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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why post then remove it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at going a club for first time but a bit nervous on my own as not sure what to do or expect. Any top or help please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why post then remove it? "

Didn't mean to remove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh ok. Well first things first, just because you've paid to get in does not mean you are entitled to/ guaranteed a shag, be yourself. Talk to everybody, treat it as a social and if you do have a shag then that's a bonus. If someone says no then take no as an answer, don't push your luck otherwise you might get a slap for being desperate. Always read FAQ's on the website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what you are looking for is a little reassurance,Firstly going to a club is a great idea to get you more involved in the scene and get a far better feel about it in general, its also an excellent way to get veries off real swingers. Like all or at least most first timers you will be extremely nervous. Once you have entered , if you choose your club carefully, you will wonder why you were worried at all. Treat people with respect and respect the club rules which they will have on their website. Whilst you may be a little apprehensive make an effort to chat to people and tell them that it is your first time. Anyone who is decent will understand this and make an effort to help you feel at ease. Remember not to be to pushy but also not to shy, as long as you are a decent guy and can hold a conversation you will be fine. One last note do some research on the club you try for the first time, because some are not really clubs just more like places to relive you of £££ because the girls are getting paid.

Hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel the same way. Did go once with female friend but just soically. Was OK but not really many there at the time. Hope to have the bottle to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk in and wonder what all the fuss is about.

No guarantees but act decent relax and chat to people.

Sounds easy in principal but can see how hard it can be. Perhaps find an understanding couple or person to go with you if you can't face it.

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