FabSwingers.com forum: Sending a msg help!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would like to get the opinion of everyone on this.

I'm trying to chat with ladies/couples, so obviously mailing them, but not getting ANY replies!

My msgs are usually a 'hiya, how ye doing?' just to break the ice.

I'm not wanting to seem sleezy or pushy, which is usually a requirement when chatting to someone you don't know for the 1st time.

How would you go about it?

Reply on here or P.M. me plz folks. ....we're all here for fun, any help would be gr8

Cheers

By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe they don't feel they could keep your attention?

By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Most ladies delete 99% of 'hi how are you' messages, I know I do! You need to show that you have made an effort, say something that shows that you have bothered to read their profile, tailor the message to suit the recipient.

You get out of this site what you put in, and 'hi how are you' messages aren't putting much in!

Good luck

By *atty_mooMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

A basic 'hiya, how ye doing?' message is the wrong way to go I am afraid! Try not to write an essay in your first message, so make it short but try to pick out a few things in the profile to show you have read it and that you may be compatible. Try to stick out with maybe a funny (not pervy!) subject line or message to gain attention when they are scanning through their 100s of messages.

I am also aware that some profiles are ridiculously short, without much content, so for these you might want to create a more standardised message, and compliment any photos that are on show (again not pervy!).

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool.

Any gd suggestions on a subject line?

By *atty_mooMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Can't really give any suggestions as these need to come from you rather than someone else to show your personality and tailored to the person you are sending to. Just try to be creative.