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is my profile interesting enough for couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm trying to arrange meets with couples but not getting much luck so I'm wondering if my profile is likely to attract couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude

First line has a mistake in it....And is negative

Then the profile comes across as 'I've tried a few approaches and non worked, so I'll try and get in yer knickers by having a social first.. I don't want to really (as evidenced by not wanting to chat)'

Etc

So, for us it would be a no for sure...

Then again, other opinions may vary

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dude

First line has a mistake in it....And is negative

Then the profile comes across as 'I've tried a few approaches and non worked, so I'll try and get in yer knickers by having a social first.. I don't want to really (as evidenced by not wanting to chat)'

Etc

So, for us it would be a no for sure...

Then again, other opinions may vary

Good luck

"
thanks for the feedback

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

I personally would say a picture that isn't your cock helps as display pic.

Couples get alot of messages especially of cocks so be different, and the text on your profile could be more positive and not mention previous attempts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not even interesting enough for singles let alone couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

which bits meant to be the "interesting bit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say but far too many negatives in any profile sets alarms going off in Miss A head on reading them, so based on you current profile we wouldn't meet.

Plenty of more interesting and better written profiles of men on this site for couples to pick from, one was so good we broke our distances rules and traveled a very long way to meet him.

So a rewrite of your profile make it more positive and rethink your pictures and framing of them.

It's not always about the cock with some.

Other opinions and tastes may vary.

Good luck

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Wondering if you are straight or bi as you have had a meet with a man according to your summary. This probably makes other folk wonder too.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

A couple of things I find curious in profiles:

*Stating you are intelligent, possess a great sense of humour or are laid back - Surely any of these will be self evident to the person reading your profile or come across in any messaging? Having to say you are these things invariably means you are not.

*Stating you don't care about a woman's physical appearance as it's the personality that counts but then going on to say you love, as an example, BBWs or, as in the OP's case, saying you have a preference for red heads.

There are a few more but I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about putting something about wanting to meet couples in your main profile text and explain why and what you are looking for in terms of meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring. "

Thank you for your feedback. My verifications are genuine as how could I fake them???

I will take your points on board and try and think of how to make it more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Alas old boy you can please some of the people some of the time but some who seek their" sex apprentice" can pick and choose and rightly so.

It needs a tweek but there are many worse out there. Knob shot as main pic....? Dont think so. Be positive but in a non bull shitty way . At least you are honest about circumstance. You can be up front about when you are likely to be free too.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring. "

Bland and uninspiring? Well yes its not going to motivate me to climb Everest but check out some of the guff fem profiles : " will fill in later" etc.....and i.bet they still get loads of replys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Alas old boy you can please some of the people some of the time but some who seek their" sex apprentice" can pick and choose and rightly so.

It needs a tweek but there are many worse out there. Knob shot as main pic....? Dont think so. Be positive but in a non bull shitty way . At least you are honest about circumstance. You can be up front about when you are likely to be free too.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring.

Bland and uninspiring? Well yes its not going to motivate me to climb Everest but check out some of the guff fem profiles : " will fill in later" etc.....and i.bet they still get loads of replys!"

I'm sure they do. But not from us.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as you say 'honesty is the best policy' & as long as you are and don't look foolish.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Alas old boy you can please some of the people some of the time but some who seek their" sex apprentice" can pick and choose and rightly so.

It needs a tweek but there are many worse out there. Knob shot as main pic....? Dont think so. Be positive but in a non bull shitty way . At least you are honest about circumstance. You can be up front about when you are likely to be free too.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring.

Bland and uninspiring? Well yes its not going to motivate me to climb Everest but check out some of the guff fem profiles : " will fill in later" etc.....and i.bet they still get loads of replys!"

That's a good point and the women who just write "fill in later"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for your feedback. My verifications are genuine as how could I fake them???

"

You have 2 verifications from when you were on "before". One is the other end of the country and the other has been on here less time than you. Neither profile has any public verifications. Now of course it is perfectly possible that they are genuine but it's enough to set off alarm bells for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married is enough to put us off. You say you want regular meets but if you are married it would clearly be at your convenience. And ultimately there are enough single men who don't come with the risk of an angry wife.

And I'm not convinced how genuine the verifications are. Only gut instinct but enough to put me off.

Alas old boy you can please some of the people some of the time but some who seek their" sex apprentice" can pick and choose and rightly so.

It needs a tweek but there are many worse out there. Knob shot as main pic....? Dont think so. Be positive but in a non bull shitty way . At least you are honest about circumstance. You can be up front about when you are likely to be free too.

Oh and nothing in the profile is "interesting" it's like 100s of others on here, bland and uninspiring.

Bland and uninspiring? Well yes its not going to motivate me to climb Everest but check out some of the guff fem profiles : " will fill in later" etc.....and i.bet they still get loads of replys!

I'm sure they do. But not from us."

Good for you. I am not criticising and would urge all who see a pictureless less than five line profile to pass on to the next one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for your feedback. My verifications are genuine as how could I fake them???

You have 2 verifications from when you were on "before". One is the other end of the country and the other has been on here less time than you. Neither profile has any public verifications. Now of course it is perfectly possible that they are genuine but it's enough to set off alarm bells for me."

Yes for me it seems like the veri's are fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I travel a lot on business and have indeed been to Newcastle many times and Nottingham. All I would say to those who think my verifications are fake is please speak to those ladies to clarify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a lot on business and have indeed been to Newcastle many times and Nottingham. All I would say to those who think my verifications are fake is please speak to those ladies to clarify. "

Would you rather keep shagging people and hurting your wife or will you ever tell her? Never know, she might want to join you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I travel a lot on business and have indeed been to Newcastle many times and Nottingham. All I would say to those who think my verifications are fake is please speak to those ladies to clarify. "

to be honest we take very little notice of verifications and ones that say you're one of the decent southerners would be disregarded straightaway anyway .

You're in competition with a lot of men and that's just the way it is, so you do need to make your profile more interesting.

Have you tried clubs, not so much need to attract by profile then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do respect the honesty though on your profile about being married. Double edged sword though putting that as will probably put off a fair few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a lot on business and have indeed been to Newcastle many times and Nottingham. All I would say to those who think my verifications are fake is please speak to those ladies to clarify. "

Like I say, I have no evidence just gut instinct. And I always listen to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol one of those verifications is from someone who stresses no married men! Neither of those who left veris are showing any veris or any pics.

We wouldn't meet purely cuz you are married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do respect the honesty though on your profile about being married. Double edged sword though putting that as will probably put off a fair few. "

I gathered it would put a few off but I'm sure there must be some that will still be interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have made a a couple of small adjustments, what do you think now

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