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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys and girls. I need a bit of advice or maybe a wake up call!

I dont seem to be having much luck here, im respectful and polite and never dive in with the old 'fancy a shag line?' Ive got more respect for myself and others to stoop that low!

Is this is the problem, should i be dirty, is that what girls want on here?

Or is the reality that im a bit minging and should just leave fab.....im a young, friendly, outgoing guy who is a manager for a top fashion highstreet store so have good dress sense and keep myself looked after if that makes sense

. I in know way think this guarantees by the way but surely these are some positives!

Any 'useful' advice would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endless threads on here asking the samething mate. Look at the replys to them. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks like you spent about 30 seconds writing it and even less time on the pictures. Your post above is far better written and far more detailed, why not put similar etffort in to your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cock pics, we know what one looks like, a cock is a cock

Put more effort into your profile

Minimal effort = minimal rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your headline "back once again" and this post suggest you regularly throw a hissy fit and delete your profile, only to come back when you calm down.

Not attractive.

Neither are the pics.

Profile blurb is short and says nothing about you except that you are genuine (which means sweet FA) and need to be discreet, which usually means married. Why else would a single man have to be discreet about having sex with someone?

Hope this helps.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"hi guys and girls. I need a bit of advice or maybe a wake up call!

I dont seem to be having much luck here, im respectful and polite and never dive in with the old 'fancy a shag line?' Ive got more respect for myself and others to stoop that low!

Is this is the problem, should i be dirty, is that what girls want on here?

Or is the reality that im a bit minging and should just leave fab.....im a young, friendly, outgoing guy who is a manager for a top fashion highstreet store so have good dress sense and keep myself looked after if that makes sense

. I in know way think this guarantees by the way but surely these are some positives!

Any 'useful' advice would be much appreciated

"

no offence... you probably spent more time on writing this post.... than you spent on writing your "shop window to the world" (your profile)......

it says absolutely nothing about you.. o the people you would be interested it... it is just generic fluff......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say this... hang on not sorry anyone else getting bored with these types of posts.

O p only based on my experience but you get out what you put into it but remember no guarantees and accept as we all do that others may just not be keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys and girls. I need a bit of advice or maybe a wake up call!

I dont seem to be having much luck here, im respectful and polite and never dive in with the old 'fancy a shag line?' Ive got more respect for myself and others to stoop that low!

Is this is the problem, should i be dirty, is that what girls want on here?

Or is the reality that im a bit minging and should just leave fab.....im a young, friendly, outgoing guy who is a manager for a top fashion highstreet store so have good dress sense and keep myself looked after if that makes sense

. I in know way think this guarantees by the way but surely these are some positives!

Any 'useful' advice would be much appreciated

"

you are only wasting your time if you have something better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys and girls. I need a bit of advice or maybe a wake up call!

I dont seem to be having much luck here, im respectful and polite and never dive in with the old 'fancy a shag line?' Ive got more respect for myself and others to stoop that low!

Is this is the problem, should i be dirty, is that what girls want on here?

Or is the reality that im a bit minging and should just leave fab.....im a young, friendly, outgoing guy who is a manager for a top fashion highstreet store so have good dress sense and keep myself looked after if that makes sense

. I in know way think this guarantees by the way but surely these are some positives!

Any 'useful' advice would be much appreciated

"

You know what they say..."good things come to those who wait"

Maybe take note of the constructive criticism regarding your profile, other than that be patient (or maybe visit a club or two )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys and girls. I need a bit of advice or maybe a wake up call!

I dont seem to be having much luck here, im respectful and polite and never dive in with the old 'fancy a shag line?' Ive got more respect for myself and others to stoop that low!

Is this is the problem, should i be dirty, is that what girls want on here?

Or is the reality that im a bit minging and should just leave fab.....im a young, friendly, outgoing guy who is a manager for a top fashion highstreet store so have good dress sense and keep myself looked after if that makes sense

. I in know way think this guarantees by the way but surely these are some positives!

Any 'useful' advice would be much appreciated

"

You know what they say..."good things come to those who wait"

Maybe take note of the constructive criticism regarding your profile, other than that be patient (or maybe visit a club or two )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your problem, " Northampton".....

Only joking.

Take a look at some profiles of guys. The ones that have verries and seem to be sucessful. Dont copy but you will see

What works.

I hasten to add I am very much my own person and do it " my way" as big Frank would say. ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pics..nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no face pics..nuff said"

i have face pictures in private that i send with a message due to the fact i have a face like a cows backside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the feedback guys, i didnt realise how much people read into things lol! ill make some changes and hopefully the situation may improve!

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