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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys

I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

If you have an affair someone will definitely be hurt. Find someone free and available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just enjoying the attention call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i think you need do is empty your dirty water then tell the Lady in question that you have been Fantasizing over her..Whats a Ladle in the face between friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to stop making arrangements with her and make arrangements to do something more worthwhile in your free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is getting off on the fantasy, but this isn't real, stop wasting your time and move onto someone who is available. life is too short for fukwits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forget her

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"If you have an affair someone will definitely be hurt. Find someone free and available. "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

She's leading you on, using you for the attention she doesn't get at home with no intention of taking things any further...always assuming what she's told you about get husband is true. Cool off and she'll come running until she's hooked you again. Leave her alone unless a fantasy relationship is what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should you have an affair with a married person - NO. Can't believe you needed to ask.

Plus she IS stringing you along and you are playing to it.

You will end up looking like a fool or a bastard with this one!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more "

I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her?????

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more

I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her?????"

He's been for a drink with her!!!!

Why do people put their answer without reading the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more

I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her?????

He's been for a drink with her!!!!

Why do people put their answer without reading the question?"

because they can

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Walk away and find someone worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.

"

Try to not be "so available" women really don't find this an attractive quality

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By *rednkatieCouple
over a year ago

orlando


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

was thinking same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible

was thinking same thing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really want this woman, dont be such a pushover!! Women like the chase too. nothing more unattractive than a desperate man. if she REALLY wants you, she will come running. however, i lf it was me, it would be telling her where to go! Good luck hunnie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

PMSL

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i'd suggest just reading the preview message before posting

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could not understand a word what the op was saying

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"could not understand a word what the op was saying "

oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying

a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments)

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying

a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments)

"

Because it makes them feel superior and is probably the only chance they get.

And I think you meant he's not his

(couldn't resist that )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.

"

Sounds like your wasting your gold dust - surely you dont need to ask!?

You can answer it for yourself, if you haven't already with the original post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First issue is that she is married. Second issue is she is married. Walk away before people get hurt. As a single guy, you should not chase married women in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"could not understand a word what the op was saying "

Everyone else on the thread could

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Sack it, why have the hassle of it all when you have the option of finding someone who is single and wont mess you about as much.

If you ease off, she may come running to you anyway.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible "

It creeped me out just reading it: some men are clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying

a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments)

Because it makes them feel superior and is probably the only chance they get.

And I think you meant he's not his

(couldn't resist that )"

Could only grasp a few words -.- people need to check grammar and spelling before writing posts

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Could only grasp a few words -.- people need to check grammar and spelling before writing posts"

ok fair enough you don't understand it (everybody else did ) so just move on instead of posting pointless negative comments

#JustSaying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"could not understand a word what the op was saying "

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar? "

Boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar? "

My grammar is perfectly fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?

Boom! "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?

My grammar is perfectly fine "

absolutely sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could not understand a word what the op was saying

Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".

Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?

My grammar is perfectly fine

absolutely sure about that? "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses....."

Can I just check.... this is vanilla friend that you're talking about? My personal opinion is that most vanilla ladies would not embrace this kind of Fab 'fantasy', from someone who is a drinks-buddy, no more.

Take a couple of steps back, and wait to see if she wants to take things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affairs cause carnage. End of

Plenty of free people on the planet. Try one of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the looks of it, you must have wasted enough gold dust already.

As a piece of advice, don't waste any more!

Conclusion; she's enjoying the attention or chase while you are living on hope it might happen making it seem like a vicious cycle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible

"

Just goesmto show how staid some non fab women are - I mean it's not like you suggested she be bound in her suspenders in the boot of your car with a pair of your hipsters used as a gag! Lol. Seriously though I think tne blindfold idea may have been prematurely introduced. If she is married, whats the pronlem kn knowing where you live?

Backing off, finding someone here and maybe leving her your number when you leave your temporary post are three suggestions. Take what you like and, leave the rest....

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