the same thing as him though being married and on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its his life not yours so leave alone would you like folk interfering in your life.

unless you have concrete evidence his gf is unaware.

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