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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id like to hear what people think about swinging that involves your everyday friends rather than swinging friends, like has your wife ever fancied fucking your best mate kind of thing, good idea, bad idea, turn on or turn off, whats your opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tooo close to home

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants.....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

[Removed by poster at 22/12/13 14:26:04]

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants....."

and the mrs might even agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well this is my concern, both myself and my wife find the thought of this in fantasy a turn on even more so for her, she finds it very dirty indeed, but always the chance your friend may take offense and spread the word about what you are into or if he does take up your invite then thinks afterwards that he can show up out the blue to fuck her again when he wants or asking her to fuck without the husband knowing kind of thing, we always play together not seperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

look at it like this..... if they are a good mate, it wont be an issue, if it is an issue, they aint really a mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad idea, it can ruin friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at it like this..... if they are a good mate, it wont be an issue, if it is an issue, they aint really a mate"

or a brother, by the sounds of it

OP, you have to consider what is right for all concerned. however, as its someone you see on a regular/semi regular basis, do you think he would be the type to want to carry it on.

call round while your at work?

expect it at the end of a night out with you?

see, with doing this with strangers, you set the ground rules, and its easy to go your separate ways once you have had your fun.

with a friend the whole dynamic is different.

things will NOT be the same afterwards, guaranteed.

there will be looks, winks, sly touches maybe, even when not wanted.

can you handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at it like this..... if they are a good mate, it wont be an issue, if it is an issue, they aint really a mate

or a brother, by the sounds of it

OP, you have to consider what is right for all concerned. however, as its someone you see on a regular/semi regular basis, do you think he would be the type to want to carry it on.

call round while your at work?

expect it at the end of a night out with you?

see, with doing this with strangers, you set the ground rules, and its easy to go your separate ways once you have had your fun.

with a friend the whole dynamic is different.

things will NOT be the same afterwards, guaranteed.

there will be looks, winks, sly touches maybe, even when not wanted.

can you handle it?"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wont be long till someone starts a thread like this asking if its ok to fuck there neighbours cat/dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but some aspects of life are best kept apart.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Fucked two of my friend's wives, one friends girlfriend.

Loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

I'd say the issue is pretty obvious here... Your brother no longer speaks to you.

This is definitely something I'd steer clear of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to hear what people think about swinging that involves your everyday friends rather than swinging friends, like has your wife ever fancied fucking your best mate kind of thing, good idea, bad idea, turn on or turn off, whats your opinions?"

Wouldn't go there. Ever !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants....."

You're all heart...lol.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Bad idea, it can ruin friendships.

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I would risk it...

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

Used to have reg threesomes with my mate and his mrs. Never affected our friendship

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By *ornycpl79Couple
over a year ago

North west

I would love to fuck my hubby's friend! already fucked 1 of his mates while he was there and it's not affected us at all infact we are now on here lol hubby want me to fuck his best mate now to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont be long till someone starts a thread like this asking if its ok to fuck there neighbours cat/dog."

Yea, I concur totally m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is actually how I was introduced to the scene. I was watching tv with him and we got talking about porn, as you do. He then just turned and asked me if I wanted to fuck his wife in a threesome with him. I didn't really need asking twice.

Suffice to say they opened my eyes to the scene and I've been around since.

Can't wait to do it again and the plans are in place already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

I would have thought you answered your own question there. You lost brother for a fuck.

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By *emanandsheraCouple
over a year ago

castle Greyskull

Done it 7/8 times with my best mate,its how we started. Had no problems so far and hope to do it again....altho we will probably get slaughtered for this, his partner has no idea.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

We would not be asking friends to swap , why because it will end in tears,

We only meet people on holiday,

so we know will never see them again,

suits us.

but hay each to there own,, Connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baaaad idea !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad bad bad bad bad idea!

There is so much that can go wrong..

I had a 3sum with an ex and my best mate.. due to him being a complete knob and telling everyone I am no longer friends with him..

There is boundaries that shouldnt be crossed and that is something that shouldnt be crossed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants....."

Charming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?

I would have thought you answered your own question there. You lost brother for a fuck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well this is my concern, both myself and my wife find the thought of this in fantasy a turn on even more so for her, she finds it very dirty indeed, but always the chance your friend may take offense and spread the word about what you are into or if he does take up your invite then thinks afterwards that he can show up out the blue to fuck her again when he wants or asking her to fuck without the husband knowing kind of thing, we always play together not seperate "

This was also our concern but thankfully when it did happen more than with just one male friend then always turned out okay.

the risks are part of the excitement also and some jealousy i had to handle

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By *allmann68Man
over a year ago

London

I'd fuck your wife or a friend's. Where and when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

Maybe the issue is your brother and presumably a chunk of your family no longer taliking to you?

To be blunt I'm not really sure fucking your sister in law behind your brother's back is in anyway relevant to a couple having a 3sum with a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago when I was living on London, 2 of my oldest friends (20 years plus) were down for the weekend. Now these guys know me well and we walked past Rio's and I jokingly said that it was my local swinging club if they fancied trying it. And I then spent 5 minutes listening to a rant about swingers being perverts with something lacking in their relationships.

Now the thing is prior to that I'd have been convinced they'd have been cool with what I do. Truth is I don't think you can guess how people will react. Why cross the line and risk the fall out of it going wrong? Are there not enough people on the scene to choose from?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants.....

Charming "

He has my permission, and I have agreed to it - buzzsaw is my other half! I don't see the problem here - its a swingers site - that means your partner having sex with other people???

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Bad, bad idea and not one, that we would consider.

We like to keep swinging and our normal life seperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad, bad idea and not one, that we would consider.

We like to keep swinging and our normal life seperate.

"

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Completely agree with the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should also add.... i have agreed one of my best mates can have a go with my mrs if he wants.....

Charming

He has my permission, and I have agreed to it - buzzsaw is my other half! I don't see the problem here - its a swingers site - that means your partner having sex with other people???"

I meant 'charming'as in the way it was written, i know what swinging is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been a strong believer in keeping freindships and swinging seperate. Nothing I have read so far has changed my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Wife Fucked off with my "Friend"

Pity coz i liked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to let an ex fuck my mates if she fancied them

Loved watching it and her doing stuff with me when they had finished like kissing me after swallowing his cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would imagine that this is a better idea in fantasy than reality.

So much could go wrong (I think)

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"I have always been a strong believer in keeping freindships and swinging seperate. Nothing I have read so far has changed my opinion."

Spot on.

We call our swinging life "Narnia" and never shall the two worlds meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really am at a loss here to understand why so many people on here are so uptight about it all.

Surely swinging has been around in many forms for many years. To me its all about trusting the people involved. So if you trust someone to let them sleep with your other half, whats the issue.

Sounds to me like the majority of people are as always, so uptight to be afraid to live.

Stop hiding, worrying about the if, buts, whys, maybes etc, get out there and do what you want to. If thats letting your mate have a go of your other half, good for you in having the courage to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really am at a loss here to understand why so many people on here are so uptight about it all.

Surely swinging has been around in many forms for many years. To me its all about trusting the people involved. So if you trust someone to let them sleep with your other half, whats the issue.

Sounds to me like the majority of people are as always, so uptight to be afraid to live.

Stop hiding, worrying about the if, buts, whys, maybes etc, get out there and do what you want to. If thats letting your mate have a go of your other half, good for you in having the courage to live."

Not shagging your inlaws, to most people probably doesn't really equate to being uptight

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

Sounds to me like the majority of people are as always, so uptight to be afraid to live.

"

Posting this doesn't help your case. It just sounds ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, the responses i get to pointing out that swinging is all about trust and being open minded in your life....this is the reason i never posted before....

surely its an ADULT forum, people are asking for advice and points of view.

We all live our lives differently. Seems a lot of you are not prepared to live, but instead exist in a small line following the sheep infront of you.

Well I on the other hand have lived, experienced, and where i can offer advice will.

If you dont like what i say, tough. Im honest, blunt and to the point.

The original poster was asking if it was a good idea, my opinion is yes, its worth it if you trust the other person. I pointed out that from my experience, it can work well, or it can fail.

There is no legal issue in this country with fucking your sister in law, it would seem a lot of people are too uptight to see other peoples points of view.

Slate me continually....then have the guts to come say it to my face.

Banned?? ha, i dont care!

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

We swing with a couple that are our friends. Just have a normal relationship with them, but when we go out for drinks we all end up in the same bed. why not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to hear what people think about swinging that involves your everyday friends rather than swinging friends, like has your wife ever fancied fucking your best mate kind of thing, good idea, bad idea, turn on or turn off, whats your opinions?"

if she did, she would be my x wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to hear what people think about swinging that involves your everyday friends rather than swinging friends, like has your wife ever fancied fucking your best mate kind of thing, good idea, bad idea, turn on or turn off, whats your opinions?

if she did, she would be my x wife."

Good enough for you to swing tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to hear what people think about swinging that involves your everyday friends rather than swinging friends, like has your wife ever fancied fucking your best mate kind of thing, good idea, bad idea, turn on or turn off, whats your opinions?

if she did, she would be my x wife."

Why?? is your wife not allowed to find other men attractive?? or are you so anal she is not allowed to express her true feelings?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"see, the responses i get to pointing out that swinging is all about trust and being open minded in your life....this is the reason i never posted before....

surely its an ADULT forum, people are asking for advice and points of view.

We all live our lives differently. Seems a lot of you are not prepared to live, but instead exist in a small line following the sheep infront of you.

Well I on the other hand have lived, experienced, and where i can offer advice will.

If you dont like what i say, tough. Im honest, blunt and to the point.

The original poster was asking if it was a good idea, my opinion is yes, its worth it if you trust the other person. I pointed out that from my experience, it can work well, or it can fail.

There is no legal issue in this country with fucking your sister in law, it would seem a lot of people are too uptight to see other peoples points of view.

Slate me continually....then have the guts to come say it to my face.

Banned?? ha, i dont care!"

I don't think you really get the irony of what you are posting. You are saying that we all live our lives differently and yet you are happy to slate others who aren't into the same thing as you as being 'sheep', 'not prepared to live', 'uptight and afraid to live', etc.

You seem to have a real issue with others who don't share your view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

Dear god don't even go there - speaking from bitter personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt realise 'living' means going through life without any sense of morality.

there are lines that ought not be crossed.

is a mate fucking your missus one? who knows.

for some it is, for others it is not, and either side of the fence you land on, all power to those involved as they have to live with whatever happens afterwards.

is shagging your brothers wife a line that shouldnt be crossed?

you bet every pube you have it bloody well is.

ANYTHING that goes against family, for me anyway, is right out, completely.

if its not for you, then again, all power to you, however, you may find fewer and fewer of the people you have in your life trust you less and less due to your apparent cock with no morals attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

erm a family moral, my brother is high in my life

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

As long as all consenting adults x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our priorities are...

1. Family

2. Friendship

3 to 56. Other stuff

57. Swinging

It doesn't make sense to risk things higher up the list for anything lower down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate fucked my ex behind my back first after she told me we had a 3 some that went badly aa he was a greedy shit and I never got a look in we are no longer mates and my ex fell in love with him so I guess BAD IDEA.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"see, the responses i get to pointing out that swinging is all about trust and being open minded in your life....this is the reason i never posted before....

surely its an ADULT forum, people are asking for advice and points of view.

We all live our lives differently. Seems a lot of you are not prepared to live, but instead exist in a small line following the sheep infront of you.

Well I on the other hand have lived, experienced, and where i can offer advice will.

If you dont like what i say, tough. Im honest, blunt and to the point.

The original poster was asking if it was a good idea, my opinion is yes, its worth it if you trust the other person. I pointed out that from my experience, it can work well, or it can fail.

There is no legal issue in this country with fucking your sister in law, it would seem a lot of people are too uptight to see other peoples points of view.

Slate me continually....then have the guts to come say it to my face.

Banned?? ha, i dont care!

I don't think you really get the irony of what you are posting. You are saying that we all live our lives differently and yet you are happy to slate others who aren't into the same thing as you as being 'sheep', 'not prepared to live', 'uptight and afraid to live', etc.

You seem to have a real issue with others who don't share your view."

and we thought we were the only ones who got irony lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, the responses i get to pointing out that swinging is all about trust and being open minded in your life....this is the reason i never posted before....

surely its an ADULT forum, people are asking for advice and points of view.

We all live our lives differently. Seems a lot of you are not prepared to live, but instead exist in a small line following the sheep infront of you.

Well I on the other hand have lived, experienced, and where i can offer advice will.

If you dont like what i say, tough. Im honest, blunt and to the point.

The original poster was asking if it was a good idea, my opinion is yes, its worth it if you trust the other person. I pointed out that from my experience, it can work well, or it can fail.

There is no legal issue in this country with fucking your sister in law, it would seem a lot of people are too uptight to see other peoples points of view.

Slate me continually....then have the guts to come say it to my face.

Banned?? ha, i dont care!"

Unbelievable post. So because some people don't let their mates fuck their missus they are sheep?! And if you don't let your mates fuck your missus you haven't "lived"? What fuckwittery is this?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"didnt realise 'living' means going through life without any sense of morality.

there are lines that ought not be crossed.

is a mate fucking your missus one? who knows.

for some it is, for others it is not, and either side of the fence you land on, all power to those involved as they have to live with whatever happens afterwards.

is shagging your brothers wife a line that shouldnt be crossed?

you bet every pube you have it bloody well is.

ANYTHING that goes against family, for me anyway, is right out, completely.

if its not for you, then again, all power to you, however, you may find fewer and fewer of the people you have in your life trust you less and less due to your apparent cock with no morals attitude"

Actually, he is one of the most trustworthy people in my life - buzzsaw is my other half. Yeah, he can be blunt and to the point, but he is always honest, and says things as they are. Just because his morals don't match yours does not mean he has none. Don't judge what you don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didnt realise 'living' means going through life without any sense of morality.

there are lines that ought not be crossed.

is a mate fucking your missus one? who knows.

for some it is, for others it is not, and either side of the fence you land on, all power to those involved as they have to live with whatever happens afterwards.

is shagging your brothers wife a line that shouldnt be crossed?

you bet every pube you have it bloody well is.

ANYTHING that goes against family, for me anyway, is right out, completely.

if its not for you, then again, all power to you, however, you may find fewer and fewer of the people you have in your life trust you less and less due to your apparent cock with no morals attitude

Actually, he is one of the most trustworthy people in my life - buzzsaw is my other half. Yeah, he can be blunt and to the point, but he is always honest, and says things as they are. Just because his morals don't match yours does not mean he has none. Don't judge what you don't know. "

you are telling others not to do exactly what your other half is doing.

because others wouldnt cross a line, they are accused of being narrow minded and not living.

you may find the attitude liberating and free, and as said, fair enough, thats yours choices, but just because others feel differently, its nothing to do with 'not living'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didnt realise 'living' means going through life without any sense of morality.

there are lines that ought not be crossed.

is a mate fucking your missus one? who knows.

for some it is, for others it is not, and either side of the fence you land on, all power to those involved as they have to live with whatever happens afterwards.

is shagging your brothers wife a line that shouldnt be crossed?

you bet every pube you have it bloody well is.

ANYTHING that goes against family, for me anyway, is right out, completely.

if its not for you, then again, all power to you, however, you may find fewer and fewer of the people you have in your life trust you less and less due to your apparent cock with no morals attitude

Actually, he is one of the most trustworthy people in my life - buzzsaw is my other half. Yeah, he can be blunt and to the point, but he is always honest, and says things as they are. Just because his morals don't match yours does not mean he has none. Don't judge what you don't know. "

I'm sure he has morals. But he's the one who seemingly has no shame or regret in shagging his sister in law and falling out with his brother over it. So forgive me if I don;t start using him as a future reference on my own moral compass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, the responses i get to pointing out that swinging is all about trust and being open minded in your life....this is the reason i never posted before....

surely its an ADULT forum, people are asking for advice and points of view.

We all live our lives differently. Seems a lot of you are not prepared to live, but instead exist in a small line following the sheep infront of you.

Well I on the other hand have lived, experienced, and where i can offer advice will.

If you dont like what i say, tough. Im honest, blunt and to the point.

The original poster was asking if it was a good idea, my opinion is yes, its worth it if you trust the other person. I pointed out that from my experience, it can work well, or it can fail.

There is no legal issue in this country with fucking your sister in law, it would seem a lot of people are too uptight to see other peoples points of view.

Slate me continually....then have the guts to come say it to my face.

Banned?? ha, i dont care!"

Everything about this posts screams of attention seeking and confrontation. The hypocricy in the insults that you use is staggering.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

90% of friends are swingers, in the adult industry or know what we do so yes it as happened quite a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didnt realise 'living' means going through life without any sense of morality.

there are lines that ought not be crossed.

is a mate fucking your missus one? who knows.

for some it is, for others it is not, and either side of the fence you land on, all power to those involved as they have to live with whatever happens afterwards.

is shagging your brothers wife a line that shouldnt be crossed?

you bet every pube you have it bloody well is.

ANYTHING that goes against family, for me anyway, is right out, completely.

if its not for you, then again, all power to you, however, you may find fewer and fewer of the people you have in your life trust you less and less due to your apparent cock with no morals attitude

Actually, he is one of the most trustworthy people in my life - buzzsaw is my other half. Yeah, he can be blunt and to the point, but he is always honest, and says things as they are. Just because his morals don't match yours does not mean he has none. Don't judge what you don't know. "

I think people are judging on what they've been told - that he slept with his brother's wife and lost him as a consequence.

If that's the way people choose to live their lives then go for it - but it may end up a sad and lonely one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it personally. Best kept apart IMHO

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

And you are happy with that situation?

So fucking the sister in law was done without the brothers knowledge, not much of a family man are you? Sounds more like you are a self centred predator rather than a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our priorities are...

1. Family

2. Friendship

3 to 56. Other stuff

57. Swinging

It doesn't make sense to risk things higher up the list for anything lower down. "

Agree 100% xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?

And you are happy with that situation?

So fucking the sister in law was done without the brothers knowledge, not much of a family man are you? Sounds more like you are a self centred predator rather than a swinger."

Agreed. Makes me very queasy when people justify their poor choices (particularly when they involve knowingly hurting people, loved ones or not)...and slam others for not sharing their morality.

*sighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly go to my local swingers club with a couple of women that are very good friends. However, I never play with them. It's a boundary we have imposed on ourselves because it would potentially ruin the friendships and make things unnecessarly complicated. It's possible to have friends here in the community that you can play with now and again on a regular basis but its far to easy to make it 'too close to home'. To the OP, keep it as a fantasy, and make friends further afield. That way, you keep your comfort zone.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"tooo close to home"

agree 100%

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By *otcouple78Couple
over a year ago

Harrogate

My wife has fucked my best m8 with me and we lov it

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"i have fucked my best mates wife, and my brothers wife, gota say, it was well worth it, even though my brother no longer talks to me (she shouted out my name in bed with him)

At the end of the day, if she is willing, then whats the issue?"

lol

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"A few years ago when I was living on London, 2 of my oldest friends (20 years plus) were down for the weekend. Now these guys know me well and we walked past Rio's and I jokingly said that it was my local swinging club if they fancied trying it. And I then spent 5 minutes listening to a rant about swingers being perverts with something lacking in their relationships."

Yeah I get that occasionally, I like being open about it when appropriate, like not around arseholes but with people who seem nice, I'm not always right, I just say each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago just after we married I brought a guy I worked with home to stay the night we all went out drinking and ended up all 3 of us in bed together my wife receiving 2 cocks for the first time, we had another session in the morning he ended up staying all weekend, it was a great weekend lots of booze and sex, we never repeated it until about 6 years ago we decided to join the swinging scene and we both love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite dizzy having returned to this post after a few days. In answer to the original post. BAD idea but if all works out ticketyboo fair dos.

"user no longer on site" well hes probably been lynched by his family by now. Witches ducking stool perhaps.

I moved to a small town twenty odd yrs ago and at the time there were three marriage breakups and my nxt door neighbour had just terminated a pregnancy.

I think the various children involved if asked this OP would probably agree shitting on your own doorstep is less than.wise....

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