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"To be honest, your profile needs work....your forum post is twice as long as your profile! Remember that you get out of this site what you put in, so spend some time working on your profile content..... Welcome and good luck ![]() Second that completely. Have a look in the clubs section and go from there if verifications the problem. If not redo the profile ![]() | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" your post is longer than your profile ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that" I cant accom! ![]() | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! Too nice, nope thats not the reason, you need polite respectful messages showing a degree of individuality and your personality, your profile along with your messages are your first impression your profile is doing you no favours, if you use the search feature on the forum it will bring yp loads of advice threads, Verified thats the catch 22 to get verified you need to meet to get a meet you need to be verified,, try socials clubs or web cam Itshard for guys on here you have to sell yourself at the moment sorry to say youre not Best of luck How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that I cant accom! ![]() so what is your reason? no one would want to find out after meeting with someone that they are married/ or in a relationship, it's sticky business and it hurts like a bitch | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that I cant accom! ![]() The one on my profile! ![]() | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that I cant accom! ![]() ![]() I read it after posting it lol Yeah I can understand if you live with parents, but for me, if a married man was to approach me on here I wouldn't even attempt to entertain him, he'd be blocked as soon as I knew he was married | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that I cant accom! ![]() ![]() But why assume someone is married? | |||
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"you can't accom so people will assume you're married or in a relationship so a lot of people won't want to get involved in sticky business like that I cant accom! ![]() ![]() because they don't explain why they can't accom, especially if I want to meet them | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" Reference to a drug in username would get you deleted without reading if you messaged us . Not our thing may be other peoples but not ours | |||
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"Follow most of the advice given so far, though not the bit about sending "fancy a fuck" messages. ![]() id say all advise is good advise ![]() | |||
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"Both your public pics are the same one but one is just zoomed in" i thought all my pics were public lol ill have to go change the privacy ty | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" happens all the time, it's a shame too, as the profiles that state 'please read', you'd at least expect a 'not my type' or 'no thanks' but yeah - after all the effort replies can be hard to get | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x happens all the time, it's a shame too, as the profiles that state 'please read', you'd at least expect a 'not my type' or 'no thanks' but yeah - after all the effort replies can be hard to get" just because you message a single fem, don't expect a reply back, the best reply is no reply | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x happens all the time, it's a shame too, as the profiles that state 'please read', you'd at least expect a 'not my type' or 'no thanks' but yeah - after all the effort replies can be hard to get just because you message a single fem, don't expect a reply back, the best reply is no reply" and the reason for couples? given there are there is double the energy to type? ![]() | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x happens all the time, it's a shame too, as the profiles that state 'please read', you'd at least expect a 'not my type' or 'no thanks' but yeah - after all the effort replies can be hard to get just because you message a single fem, don't expect a reply back, the best reply is no reply and the reason for couples? given there are there is double the energy to type? ![]() The same as my last post... | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" You are 30 year olds, probably paying a share of bills/ rent, in 2014 are you expected to be a monk, it seems very un natural not to have friends around, and a social life, If you can get that sorted I think you will have much more luck on here, unless of course you share with your girlfriend or wife. | |||
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"Try smiling in your photos, you look depressed as sin ![]() he must be married ![]() | |||
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"Right to the point... Im to nice...i l try messaging people nicely to spark a convo rather than hard hitting them with shite to see if there is a connection or a response at least but dont get no reaction or the line im not verified... I have tried n failed n starting to believe im too nice!!! How do i start convos etc and get verified (not photo cause i done that) x" Copy and paste a generic message (but not to cheesey) and get blitzing ![]() | |||
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"Try smiling in your photos, you look depressed as sin ![]() ![]() Not married just cant accomodate as its not my house to start bringing people into... | |||
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