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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok here goes, firstly my partner doesnt mind me playing on my own, but she would now like to bring another woman into the equation, have tried but with no sucess, she does not want her pic on site, she has a job in the public eye, any tips on how i can improve my results, this will be her first time with another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here a short while, patience

Your profile is single

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Single fems are in high demand and if you're looking for a bi one even more so.

So they will generally pass over a message from a single guy asking them to meet him and his girlf when there is no info about her and no pic - there are plenty of couples who are looking so why go for the incomplete profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not gonna get anywhere if you have no pics or info of her, you cant be arsed writing a profile properly and you're acting as a single guy instead of a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, firstly my partner doesnt mind me playing on my own, but she would now like to bring another woman into the equation, have tried but with no sucess, she does not want her pic on site, she has a job in the public eye, any tips on how i can improve my results, this will be her first time with another woman"

There's more words in this post than your profile.

And if your other half wants in on the fun - set up a couples profile. Its easy to maintain discretion - for singles or couples - so your reasoning for her not joining the site is pointless.

And nobody will believe she exists - you will simply come across as a single guy using the bait of another woman to attract interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will be suspicious of a single male profile claiming to be a couple.

As a minimum open a couples profile and get photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of fake couple profiles with pictures, yours doesnt stand a chance of getting in front of them in the queue.

if your other half wants to remain anon then your only chance is to go to clubs with her.

despite you starting the topic i dont believe there is another half thats how much we mistrust profiles on here, i am afraid it is down to you to prove you are genuine, not for others to trust you and take your word for it.

sorry if that is harsh but it is how things are around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, firstly my partner doesnt mind me playing on my own, but she would now like to bring another woman into the equation, have tried but with no sucess, she does not want her pic on site, she has a job in the public eye, any tips on how i can improve my results, this will be her first time with another woman"

get along to socials and meet people in the flesh that way all can see whats what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very suspicious! Would avoid a situation like this. Why would any genuine single fem be attracted to this scenario when there are genuine couples out there who are more appealing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

either set up a couples profile with body pictures of your lady or get her to set up a singles profile. The old "her job is too high profile to have pictures" won't wash, anyone who knows both of you would recognise you anyway.

This site is awash with men who use an invisible female partner as "bait" very few people will believe what you say due to bitter experience.

This isn't to say that you and your partner aren't genuine but you will have difficulty convincing anybody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies, am going to setup a couples profile and see where we go from there

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I see you are from our neck of the woods, broadly speaking.

As has been mentioned, get along to the socials, there are loads in this area.

Forget the old "our jobs mean we are worried about being seen" line, there are members of the judiciary, Police, local govt, tax office etc on here, and the chances are if you do bump into someone you know, they will be as keen to keep quiet about what they are up to as you are!

A couple going to a social and chatting will make loads of potential play friends, and as a minimum you will pick up veries which will certainly aid your search for that (not so elusive as ppl make out) bi fem to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, firstly my partner doesnt mind me playing on my own, but she would now like to bring another woman into the equation, have tried but with no sucess, she does not want her pic on site, she has a job in the public eye, any tips on how i can improve my results, this will be her first time with another woman"

most of us have jobs, it is never easy pimping for someone, doubts arise as to her actual needs. when someone else trys sorting sex out for someone else, you don't need a face pic, so she would be safe, from her " public"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see you are from our neck of the woods, broadly speaking.

As has been mentioned, get along to the socials, there are loads in this area.

Forget the old "our jobs mean we are worried about being seen" line, there are members of the judiciary, Police, local govt, tax office etc on here, and the chances are if you do bump into someone you know, they will be as keen to keep quiet about what they are up to as you are!

A couple going to a social and chatting will make loads of potential play friends, and as a minimum you will pick up veries which will certainly aid your search for that (not so elusive as ppl make out) bi fem to play with. "

Totally agree !! Xx

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