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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK I know us single blokes are in the minority when it comes to messaging you ladies. Just wondered what you like to see in a message to prevent them being deleted straight away. OK, had some meets. Some great, others OK, some not so good.

It is OK saying no 1 line messages but even if I expand a little still get deleted so a bit of a waste of time. Do you like the usual pleasantries such as `how are you' which is a bit predictable or straight for the juggular which is way over the top and crude? There again the whole paragraph of your life story, work etc is probably something you dont want to hear anyway lol.

OK dont have pic on profile but usually send one with the message and most of the time note the requirements of the woment. Just a bit frustrating lol

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Read the profile and take your lead from that. For example, our profile states that we only meet single guys at Isis which is a club in Leeds. We are more impressed with messages which refer to that and perhaps ask a question about when we go, what the club is like etc.

We tend to reply to messages but, unless they have read our profile, we probably will be a little abrupt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get a good number of replies to messages that I send, and I am not saying what I write

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Will bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many people delete if they cant see a pic, so that is the first thing to address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attach a clear face pic and write a couple of lines relevant to the profile. Doesn't matter what you write if the attraction isn't there. Can only work with what you have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Usually do attach face pic. Thanks anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont need a complex message- just face pics as requested - if there is an attraction the chat can comence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I know us single blokes are in the minority when it comes to messaging you ladies. Just wondered what you like to see in a message to prevent them being deleted straight away. OK, had some meets. Some great, others OK, some not so good.

It is OK saying no 1 line messages but even if I expand a little still get deleted so a bit of a waste of time. Do you like the usual pleasantries such as `how are you' which is a bit predictable or straight for the juggular which is way over the top and crude? There again the whole paragraph of your life story, work etc is probably something you dont want to hear anyway lol.

OK dont have pic on profile but usually send one with the message and most of the time note the requirements of the woment. Just a bit frustrating lol"

When you contacting a couple think that it may be him that reads it, cock pics on first message isn't a. Good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont send cock pics lol

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