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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there am very new to this but very curious been trying my best to contact people an be honest but to be honest found people to be a little rude an once I send face pic or a honest message explaining am free single an looking for fun I get blanked dunno where am going wrong. I am an understanding person if people ain't interested a simple "I am not interested " would do fine lol. Help officially needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a single guy so that's going to be tough on here as there are millions of you.

You are quite young and most people on here are middle aged and prefer not so young as you (although not me! ) . You have no photos and that is the first thing I look for on a profile. Are you being respectful when you message people.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

No pictures, very narrow age range, only looking for women, very little profile text, you are going to struggle. Don't go changing your preferences just to get laid, but be prepared to put extra effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrespect you aint exactly new on site as you been member a while.

Regardless of length of time its about perseverance and quite a bit of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No disrespect you aint exactly new on site as you been member a while.

Regardless of length of time its about perseverance and quite a bit of luck."

And not assuming its a cheap brothel but a place to make friends that do a little more than chat.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

It's the sheer number of messages women get on here, most of which are rubbish, rude or even vile.

My friend averages 30 odd a day. She works full time and has a busy life. Put yourself in her shoes-say 28 of the messages are of no interest. Would you reply to all 28? At best you'd have to open up 28 replies and paste "no thanks" into each.

Would you do that? I don't think anyone would, to be honest.

If someone is interested they'll follow it up. Otherwise, the time involved means replying isn't possible a lot of the time. That's the way it is.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There arecountless threads asking for advice,, I dread them they ll point you in the right direction,

Your profile enables you to display your character your personality, use it wisely. theres many folks that reference that before reading your message and if it doesnt sell you your message may not be read,

For my two pence worth yours is one of thousands Of similar profiles it doesn t stand out,

Have fun,,;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the sheer number of messages women get on here, most of which are rubbish, rude or even vile.

My friend averages 30 odd a day. She works full time and has a busy life. Put yourself in her shoes-say 28 of the messages are of no interest. Would you reply to all 28? At best you'd have to open up 28 replies and paste "no thanks" into each.

Would you do that? I don't think anyone would, to be honest.

If someone is interested they'll follow it up. Otherwise, the time involved means replying isn't possible a lot of the time. That's the way it is."

Thank you.... This is spot on

And also no pics and no effort just doesn't stand out x

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"It's the sheer number of messages women get on here, most of which are rubbish, rude or even vile.

My friend averages 30 odd a day. She works full time and has a busy life. Put yourself in her shoes-say 28 of the messages are of no interest. Would you reply to all 28? At best you'd have to open up 28 replies and paste "no thanks" into each.

Would you do that? I don't think anyone would, to be honest.

If someone is interested they'll follow it up. Otherwise, the time involved means replying isn't possible a lot of the time. That's the way it is.

Thank you.... This is spot on

And also no pics and no effort just doesn't stand out x"

Tis a pleasure. It was a real eye-opener when she showed me one day's worth of messages!

I'd have become a lesbian on the spot (I'd love to be a lesbian mind)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I been a member a while but only just recently started to use the site was very shy at first as this is all new to me. But thanks anyway. ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I been a member a while but only just recently started to use the site was very shy at first as this is all new to me. But thanks anyway. ????"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I been a member a while but only just recently started to use the site was very shy at first as this is all new to me. But thanks anyway. ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone's help much appreciated ??X

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