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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. well you wouldn't want friends/family members recognising you would you?" That's why I said if he's got no problem with anyone seeing it. Lots of people aren't bothered about anyone knowing they're on here and if the OP is one it would help to have a public face pic for anyone browsing | |||
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"If someone would like to review mine to that would be really appreciated. " You look miserable in your pic it's not very inviting. And your profile text is pretty bland. Not much info etc | |||
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"Anyone else who wants to offer review please? " Looks pretty good to me (Mrs) but I would shorten it a bit, I get bored reading long profiles....although ours is also a bit longer than I'd like it!! Otherwise I don't think you have anything to worry about xx | |||
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"I've updated the profile text, will do some new pics now." put better pics on like, torso, back and bum, 1 cock shot but most people I've found aren't really interested in them | |||
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"Ok, will take a few more pics? Are cock pics a good idea? Lots of profiles I read say they don't like them. I had a cock pic onhere before I changed it." We don't think there is anything wrong with having a cock pick on your profile but don't just make it about the cock try and get a bit more in if you know what I mean. Plus if you put it on first it will be the last pic that is on your profile so can have the more popular ones (back, bum, torso) at the start | |||
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"Ok, will take a few more pics? Are cock pics a good idea? Lots of profiles I read say they don't like them. I had a cock pic onhere before I changed it." if you want to add a cock pic then it's up to you, but keep it to 1 max add more than 1 and people will get bored | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? " so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock | |||
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"Good answer lol. I'll upload a few more pics now." take 2 of the bum pics off, 1 is enough | |||
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"That ok now? More cock pics or is that ok as it is?" keep it as it is. like i said, more than 1 cock pic gets boring | |||
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"Would like some help with mine x" Hi. There is only one pic and it's of your cock. I would like to see other pics. Would you really meet a 99 year old? . There's not much about you to sell yourself. Hope that's the sort of thing your after X | |||
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"Would like some help with mine x" Can't accommodate so will assume you're playing away from home, get rid of the text speak and upload more pics (no more cock ones) | |||
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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. well you wouldn't want friends/family members recognising you would you?" why not, we are not doing anything illegal or harmfull, swinging is just a small part of who we are, nothing to be ashamed of, unless your lying, cheating and commiting adultery. | |||
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"Any feedback would be appreciated " good profile, just a couple of obstacles to meeting, the word honesty has no place on a profile, honesty is shown over time, words are cheap, actions are whats important. and every one on a site for self gratification judges people within 30 seconds or 5 words in a message, so maybe that line isn't needed. | |||
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"Would like some help with mine x" Any one who mentioned scat in their profile, would be an immediate turn off for me. | |||
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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. well you wouldn't want friends/family members recognising you would you? why not, we are not doing anything illegal or harmfull, swinging is just a small part of who we are, nothing to be ashamed of, unless your lying, cheating and commiting adultery." That is very true all my friends and some of my family know I'm on here. Should I have a public face pic? lol | |||
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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. well you wouldn't want friends/family members recognising you would you? why not, we are not doing anything illegal or harmfull, swinging is just a small part of who we are, nothing to be ashamed of, unless your lying, cheating and commiting adultery." Or want to keep your sex life private to friends and family | |||
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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. " Does that mean the general consensus is face pics do better? | |||
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"Don't know what the reason was to put face pic in private???? If you have no issue with people seeing it then leave it public. Plenty do. Does that mean the general consensus is face pics do better?" Well you can always attach to messages like most do but if for example I was scrolling thru profiles and there were 4 I like the sound of and 2 had face pics I liked and 2 didn't have one at all I would more than likely contact the ones with first. BUT privacy is important to people and I wouldn't ever have a pic public on here if it means I lose out then so be it c | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock " Back pic seemed to grab a lot more attention for me aswell a while back, great advice | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock Back pic seemed to grab a lot more attention for me aswell a while back, great advice " Some like a strong back..... | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock Back pic seemed to grab a lot more attention for me aswell a while back, great advice " How did you manage to take the back picture? did someone else do it for you? | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock Back pic seemed to grab a lot more attention for me aswell a while back, great advice How did you manage to take the back picture? did someone else do it for you?" Some camera's have a delay on them if you were thinking of taking one of yourself | |||
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"I've updated the profile text, will do some new pics now. put better pics on like, torso, back and bum, 1 cock shot but most people I've found aren't really interested in them" Lies you love a good cock pic | |||
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"I've updated the profile text, will do some new pics now. put better pics on like, torso, back and bum, 1 cock shot but most people I've found aren't really interested in them Lies you love a good cock pic" Only yours though | |||
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"Pics are all the same, you're married and the Sydney bit at the bottom is absolutely pointless and does not do anything whatsoever so remove it" Pics changed, Sydney bit removed, can't do anything about being married though :/ lol | |||
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"Pics are all the same, you're married and the Sydney bit at the bottom is absolutely pointless and does not do anything whatsoever so remove it Pics changed, Sydney bit removed, can't do anything about being married though :/ lol" Erm yes you can! Divorce her! And don't give me the "I love her" BS | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now?" Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep" Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all " You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site | |||
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"Ok what about my profile then guys " Can't accommodate, need to explain why | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site " Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? | |||
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"Ok, why a picture of my back though? so people have got something to look at other than your torso, bum and cock Back pic seemed to grab a lot more attention for me aswell a while back, great advice Some like a strong back....." especially when it going to have a saddle strapped to it | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? " Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you | |||
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"I may as well be a cheerful newbie sheep, and ask what everyone thinks of my profile, as it seems to be quite the thing to do." Most people won't meet you because of your age. They will have kids your age | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you " Was just pointing out that your post in the 'Non Swingers!!!' thread a few hours ago - "so because I don't have sex/meets I shouldn't be on here?! " might look a bit hypocritical saying others shouldn't be on here if they're not looking for meets, and simply use the site for chat and giggles! | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you Was just pointing out that your post in the 'Non Swingers!!!' thread a few hours ago - "so because I don't have sex/meets I shouldn't be on here?! " might look a bit hypocritical saying others shouldn't be on here if they're not looking for meets, and simply use the site for chat and giggles! " I'm using it to find someone I have a connection and attraction to, which I have, and will be meeting him in a few weeks | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you Was just pointing out that your post in the 'Non Swingers!!!' thread a few hours ago - "so because I don't have sex/meets I shouldn't be on here?! " might look a bit hypocritical saying others shouldn't be on here if they're not looking for meets, and simply use the site for chat and giggles! I'm using it to find someone I have a connection and attraction to, which I have, and will be meeting him in a few weeks" Which is fine. Telling others how they should/can use the site isn't fine. | |||
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"I may as well be a cheerful newbie sheep, and ask what everyone thinks of my profile, as it seems to be quite the thing to do. Most people won't meet you because of your age. They will have kids your age" Thank you, best of luck for the op. | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you Was just pointing out that your post in the 'Non Swingers!!!' thread a few hours ago - "so because I don't have sex/meets I shouldn't be on here?! " might look a bit hypocritical saying others shouldn't be on here if they're not looking for meets, and simply use the site for chat and giggles! I'm using it to find someone I have a connection and attraction to, which I have, and will be meeting him in a few weeks Which is fine. Telling others how they should/can use the site isn't fine. " I just don't see why he's on here if he's married and only here to chat when he can do that at home or with friends | |||
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"Hahaha I do!!! Ok marriage bit aside, is profile better now? Obviously don't otherwise you wouldn't be on here! No because you're still married, people still won't meet you because they don't want an upset wife contacting them or finding them in tears on their doorstep Not looking for meets.. Here for a chat and a giggle that's all You have social network sites for that. Think you're on the wrong site Haven't you stated numerous times in the forums that you're not meeting? Because I'm waiting for an op, is that such a crime?! I'll be meeting after I've had it done and I have a meet planned on the 26th Jan, not that I need to prove anything to you Was just pointing out that your post in the 'Non Swingers!!!' thread a few hours ago - "so because I don't have sex/meets I shouldn't be on here?! " might look a bit hypocritical saying others shouldn't be on here if they're not looking for meets, and simply use the site for chat and giggles! I'm using it to find someone I have a connection and attraction to, which I have, and will be meeting him in a few weeks Which is fine. Telling others how they should/can use the site isn't fine. I just don't see why he's on here if he's married and only here to chat when he can do that at home or with friends" because he can be and is very welcome | |||
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"If someone would like to review mine to that would be really appreciated. " you look like stephen buntin the dart player | |||
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