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By *tm660 OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

hey im shaun annoying me im allways polite not rude in a msg but I never get a reply, even though im not bad looking infact a 6ft9 model lol was wondering if someone can look me up tell wjats up with my profile thanks )) xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us a sample letter, for re_iew of approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary"

^^^^^^ exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see your previous post, but you're far too tall for little old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only models women generally like are dildos or vibrate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no words"

*splutter*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how many verification's did you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this yet another look at me post or am I being synical?

I am not tall, young or employed for my good looks yet I have met some lovely people on Fab. Perhaps they struggle with the bad spelling and grammar?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"hey im shaun annoying me im allways polite not rude in a msg but I never get a reply, even though im not bad looking infact a 6ft9 model lol was wondering if someone can look me up tell wjats up with my profile thanks )) xxxx"
whts up with my profile hmmm let me think ,due the previous posting you made ,id say the problem is probably the fact your on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary"

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all."

Its true only a small percentage post in the forums I think its about 1% there are many others who read without posting,

I guess the point was being made that if he was disrespectful in a public forum its possible he wasn t so polite in his private messages,

Usual advice fella your profile lacks detail or depth, my suggestion read thel threads on profile advice,

Have fun,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all."

i have no idea how many people use the Forums but i am guessing that quite a few read them without having an interest in actually commenting, What i have noticed is a lot of Comments on Rudeness, bad grammar and punctuation.

If this is the case then Surely the young man is not helping his cause in getting replies to Messages.

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft 7 on your profile.6ft 8 in your profile text 6ft 9 in your post you grow a inch a

Day ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I met a guy who claimed to be 5ft 9 and when we met I was much taller at 5ft 8, think he got his 6 upside down!!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"hey im shaun annoying me im allways polite not rude in a msg but I never get a reply, even though im not bad looking infact a 6ft9 model lol was wondering if someone can look me up tell wjats up with my profile thanks )) xxxx"
Very nice but way too tall for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/12/13 10:56:56]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn Yawn ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6ft 7 on your profile.6ft 8 in your profile text 6ft 9 in your post you grow a inch a

Day ? "

So what else does he feel the need to lie about then?!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As peeps have said maybe it's your first mail you send? personally we've like to see some more recent veri's, go to a club, but don't fill your profile with social meets. When we see pics like yours it makes us think fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're a tall model with originally more than 4 verifications according to your profile..... keep up the good work i'd say, you're doing well on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no words

*splutter* "

Oi ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6ft 7 on your profile.6ft 8 in your profile text 6ft 9 in your post you grow a inch a

Day ?

So what else does he feel the need to lie about then?!

crystal"

I don't think it has an option for 6ft 9, we have met some really tall guys who this had affected.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all."

you are right... but where people do use parts of the site, it can also give you an insight into people....

so where it may well be a small part of the site.. its also a part of the site where he is not coming across well...

if you give a person enough rope... they will eventually end up hanging themselves with it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all.

you are right... but where people do use parts of the site, it can also give you an insight into people....

so where it may well be a small part of the site.. its also a part of the site where he is not coming across well...

if you give a person enough rope... they will eventually end up hanging themselves with it..... "

There are Many people who lurk here but never post and they will read posts and then check profiles out or not.

Since posting on the forum, the people who look at my profile has at least quadrupled and there the one who are not in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all.

you are right... but where people do use parts of the site, it can also give you an insight into people....

so where it may well be a small part of the site.. its also a part of the site where he is not coming across well...

if you give a person enough rope... they will eventually end up hanging themselves with it..... "

What's wrong with saying he feels sad for the death of a soldier so close to christmas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of floundering in the online world competing with the other thousands of guys looking for meets..if you are genuinely single and want to be successful at this.... go out in the real world with a respectful attitude, sense of humour, find the nearest munch, social or club and go there...job done! It really isn't about how tall you are, how big your cock is..its the right approach and attitude that counts! Too many guys that don't get it think that all couples want is an off the cuff fuck.. true sometimes, guys on the forums get told over and over again this is the best way...but do they listen? and the guys that winge on forums and on their status how its everyone elses fault that they can't get meets... no one really cares, just makes you more unattractive.. No apologies given for telling it like it is you did ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am i the only one who thinks he looks like a young Rod Stewart?

up to you if thats a good thing or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all.

you are right... but where people do use parts of the site, it can also give you an insight into people....

so where it may well be a small part of the site.. its also a part of the site where he is not coming across well...

if you give a person enough rope... they will eventually end up hanging themselves with it.....

What's wrong with saying he feels sad for the death of a soldier so close to christmas?"

Nothing at all wrong with that, but if you read the whole thread you would

have also seen that he called those of us who also paid our respects boring!!

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Instead of floundering in the online world competing with the other thousands of guys looking for meets..if you are genuinely single and want to be successful at this.... go out in the real world with a respectful attitude, sense of humour, find the nearest munch, social or club and go there...job done! It really isn't about how tall you are, how big your cock is..its the right approach and attitude that counts! Too many guys that don't get it think that all couples want is an off the cuff fuck.. true sometimes, guys on the forums get told over and over again this is the best way...but do they listen? and the guys that winge on forums and on their status how its everyone elses fault that they can't get meets... no one really cares, just makes you more unattractive.. No apologies given for telling it like it is you did ask! "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think your previous post about People being boring helped your Cause much

Gary

Why does what someone posts have much effect on replies to messages? There are only a small number of members use the forums after all.

you are right... but where people do use parts of the site, it can also give you an insight into people....

so where it may well be a small part of the site.. its also a part of the site where he is not coming across well...

if you give a person enough rope... they will eventually end up hanging themselves with it.....

What's wrong with saying he feels sad for the death of a soldier so close to christmas?

Nothing at all wrong with that, but if you read the whole thread you would

have also seen that he called those of us who also paid our respects boring!!"

Oh yeah, that was weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey im shaun annoying me im allways polite not rude in a msg but I never get a reply, even though im not bad looking infact a 6ft9 model lol was wondering if someone can look me up tell wjats up with my profile thanks )) xxxx"

People like what they like maybe you are not to the taste of people you are messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to write your ha ha message without ha ha lol.ha ha punctuation of lol ha ha.ha.

Trying to engage properly with people works for me. Yes I get plenty of knock backs but have found most folk I am interested in like the straight forward approach. Most dont like braggers.

I am also a model ' industrial footwear " lol ha ha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us and maybe a few more is age age age, sorry, we have kids older than you so for us it wouldn't feel right

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think you look your best in all the pics down the left hand side.

some of the other don't do you justice

good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

The next time there is a thread on " do you ever give people second chances " and the same people post on that saying of course they do I will remember this thread

Can you please stop picking on what people are saying or have said on other threads unless it is relevant to this one.

Can you also stop attacking people when you post as I hate doing the paperwork for the ban.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, your profile seems fine to me.

Maybe try changing around your first mail to people and see if that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what I was going to say! If you can't get your height right then maybe your cock is not 9 inches?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I not right in thinking the veri summary numbers stay the same even if someone leaves the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I not right in thinking the veri summary numbers stay the same even if someone leaves the site? "

They sure do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might try to smile as you look like you lost a tenner and found 20p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you winked at me 4 weeks ago x many women receive so many messages its impossible to look at winks as well -thus get ignored. On the VERY rare occasion I have winked at a guy - I get an almost instant response back but its not like that for women - really messages are the way to go not winks xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i had my wrist slapped by Admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think i had my wrist slapped by Admin "
right time for bed

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have nice body shots but your profile needs working on. Personally you need to stop complaining thatyou had other veri's but they left the site so disappeared, get your height right as it appears that you are lying about it as it changes. And moaning on here just puts people off.

You asked for an opinion, sorry if you find mine a little blunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think i had my wrist slapped by Admin right time for bed

Nette"

Yes Mum sorry Mum..Read me a story

Gary

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think i had my wrist slapped by Admin right time for bed

Nette

Yes Mum sorry Mum..Read me a story

Gary"

It would probably be less confusing for everyone if you have two profiles to use on the forum, Admin don't mind if you do that.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

PS I am shutting this now as all I am taking off is nasty posts.

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