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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya!

We have been on and off FAB for a while now and had no luck what so ever with finding a woman to play with. We have even changed our profile to look for couples who are willing to let the lady play but we still have no luck. The woman doesn't even have to be bi or curious-I am more than happy to let Lee play while I just watch, but people who want to be part of this seem to be hard to come by!

*sigh*

Any suggestions or ideas?

Kate and Lee

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By *uck_us_hardCouple
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire

I think you look great, the only thing I would say is that you state you haven't found what you are looking for I n your first sentence, maybe state what you're looking for? Apart from that I think you look great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what your looking for us very difficult and as for couples what in it for the guy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya!

We have been on and off FAB for a while now and had no luck what so ever with finding a woman to play with. We have even changed our profile to look for couples who are willing to let the lady play but we still have no luck. The woman doesn't even have to be bi or curious-I am more than happy to let Lee play while I just watch, but people who want to be part of this seem to be hard to come by!

*sigh*

Any suggestions or ideas?

Kate and Lee "

A profile is an advert, you are looking for a lady for the male, so it follows you need a pic of the male on the profile...

Also let him play alone with women, until he finds one that would be happy to have you present, it would be easier if she built up some confidence in him first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy hunting. Pics of the male will help

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But what your looking for us very difficult and as for couples what in it for the guy ?"

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not a bi single female ? Like has been said not much in it for the guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But what your looking for us very difficult and as for couples what in it for the guy ?"

This And I'm not sure what's in if for a single woman either as it seems all about the OP's fantasy.

The bit about being full swap if you all get carries away is also quite unappealing - it sound like a carrot that is being dangled to make you more attractive to couples.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

So, all about you two then

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hiya!

We have been on and off FAB for a while now and had no luck what so ever with finding a woman to play with. We have even changed our profile to look for couples who are willing to let the lady play but we still have no luck. The woman doesn't even have to be bi or curious-I am more than happy to let Lee play while I just watch, but people who want to be part of this seem to be hard to come by!

*sigh*

Any suggestions or ideas?

Kate and Lee "

If I'm looking for a dress I don't go to Top Man so having a picture of you whilst looking for a straight woman for your partner is hardly the way to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True , but there are bi single females that prefere to play with mf couples to say single men

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"True , but there are bi single females that prefere to play with mf couples to say single men "

True, but the op states the female doesn't have to be bi or bi curious and it's for her partner! Personally, I like to see potential playmates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks....will have a go at changing profile.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics needed guys x imyself have always enjoyed watching , but ur prob not gonna find many single straight women who will be keen on it , think its a bi female thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the problem here... assjme you are contacting women and not waiting for them to contact you ?

We've had loads of meets with single bi-fems, we just send them a nice detailed message, stating what we're into and what we want and have had some cracking meets as a result. We're 58 and 42 years old too, so a pair of young 'uns like you two should be having meets every week. Mind you, if you're looking for a couple that looked like they stepped right out of the centre spread of Hello! magazine then that might be the stumbling block ?

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By *punk4u2Man
over a year ago

coventry

hi i have just moved down to birmingham and am struggling to get a nsa meet.

any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are Kate and Lee and have been using FAB and other sites for about a year now, however, we have still not found exactly what we are looking for..."

I'd remove this sentence and the bit about blocking people if they 'mess you about' - keep it positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have same problem. Been on and off this site for ages and every single time i make the effort to read someones profile, completely fit what they are looking for, am polite in messages, and my messages get deleted with no response. Complete waste of time and many many fake profiles

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can't see the problem here... assjme you are contacting women and not waiting for them to contact you ?

We've had loads of meets with single bi-fems, we just send them a nice detailed message, stating what we're into and what we want and have had some cracking meets as a result. We're 58 and 42 years old too, so a pair of young 'uns like you two should be having meets every week. Mind you, if you're looking for a couple that looked like they stepped right out of the centre spread of Hello! magazine then that might be the stumbling block ? "

The problem is seeking a STRAIGHT female for her partner with NO picture of him. Don't think many women would go for that hence why they're struggling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh i regularly search what i am looking for and if i also fit exactly the sort they are looking for, i send them a message with a body pic (none nude). Ive sent endless emails with no reply. Just deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some actual pictures of lee that show off more than his back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some actual pictures of lee that show off more than his back"

Im working on it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some actual pictures of lee that show off more than his back"

Im working on it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe some actual pictures of lee that show off more than his back"

Im working on it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the forumites have given you some great advice on this thread. Not sure why you have added a status update, stating 'note to self do not post on forum' #vultures#

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought the forumites have given you some great advice on this thread. Not sure why you have added a status update, stating 'note to self do not post on forum' #vultures# "

Well observed there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought the forumites have given you some great advice on this thread. Not sure why you have added a status update, stating 'note to self do not post on forum' #vultures# "

Well observed there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only asked 'why'

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