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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well more a question for bi ladies. I have been thinking about being with a lady a fair bit lately. Not a couple just a girl but I'm not sure if I could go down on her

I already know that it's selfish to ask someone to meet where only I get fun out of it so would it be better to meet a couple so he can go down on her and just do soft play?

Hope that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering what it is about being with a woman that excites you if it isn't about mutual pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh I don't know. I just know when I'm playing solo or watching porn I sometimes think and most watch ff. I've just always wanted a lady to go down on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What turns you off about it?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Quite a lot of women are bi selfish. But quite a lot are willing to give and not receive. Me personally I don't see the point as it's fun to give and receive. Being with a woman is not just receiving for me. It's the softness and curves of her body. The soft and gentle kisses. I can't help but want to explore with my mouth and tongue, I would be disappointed if she didn't feel the same.

But I know bi women who just want to give pleasure. No need to go with a couple. Just be open and honest xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What turns you off about it?"

Again I really can't put my finger on one thing. It's very hard to put into words. Maybe it would be different once I was with a girl I never used to like giving bjs but I love it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi lady I wud b happy just to give xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What turns you off about it?

Again I really can't put my finger on one thing. It's very hard to put into words. Maybe it would be different once I was with a girl I never used to like giving bjs but I love it now "

Maybe you just want her to go down on you as you're straight... and you would feel naughty going down on her... but being a man I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What turns you off about it?

Again I really can't put my finger on one thing. It's very hard to put into words. Maybe it would be different once I was with a girl I never used to like giving bjs but I love it now

Maybe you just want her to go down on you as you're straight... and you would feel naughty going down on her... but being a man I could be wrong "

Being a man you prob are wrong. Only kidding. Maybe I'm the same as all the straight guys on here that play bi?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What turns you off about it?

Again I really can't put my finger on one thing. It's very hard to put into words. Maybe it would be different once I was with a girl I never used to like giving bjs but I love it now

Maybe you just want her to go down on you as you're straight... and you would feel naughty going down on her... but being a man I could be wrong

Being a man you prob are wrong. Only kidding. Maybe I'm the same as all the straight guys on here that play bi?! "

You could be, nothing wrong in being curious, nothing wrong in trying. If you don't like it then you don't have to do it... a bit like try before you bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't be with a woman. No offence meant it's just how I feel but if you want to try it and someone is willing to do so, just giving, then what harm can It do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree I never thought I would want to be with a woman but I get very turned on by the idea. That's one thing that worries me is it just the idea that turns me on hence why I want to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well more a question for bi ladies. I have been thinking about being with a lady a fair bit lately. Not a couple just a girl but I'm not sure if I could go down on her

I already know that it's selfish to ask someone to meet where only I get fun out of it so would it be better to meet a couple so he can go down on her and just do soft play? i know exactly what you mean i could kiss n tease a woman but dont know if i could fully pleasure her i find it erotic watching two women in porn but like you im very curious but dont know what to do

Hope that makes sense? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of women are bi selfish. But quite a lot are willing to give and not receive. Me personally I don't see the point as it's fun to give and receive. Being with a woman is not just receiving for me. It's the softness and curves of her body. The soft and gentle kisses. I can't help but want to explore with my mouth and tongue, I would be disappointed if she didn't feel the same.

But I know bi women who just want to give pleasure. No need to go with a couple. Just be open and honest xx"

I was sure I was straight....

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Well more a question for bi ladies. I have been thinking about being with a lady a fair bit lately. Not a couple just a girl but I'm not sure if I could go down on her

I already know that it's selfish to ask someone to meet where only I get fun out of it so would it be better to meet a couple so he can go down on her and just do soft play?

Hope that makes sense? "

I, the female love to go down on ladies and don't expect anything in return.

So we do exist...

It maybe that you would feel more comfortable with a lady on your own but there are also many couples that would help you out with your fantasy as the males are more than happy to watch...

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe it's the fantasy rather than the reality that turns u on I guess there are plenty of women out there that would be happy to give and not expect anything in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give rather then receive in fact my preference is for a woman who likes to take as that is what I take my pleasure from.

MissD

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I get lots of pleasure from giving, I've done it plenty times without receiving. Just as much as a turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer giving to guys and girls over receiving. When I actually do relax enough to receive I love it... It's just my state of mind I guess. Everyone's different, if you really are curious you might want to try it after she's gone down on you just because you enjoyed it so much. Be honest with the person before hand and just go with what feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a giver not a taker always have been, says as much on our profile.

But I do agree it's nice to have mutual pleasure. Make sure your honest, from the start, there's quite a few around to help, but they can't help unless you provide them with the full picture.

Good luck

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Just be honest, even if that puts some off. It will make things a whole lot better for the people it doesn't put off and you.

Don't over think it, just relax and focus on the enjoyment and if you change your mind while playing then be brave and say so. It's not a major issue if people are aware of it and it's not worth the time worrying about it. Clearly the thought of being with another woman excites you. So look to explore and find out if it is just the thought or there is more there. If there's more there you wil explore more the more relaxed you become with it.

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