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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's virtually impossible to have continuity of conversation with some women on this site. The sheer volume of messages they must receive disables them from replying to the last thread. Does anyone else have this issue or do you think they are just being rude? Grrrrr frustration!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there intrested mate there be in touch. Just take it as a no thanks and move on

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If someone is no longer replying to your messages they probably are no longer interested. Some do get lots of messages but would probably make sure they found your if they were that bothered.

It's not rude though really, unfortunately some people on here don't take rejection well so it's easier just to stop chatting.

Just concentrate on those that do reply rather than those who don't.

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

If you're a site supporter you get a last messages list, however yes ladies get a LOT of messages. If they aren't site supporters help them out my copying and pasting your last message and as the previous poster said if the conversation isn't going anywhere call it a day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose your right. I should just think if they can't be bothered chatting then they are not worth the effort

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

They may well be worth the effort. It's almost impossible to keep track of conversations without membership, and even with it on a busy week it is really hard to keep up with deleting read mail - I wish the system would change so that only ONE conversation header per contact showed.

However, the one thing that will most likely ensure you repeatedly get lost in the bottom of a busy mailbox or deleted by mistake is a black head instead of an avatar pic!! Get a pic up, even of it's only your elbow, something unique to remind people it's you in the message!

It sometimes takes me days to get down to the bottom of the inbox, especially if I already have several lively conversations ongoing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is just not into you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose your right. I should just think if they can't be bothered chatting then they are not worth the effort"

Maybe you can't keep the convo going, it's dried up and they're no longer interested. It is not because they can't be bothered chatting but because of how many messages they get, if you're sending a face pic then they might not find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose your right. I should just think if they can't be bothered chatting then they are not worth the effort"

And grow a thick skin, you'll need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I'm thick skinned and I can accept rejection no prob. I might put a profile pic up tho if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm thick skinned and I can accept rejection no prob. I might put a profile pic up tho if that helps"

Yes it will. Sending a face pic with a message will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is true that single females can be overwhelmed with inbox messages.

Why not try using the Chat Rooms - there are no more than about 180 people in each room (even at the busiest time), so you have more chance of gaining and keeping someone's attention.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Oh I'm thick skinned and I can accept rejection no prob. I might put a profile pic up tho if that helps"

And it had to be a cock one???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm thick skinned and I can accept rejection no prob. I might put a profile pic up tho if that helps"

Any reason why it had to be a cock?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm surprised you get a reply at all to be honest. I always read the profile before the message: dull, uninspired ones are ignored. If they can't be arsed to fill in a profile about themselves they must be boring...ooh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont to bad...but yes it is ....apita

and the wink system is shit also.....

very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's virtually impossible to have continuity of conversation with some women on this site. The sheer volume of messages they must receive disables them from replying to the last thread. Does anyone else have this issue or do you think they are just being rude? Grrrrr frustration!"

why after the first few messages i normaly switch to using kik/whatsapp/text

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Surely if you keep replying using the original message thread you'll both be able to see all the responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you keep replying using the original message thread you'll both be able to see all the responses. "
only if you pay do you have the chat history plus what happens when the original thread ends up dropping off her page?

Not many people use the save message feature I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'm thick skinned and I can accept rejection no prob. I might put a profile pic up tho if that helps

Any reason why it had to be a cock? "

We always assume it's because they consider that best describes them... a cock no offence meant xx

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