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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers,

Well I've now had two couples who won't meet as I'm not verified.

This is a catch22 then! Any ideas welcome, also any comments on my profile welcomed.

Thanks for reading this

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Firstly get on cam in the chatrooms you'll get a veri that way.

Secondly, what on earth is proportionally built? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tks for that, use my phone so cam is not possible at the mo

Proportionately built for my height I meant! Your right, it's not clear. Will change it, tks.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Check out the Surrey social in the meet requests and parties thread.

Socials are a great way to meet people and get veris. And the purely social ones can be great to get yourself known as a fun and pleasant guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou, that's really good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet for coffee and a chat. I'm new on the site so I meet for lots of coffees and chats. We often go for cake afterward but socials are the way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a social at eurekas end of this month maybe pop your name down, come along and meet like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they specifically said its because you're not verified ?

Or are they using that as a polite way of saying 'no thanks'?

If they were that keen to meet i suspect the lack of verification wouldn't be an issue and that subsequent to the meet they'd be happy to leave you one!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

But be aware that it could just be a convenient excuse.

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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

Group sex events or meet through a club. Maybe get a GF and invite her to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus Christ man, change your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly get on cam in the chatrooms you'll get a veri that way.

Secondly, what on earth is proportionally built? lol

"

I do not class a webcam view as verification personally why not go to socials etc that way real people meet.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting people is the best way by far, we dont take web cam veri's that seriously tbh. Try for gangbangs were plenty of guys are welcome to get yourself started.

either way when you do meet people then dont be afraid to ask them for a veri after you have chatted/played most dont mind doing it for people they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody."

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!"

Reasonable distance? Guess you don't live in the back of beyond like some of us do - or has swinging been further narrowed down to only allowed if you live in a large well populated area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!

Reasonable distance? Guess you don't live in the back of beyond like some of us do - or has swinging been further narrowed down to only allowed if you live in a large well populated area?"

Ohhhhh cac that should have read We DON'T all live within reasonable distances And this area is definitely NOT well populated!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can skype them so they can see if its you.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!

Reasonable distance? Guess you don't live in the back of beyond like some of us do - or has swinging been further narrowed down to only allowed if you live in a large well populated area?

Ohhhhh cac that should have read We DON'T all live within reasonable distances And this area is definitely NOT well populated!! "

I did wonder lovely Legs as we have mentioned in other threads about rurality. (It sucks)

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"[Removed by poster at 07/01/14 16:28:51]"

I think I'll join the 'rural sucks' club if there is a space left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!

Reasonable distance? Guess you don't live in the back of beyond like some of us do - or has swinging been further narrowed down to only allowed if you live in a large well populated area?

Ohhhhh cac that should have read We DON'T all live within reasonable distances And this area is definitely NOT well populated!!

I did wonder lovely Legs as we have mentioned in other threads about rurality. (It sucks)

"

We have indeed huni and that'll teach me to preview messages next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seriously go to a social for a.laugh and expecting nothing more, with that approach I often.meet people get chatting and arrange fun. you get a circle.of friends, people talk you get known and things start happening

this is the same for me.entering the fet scene, I was on the site i use just to see what it's all about, but the first social I went too I met some great people and had a meet arranged from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say bell end pics and nothing else would be off putting as well as the no veris, so a double no if we were looking to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabbers,

Well I've now had two couples who won't meet as I'm not verified.

This is a catch22 then! Any ideas welcome, also any comments on my profile welcomed.

Thanks for reading this

"

We don't mind meeting non verified socially especially if we are on a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, simple.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody.

I beg to differ. We do all live within reasonable distance to a social!

Reasonable distance? Guess you don't live in the back of beyond like some of us do - or has swinging been further narrowed down to only allowed if you live in a large well populated area?

Ohhhhh cac that should have read We DON'T all live within reasonable distances And this area is definitely NOT well populated!!

I did wonder lovely Legs as we have mentioned in other threads about rurality. (It sucks)

"

OK ok ALMOST everybody

But the OP is hardly in the arse end of nowhere.

It also depends what you class as a reasonable distance I suppose.

If there are people local enough to meet there are people to attend a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabbers,

Well I've now had two couples who won't meet as I'm not verified.

This is a catch22 then! Any ideas welcome, also any comments on my profile welcomed.

Thanks for reading this

"

Go to a club, get a verification that way

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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Anybody help? ...tried to leave a veri for someone after meeting today but it won't allow me too. Keeps coming up with 'sorry, but this is only for verified users only blah blah blah etc..'. If someone could explain where I'm going wrong and how to go about it that would be great. It would be their first veri and if I hopefully get one back would be my first as well. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody help? ...tried to leave a veri for someone after meeting today but it won't allow me too. Keeps coming up with 'sorry, but this is only for verified users only blah blah blah etc..'. If someone could explain where I'm going wrong and how to go about it that would be great. It would be their first veri and if I hopefully get one back would be my first as well. Thanks x"

You're not verified yourself, only photo verified, therefore you can't leave a verification for anyone yet!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Anybody help? ...tried to leave a veri for someone after meeting today but it won't allow me too. Keeps coming up with 'sorry, but this is only for verified users only blah blah blah etc..'. If someone could explain where I'm going wrong and how to go about it that would be great. It would be their first veri and if I hopefully get one back would be my first as well. Thanks x"

You can't verify until you're verified, if it's a lady or couple you met,get them to get cam verified then they can verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ man, change your profile pic "

Indeed. Not remotely sexy or standing out.

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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Thanks but that makes no sense whatsoever Bit of a dilemma that.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Thanks but that makes no sense whatsoever Bit of a dilemma that."

Basically it's to stop folk verifying themselves...I could have a male and female unverified profile and give myself the green tick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but that makes no sense whatsoever Bit of a dilemma that."

Of course it makes sense. To verify someone, you must first be verified. So if the person/people you met today were verified, get them to leave you a verification and then after that you can return one.

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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Thanks but that makes no sense whatsoever Bit of a dilemma that.

Basically it's to stop folk verifying themselves...I could have a male and female unverified profile and give myself the green tick..."

Ah I see...can see the sense in it now

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I gather it's a Catch 22 situation as neither party has yet been verified.

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By *ev-PMan
over a year ago

Hampshire


"From what I gather it's a Catch 22 situation as neither party has yet been verified."

Yeah..no doubt there are lots of genuine people on here in the same situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, lots of replies and some good ideas, thankyou one and all for taking the time to reply.

I will indeed change profile pic but can't use a facial one due to my job (yes, honestly); however point taken, thanks again and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's also the point that not being verified is so easy to remedy. As has been said, there are socials within a reasonable distance of everybody."

You obviously don't live in west cumbria

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