FabSwingers.com forum: How long till you cum?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok, i have been encouraged to talk about it finally.....

I can last a whole weekend with the better half and not cum no matter what we do. Its not that im not turned on and we dont do anything, we have been at it worse than rabbits for a whole weekend barely making it out of the house at all. I stay hard, she thinks its amazing till she gets lock jaw/tries to walk the next day.

any advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get someone that turns you on enough to make you cum lol

just live with it.

take it as it comes, so to speak.

is it really a bad thing?

we have had sex when i havent cum.

we have also had it where i have lasted about 5 minutes.

just one of them things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut your dick off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is it like when you have a sank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes there can be a medical reason. A bloke was telling me that he had a circumcision and it had caused nerve damage which made it difficult for him to cum. He could get hard easily as well. Just a suggestion but maybe look into it as there are a few conditions which can affect your nerve endings.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Can I just say as his other half... I do believe I turn him on a little

so thats not the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 6-10 seconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes i do have nerve damage, but it doesnt stop me getting hard, and it aint for lack of being turned on....was just hoping for anyone with hints so i could surprise her for a change and shoot down the back of her throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i'd have the opposite problem looking at Ladybee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes i do have nerve damage, but it doesnt stop me getting hard, and it aint for lack of being turned on....was just hoping for anyone with hints so i could surprise her for a change and shoot down the back of her throat"

Well my mate was going for an op to try and correct it, but I guess you would have talked to your doc about this by now if you already know the problem.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Think i'd have the opposite problem looking at Ladybee

Aw bless you, thanks.

Its not that much of a problem now I've gotten used to it, but when you go for about 30 hours over a weekend - it be nice to get the reward for all that HARD work

lol. We've never had the 5 minute quickie... well i have but not him

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think i'd have the opposite problem looking at Ladybee

Aw bless you, thanks.

Its not that much of a problem now I've gotten used to it, but when you go for about 30 hours over a weekend - it be nice to get the reward for all that HARD work

lol. We've never had the 5 minute quickie... well i have but not him

lol"

No see what you're saying, it must be frustrating for you both, hope things work out ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's possibly a psychological thing....

I've had a relationship in the past where I cum pretty much immediately (quite embarrassing!), and every time we had sex I started thinking about how quickly I'd cum, and it precipitated it even quicker!

When I swung though. (She knew and was on here), then I could go for hours. Bizarre.

Maybe you have that, but the opposite way around. Nothing to do with levels of arousement, just psychological stuff going on, overriding physical processes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just say as his other half... I do believe I turn him on a little

so thats not the issue."

well yes, thats not the issue.

have you tried him with a big hairy trucker?

pretty women may not be his type

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh i dont know, dating a current underwear model, have had former models before as well, cant say hairy arsed truckers are my type sexually, but i do have a few good trucking friends......and there are some seriously hot women truckers. so long as they aint hairy, i know i would. But i dont go for people based on salary or position in life, so long as they are willing and can make me hard, and make me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This only happens when I've had a drink. The "feeling" seems to go a bit and I've got to go at it like a man possessed if I'm to have any hope of cumming.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

How long is it for me? Well - depends on how much time elapses between meets

Seriously, it's a mind thing. Sometimes I last a handful of minutes, sometimes it's nearly an hour. No matter whether I'm trying to make myself cum or not. I wish I could control it to make it more 'convenient'...

Sometimes I have to fake it.

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