FabSwingers.com forum: Prostate massaging lol

By *nionjil lunionjack OP Couple
over a year ago

our town

Not sure if this is in the right category,. But was just wondering as this popped up in conversation,..

Saw it on Shameless as daft as it sounds,.. on there mimi gave her partner a prostate massage & he seemed to enjoy it,.. Quite alot,.. Lol

& also seen it mentioned on sexcerera (on sky living) that alot of couples try/do this too,...

& was just wondering,....

Has any couples , or straight guys on here tried it ?

Did it hurt at all ?

But mainly - Did it 'do the job'? - or just feel 'weird' ?

And for couples,.. Was it something the guy tried alone - or did she 'lend a hand' ?

What was used for the job ?

As in finger, dildo, prostate massager ?

& would you do it again ?

Like we say,.. Strange question,.. Probably in the wrong topic / category,... but please satisfy the curiosity ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not strange at all, but you miss out the single females that have done it to men.

used anal beads and dildo's and to my knowlede all but one enjoyed

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not a strange question at all.

I like giving them to partners.

Some men like it, some don't. Some like fingers, some prefer toys. It shouldn't hurt. If you have long fingernails it is probably best to avoid doing it.

It's best to put latex gloves on (to protect the delicate anal/rectal area from rough nails and to protect you if you have any small cuts or open skin on your hands). Wait until he's already turned on. Use plenty of lube and proceed slowly and gently.

There's plenty of info on the web but the basic way to start is to insert a finger, with the palm towards the man's front and make a "come here" gesture slowly with the finger, against the front wall of the rectum where the prostate is.

Vary pressure and movement in accordance with the feedback and response from the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done to me once. The lady "lent a hand"....well, a finger...... And it definitely lead to a more explosive highly charged orgasm. Full recommendation from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes erm my special lady frend is tryin all the bloody time to get her fingers up there lol

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By *awty bi coupleCouple
over a year ago

Wet Walsall

We love doing this, we regularly go with a finger or two but have tried the dildo, vibe, beads, all very good and definitely produce a much stronger orgasm, especially if I'm massaging his balls and/or sucking his cock at the same time

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

The first lady I met when I joined fabs gave me a prostate finger massage, its a definite G spot area as it gave me the most amazing orgasm and I also shot a surprisingly big load considering I had already cum 4 times during our meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to do it myself when I wank, it's intense!

Love it personally. Had girls do it. Slow at first, no nails, lube... So as a woman think of it this way, how would I like my pussy treated?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

The first time I had it done to me it was that intense i sprayed the headboard and wall behind me as well as hitting my face.. talk about a wow OMG moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this toys fingers whatever. Whilst being sucked too its the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying this on Monday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great feeling esp when getting rimmed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pokey bum wanks are amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to give this a try sounds like good fun mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this done to me a few times and it's heavenly, totally different to a normal orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love doing this, we regularly go with a finger or two but have tried the dildo, vibe, beads, all very good and definitely produce a much stronger orgasm, especially if I'm massaging his balls and/or sucking his cock at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does

Hand her a shoe horn and wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men abs love it plenty lube play with his balls and use finger or small dildo my partner loves me fuckin his ass comes so much and explosive ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut my nails short for Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be wearing latex gloves and might turn the light off

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By *hris n TwinkyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Twinky is on a mission at the moment to milk chris this way

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue??"

Use a douche or give him an enema first. I'm usually told it feels better with latex gloves on though.

Some people like it to feel medical and invasive. It takes all sorts!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I will be wearing latex gloves and might turn the light off

In which case, wear eye protection because you won't be able to see where it's aimed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is

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By *ich65Man
over a year ago

Chester

Girl I used to see did it to me. Never cum so much in my life. Videoed it to for good measure. Would highly recommend it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was a meet with one of the women on this site. She asked if she could play with my bum and not really knowoing what was in store I said yes Wow, it was amazing...made me cum in spurts..muxh more so than usual. I love it just need to find other partners who love doing it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is "

Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you find it off it ok if your partner out on gloves first??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you find it off it ok if your partner out on gloves first??

I meant 'odd or ok'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you find it off it ok if your partner out on gloves first??

I meant 'odd or ok'"

It would be ok. Safer especially if she doesn't want short nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OH is very skilled in this area has the perfect toy for the job. I was very wary of this before but in skilled hands it's mind blowing be prepared to cum buckets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it a few times, if you are relaxed and open minded, try it whilst receiving a warm oil handjob. The orgasm is incredibly intense. The problem now is finding women who will do this for me! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always slip a condom over a finger or two. I personally found the feeling a bit weird, but as the other guys here have found, it creates a huge ejaculation.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

its brilliant if you are relaxed

no nails

clean butt

and chill!

but also good outside too

want me to show you?!

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

" The problem now is finding women who will do this for me! lol"

Hmm…i wonder what a creative solution to this might be?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I had this she was next to me wanking my cock and her hands were rubbing my balls when she brushed my arse cheeks.

Feeling very horny I told her to slip a finger in, the sensation was so overwhelming I shot instantly literally over the top of both of us to the wall behind.

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By *ostboy1Man
over a year ago

leeds

Had this done to me by a ex fb really enjoyed the sensation and climate was intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it, but must have done it wrong. Couldn't find/feel the spot, and A didn't 'feel' anything special, apart from finding it pleasant. No ejaculation

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock

"Love this toys fingers whatever. Whilst being sucked too its the best "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it myself a few times when wanking it feels so nice cant wait for OH to do it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it and always blow a mahoosive load!!!

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By *exydude69Man
over a year ago

Lothian

Yes had this done and it is mind blowing. As others have said my orgasm was explosive.

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

I love doing this! Ive even got special toy just for milking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is

Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area."

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"I love doing this! Ive even got special toy just for milking

do tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love doing this! Ive even got special toy just for milking

do tell

Was thinkin the same

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Boys who don't like things up their bums really don't know what they're missing!!!!!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

latex gloves is a turn on in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a lady to try on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boys who don't like things up their bums really don't know what they're missing!!!!!

But those who do love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a pokey bum wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is

Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would really like this done to me so if there are any ladies local then please pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So want this done to me but its find a lady in my area that's willing is the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does

ask and you shall recieve! Lol. me and my partner love it. i started it without asking, although he was slightly shocked initially, he totally loved it, and so did i!! He shot the biggest load i had ever seen. mmmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is something I have only been able to do to myself. I have an aneros massager which I bought fir this, but does not quite hit the spot. Instead I find firm(ish) downward strokes results in a weird/unique/amazing sensation.

My partner finds this weird and won't go there. Which is fair enough, but a bit if a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it- so intense - especially combined with reverse cowgirl position!

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By *ackqqqqMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It is very amazing. Must be relaxed though and spread nicely to get nice fingers deep. Makes me cum beautifully too. I find women rarely like giving though. The best is when I do it to the woman simultaneously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot

definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot

definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging

xx"

What's an anal hook? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always fancied trying an anal hook!

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

"Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot

definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging

xx"

We have one but never thought to use it for that! Will try it

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