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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good answer

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed "

Talking as a dungeon owner, expect nothing, and you will get everything, always take your own toys, for insertion. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oooh so u saying not to use their insertion toys??

Thanks for the tip!

Anymore would be much appreciated.

And yep... more so going open minded to see what they have there - and then let my mind run riot as to how it should be used on Katie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget your subbie blanket !!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


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Talking as a dungeon owner, expect nothing, and you will get everything, always take your own toys, for insertion. Have fun."

Surely you can put a condom on the insertable toys provided....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Talking as a dungeon owner, expect nothing, and you will get everything, always take your own toys, for insertion. Have fun.

Surely you can put a condom on the insertable toys provided...."

indeed you can, but playing with your wife or partner condoms are not usually needed, if you use your own insertables, you know them and best way to use them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think we will take a few condoms with us incase there are toys i want to use on Katie - just to be extra careful!

One question i do have tho... Katie can get a bit 'messy' when over excited - im guessing that isnt an issue as long as we wipe everywhere down after??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't forget your subbie blanket !!"

Whats one of these btw??

We only have 2 hours - i dont think Katie be napping

(or is this to stop her getting cold when exposed??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think we will take a few condoms with us incase there are toys i want to use on Katie - just to be extra careful!

One question i do have tho... Katie can get a bit 'messy' when over excited - im guessing that isnt an issue as long as we wipe everywhere down after??"

usually place will be pressure washed between bookings to get body fluids of the floors, walls and ceiling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget your subbie blanket !!

Whats one of these btw??

We only have 2 hours - i dont think Katie be napping

(or is this to stop her getting cold when exposed??)"

It's for after care, if she spaces you must keep her warm xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She best not spaz out... we off for dinner with vanilla friends that evening

Her walking like john wayne will be hard enough to explain

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By *rynewMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed

Talking as a dungeon owner, expect nothing, and you will get everything, always take your own toys, for insertion. Have fun."

Hmmm a dungeon owner and local to me now this could get interesting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She best not spaz out... we off for dinner with vanilla friends that evening

Her walking like john wayne will be hard enough to explain "

Spaces not spazs.

She might not have a choice

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"oooh so u saying not to use their insertion toys??

Thanks for the tip!

Anymore would be much appreciated.

And yep... more so going open minded to see what they have there - and then let my mind run riot as to how it should be used on Katie!"

as you mentioned it, use condoms over the toys.

If you want to get good value (they don't usually let you in till 6 or 7) avoid drinking booze, as you'll be asleep at a regular hour rather than enjoying all of the equipment.

Take an ipod. There's usually a dock provided.

Enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone give me details of where these dungeons are please. North West area. Thanks, Mistress

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We have one we rent for special occasions. :O)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She best not spaz out... we off for dinner with vanilla friends that evening

Her walking like john wayne will be hard enough to explain

Spaces not spazs.

She might not have a choice "

This... As drop can hit at any time. After care is very important. I get very shivery and cold and needy if I drop badly but lee is good at pretty much preventing it currently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed "

So she sets no limits and you have no problem with that?

Combined with your other posts demonstrating your clear lack of knowledge this has disaster written all over it.

I hope spaz out was an unfortunate auto correct, but even so not knowing what subspace is nor seeming to care about her well being by being so dismissive of the comments about it is really quite worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed

So she sets no limits and you have no problem with that?

Combined with your other posts demonstrating your clear lack of knowledge this has disaster written all over it.

I hope spaz out was an unfortunate auto correct, but even so not knowing what subspace is nor seeming to care about her well being by being so dismissive of the comments about it is really quite worrying."

I thought this too. Quite worried but what can we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think we will take a few condoms with us incase there are toys i want to use on Katie - just to be extra careful!

One question i do have tho... Katie can get a bit 'messy' when over excited - im guessing that isnt an issue as long as we wipe everywhere down after??"

You could take a towel

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I love being clean-up girl in any dungeon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no experience with this kind of play, but have read enough to know that good aftercare is essential. To book a meal straight afterwards seems odd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to put everyone's mind at rest... we wont be doing anything heavy!

This is very new to us... so we will DEF be taking small steps and not launching into this headfirst.

So light bondage and spanking in a new environment to start, then talk about what we liked/disliked after and delve further into it bit by bit.

We have both talked about it in the past and are curious - so going to look.

I have no wish to hurt Katie in anyway - and am appalled that some in here are quick to point the finger that her safety isnt important to me - its the most important part of the whole thing.

Sorry if some people dont think we should be allowed to use the dungeon as we dont meet their high and mighty opinions of what we should/shouldnt be doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoa !! I think people, me included, thought it was (by the way you'd written here) something you had no idea about and there was concern

Pardon me for caring !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to put everyone's mind at rest... we wont be doing anything heavy!

This is very new to us... so we will DEF be taking small steps and not launching into this headfirst.

So light bondage and spanking in a new environment to start, then talk about what we liked/disliked after and delve further into it bit by bit.

We have both talked about it in the past and are curious - so going to look.

I have no wish to hurt Katie in anyway - and am appalled that some in here are quick to point the finger that her safety isnt important to me - its the most important part of the whole thing.

Sorry if some people dont think we should be allowed to use the dungeon as we dont meet their high and mighty opinions of what we should/shouldnt be doing."

If you are expecting an apology for my previous post then sadly you are going to be disappointed. It may have been false bravado in your earlier posts but I am not going to apologise for showing a concern about a dom who refers to subspace as "spazzing out" and a sub who claims to have no limits.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Well... New Year and all that... and have booked our first visit to a dungeon....

So i have asked Katie what she would like... and answer is 'do to me whatever you want'.

Now this could get very very interesting indeed .. id hope the people hiring out would be able to deduce the experience or otherwise of this couple???

So she sets no limits and you have no problem with that?

Combined with your other posts demonstrating your clear lack of knowledge this has disaster written all over it.

I hope spaz out was an unfortunate auto correct, but even so not knowing what subspace is nor seeming to care about her well being by being so dismissive of the comments about it is really quite worrying.

I thought this too. Quite worried but what can we do "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK.. before this goes totally off piste!

I'm not a dom (never said i was!) she is not a sub.

We want to go and play in a new environment and try new things where i take control of the situation - but not to the extent im a dom - i have no wish to be - thats not for us.

We just wanna go and have some fun and try some new things!

Hence the tips like bring own insertion toys and put condoms on toys we use belonging to the dungeon were much appreciated.

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just to put everyone's mind at rest... we wont be doing anything heavy!

This is very new to us... so we will DEF be taking small steps and not launching into this headfirst.

So light bondage and spanking in a new environment to start, then talk about what we liked/disliked after and delve further into it bit by bit.

We have both talked about it in the past and are curious - so going to look.

I have no wish to hurt Katie in anyway - and am appalled that some in here are quick to point the finger that her safety isnt important to me - its the most important part of the whole thing.

Sorry if some people dont think we should be allowed to use the dungeon as we dont meet their high and mighty opinions of what we should/shouldnt be doing.

If you are expecting an apology for my previous post then sadly you are going to be disappointed. It may have been false bravado in your earlier posts but I am not going to apologise for showing a concern about a dom who refers to subspace as "spazzing out" and a sub who claims to have no limits.

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I dont think he ever mentioned he was a dom or that she was a sub . I think they just having some fun and as a couple know each others boundaries .. im sure you dont have to be domme or sub to enjoy a dungeon ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dungeon is a playroom, and is for fun.

My parents in their 80's use a dungeon for sex, because the fucking bench helps them, as they have limited mobility, they don't use it to cause pain, rather to enhance their pleasure.

All sex starts between the ears, the very word dungeon, to some sets the scene, and there are , as in all sex, different levels of play.

Safety is of course the number one priority in everything we do in life, from crossing the road to frying an egg.

The OP wants to enhance their experience and try new things, it doesn't mean, suspending his partner in ropes whilst branding her. which may indeed come at a later date..

Safe words, after care, experience, knowledge, are of course important, everyone has to start somewhere.

Life is a learning process, we learn everyday.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Manrider speaks sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manrider speaks sense."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manrider speaks sense.

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OMG, that's a first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget your subbie blanket !!

Whats one of these btw??

We only have 2 hours - i dont think Katie be napping

(or is this to stop her getting cold when exposed??)"

being a b.d.s.m. master and dungeon owner your wife if all is done correctly will suffer from sub drop or basically shock this happens with the overdose of adrenalin released through play aftercare is very important hense the sub blanket to keep her warm i sugest some berocca and dioralite after the session keep warm and quiet she will probably be shaky good luck on your venture if ever your in wales drop by for a session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to put everyone's mind at rest... we wont be doing anything heavy!

This is very new to us... so we will DEF be taking small steps and not launching into this headfirst.

So light bondage and spanking in a new environment to start, then talk about what we liked/disliked after and delve further into it bit by bit.

We have both talked about it in the past and are curious - so going to look.

I have no wish to hurt Katie in anyway - and am appalled that some in here are quick to point the finger that her safety isnt important to me - its the most important part of the whole thing.

Sorry if some people dont think we should be allowed to use the dungeon as we dont meet their high and mighty opinions of what we should/shouldnt be doing.

If you are expecting an apology for my previous post then sadly you are going to be disappointed. It may have been false bravado in your earlier posts but I am not going to apologise for showing a concern about a dom who refers to subspace as "spazzing out" and a sub who claims to have no limits.

I dont think he ever mentioned he was a dom or that she was a sub . I think they just having some fun and as a couple know each others boundaries .. im sure you dont have to be domme or sub to enjoy a dungeon ? "

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

The problem is this site Is full of what we call "dim dome" people who have ideas and no clue how to go about them.

Every so often a post goes up with someone stating they are a dom and liking for X Y Z but no real idea about what they are doing. This can be very very dengerous.

So the BDSM community tend to jump on those posts VERY quickly and harshly.

Don't take offence to any of the posts criticising you above, its all done out of love.

Good luck with your exploring.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

PS why can't my phone spell? Dammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is this site Is full of what we call "dim dome" people who have ideas and no clue how to go about them.

Every so often a post goes up with someone stating they are a dom and liking for X Y Z but no real idea about what they are doing. This can be very very dengerous.

So the BDSM community tend to jump on those posts VERY quickly and harshly.

Don't take offence to any of the posts criticising you above, its all done out of love.

Good luck with your exploring. "

Well put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well... we went to the dungeon ... and had a BRILLIANT time!!

Was a lot of fun being in a new environment with new toys to use - and new devices to 'rest' Katie on!

Will def be re-visiting again - 2 hours was perfect for us to explore, then go home and have a chat - and look at the pics

Highlight was def the Invertion table..... awesome!

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Welcome to the dark side

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Indeed - have fun xxx

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