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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have met a lady a few times she has been on here for a couple of years with a full friends list (hidden) always on here but when I go on she accuses me of meeting and chatting to others she is married ime not .....what is going on with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, to be clear.... there is a married lady who you have met several times IRL.

But (although you are single) she is not happy that you continue to use Fab.?

I would suggest that you end the relationship with this lady ... it appears she wants to have her cake and eat it.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

she must have that rabbit on the boil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say she's jealous & doesn't want you on here in case you meet someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She apologizes later saying she was joking ....is she jelouse ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a lady a few times she has been on here for a couple of years with a full friends list (hidden) always on here but when I go on she accuses me of meeting and chatting to others she is married ime not .....what is going on with her "

Why is she accusing you of meeting? Have you agreed exclusivity? And is she in any position to expect that?

But ask yourself this. What's the point of getting involved with a married woman with jealousy issues?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't think I was getting involved !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please please, read your question back, do you really need to ask??

We are now in January, the cake and eat it milarky should be over and done with !! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She apologizes later saying she was joking ....is she jelouse ? "

She sounds jealous, im married and have got jealous before but I don't anymore, no point. Single women can get possessive and jealous too, just for info

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you .......time for a sharp exit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She apologizes later saying she was joking ....is she jelouse ?

She sounds jealous, im married and have got jealous before but I don't anymore, no point. Single women can get possessive and jealous too, just for info

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I would guess a jealous single lady is wanting more whereas a jealous married lady is wanting her cake and eating it. Both smack of possessiveness which is not really conducive to swinging unless that's a communicated part of the relationship dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a lady a few times she has been on here for a couple of years with a full friends list (hidden) always on here but when I go on she accuses me of meeting and chatting to others she is married ime not .....what is going on with her "

You are obviously feeding her insecurities, and you have a choice to make, it isn't her problem, or anyone else's, take ownership and you do what feels right.

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"So, to be clear.... there is a married lady who you have met several times IRL.

But (although you are single) she is not happy that you continue to use Fab.?

I would suggest that you end the relationship with this lady ... it appears she wants to have her cake and eat it."

i agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Must admit I thought I was on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She apologizes later saying she was joking ....is she jelouse ?

She sounds jealous, im married and have got jealous before but I don't anymore, no point. Single women can get possessive and jealous too, just for info

I would guess a jealous single lady is wanting more whereas a jealous married lady is wanting her cake and eating it. Both smack of possessiveness which is not really conducive to swinging unless that's a communicated part of the relationship dynamic."

I'm over all that now was last year, you get jealous you lose them, I know to my cost. men don't want possessive women I guess women feel the same

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"She apologizes later saying she was joking ....is she jelouse ? "

If she does it more than once then her apology is meaningless. Anyone truly sorry for their behaviour does not continue to repeat it.

Say bye bye and move on. She won't change no matter how much she apologises. She might for a short period to keep you sweet but her compulsion to have you to herself will always ultimately get the better of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a lady a few times she has been on here for a couple of years with a full friends list (hidden) always on here but when I go on she accuses me of meeting and chatting to others she is married ime not .....what is going on with her "

I love it when my mrs gets jealous she gets so very randy , I do it just for the reaction .

If it's jealousy in a bad way walk away if it's fun jealousy keep douing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play her as she plays you tell her what she wants and shag her.

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

If she is as yousay she is then she will have already read this thread lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Must admit I thought I was on a swinging site "

There will always be some (men and women) that get possessive or jealous, swinging site, or not.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

She is obviously a bunny boiler. Is it worth it?

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