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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a while and just can't get a meet or even a reply am I doing something wrong ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Surely in 5 weeks you could have spent a little more effort than producing a 1 1/2 line profile ?

Ladies like to see more than a couple of cock shots.

Go to clubs or socials and get yourself known.

Above and beyond, have patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimal effort = minimal reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you're on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for a while and just can't get a meet or even a reply am I doing something wrong ? "

This comes up every day sometimes even twice a day.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Patience. This isn't instashag.

As has already been said, clubs and socials are good places to get yourself known, as are the forums.

You get out what you put in too so just relax, get chatting and have fun

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My twopennorth:

put the cock shot and strangled bollock shot in private and take some torso/back/bum pics. Also make sure you have a face pic available.

Put your profile text into paragraphs.

And make sure you read profiles before you message people and that you match what they are looking for.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My twopennorth:

put the cock shot and strangled bollock shot in private and take some torso/back/bum pics. Also make sure you have a face pic available.

Put your profile text into paragraphs.

And make sure you read profiles before you message people and that you match what they are looking for.

Good luck. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

these type of sites are a theme park for walters mittys and people living double lives so have your bullshit radar updated otherwise you will very quicky get pissed off,and that meet is never in the bag untill your making your way home with a smile on your face ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patiant Iv been on twelve months got my first meet of here two days ago !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My twopennorth:

put the cock shot and strangled bollock shot in private and take some torso/back/bum pics. Also make sure you have a face pic available.

Put your profile text into paragraphs.

And make sure you read profiles before you message people and that you match what they are looking for.

Good luck. "

there ya go.

and you cant accomodate, which will automatically put lots off for fear of you being married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Minimal effort = minimal reward. "

Exactly - as with life in general, the more effort you put in, the greater the reward here.

Do that, be polite, imaginative, confident & friendly & you'll have the time of your life here

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

says you can't accom so will assume you're still with the "ex" you claimed to have split up from, bullshit radar is on maximum

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My twopennorth:

put the cock shot and strangled bollock shot in private and take some torso/back/bum pics. Also make sure you have a face pic available.

Put your profile text into paragraphs.

And make sure you read profiles before you message people and that you match what they are looking for.

Good luck. "

Simply: this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be resilient and patient. I have chatted a bit on this site but not succeeded in a meet yet. I am most at home in clubs where social skills lead on to fun times. Many may be put off by my age or looks, but I have had great fun at Swinger Parties. Suggest you check out clubs and meets. Good luck.

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Patience and manners

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm confused about your photos as your profile says you have no piercings, yet you appear to? And are those implants around the base of your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No implants they are steel and rubber cock rings. I can't accommodate because my fucking ex has the house I'm stuck in digs till the court case goes through I just think 90% are getting a kick from loads of guys wanking over their misses !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No implants they are steel and rubber cock rings. I can't accommodate because my fucking ex has the house I'm stuck in digs till the court case goes through I just think 90% are getting a kick from loads of guys wanking over their misses !! "

And with that sort of respect and total misunderstanding of the dynamic of couples who swing you'll go far...

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