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First Meet Nerves.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very new to swinging but recently met a lovely, very sexy couple at a club but didn't the chance to take it further.

Well we have been messaging a lot since and are meeting them on Friday- it will be our first ever meet and I think I am going to get my girl on girl cherry popped so to speak - this is long awaited but I am so nervous I keep getting butterflies.

Hubby seems calmer about the meet but I know he is a bit worried about getting 'stage fright'

Did this happen with any of your first meets or did you worry and it turned out not to be an issue at all?

Any advice would be great.... k&m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first play meets are always nerve wracking.but as you have already met and messaged these ppl it wont be so bad.

just relax and take your time.i still always get really nervous and i have been on this site 2 years in all.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Very new to swinging but recently met a lovely, very sexy couple at a club but didn't the chance to take it further.

Well we have been messaging a lot since and are meeting them on Friday- it will be our first ever meet and I think I am going to get my girl on girl cherry popped so to speak - this is long awaited but I am so nervous I keep getting butterflies.

Hubby seems calmer about the meet but I know he is a bit worried about getting 'stage fright'

Did this happen with any of your first meets or did you worry and it turned out not to be an issue at all?

Any advice would be great.... k&m x"

We always approach every meet, whether social, coffee, or something more intimate, with the same attitude.

We hope to make friends, and anything else is a bonus!

We like to chat, have a giggle, maybe a drink (but not too much!), and see how things go.

Maybe break out a silly but sexy game of some kind, and before you know it, everyone is sweaty, smiley and exhausted!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I love new meets finding out what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much easier to have a social meet first,then if theres a natural attraction it just happens why put pressure on yourself to put out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So much easier to have a social meet first,then if theres a natural attraction it just happens why put pressure on yourself to put out lol"

Already met there is def an attraction. Meeting in a club so will have opportunity for a drink and chill first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then why are you nervous just enjoy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had a meet to get nervous about! Not had one for a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I had a meet to get nervous about! Not had one for a while!"

Me too not from fab yet anyway abit disappointing

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

Try not to let the nerves spoil it for you, chill, relax, laugh, joke, share some life experiences, flirt, banter....and most of all....enjoy, whatever happens

Personally I don't get nervous about meets....excited about meeting someone new, yes, nervous about meeting them, no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

should we get the violins out? lol

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby


"should we get the violins out? lol "

Condoms might be more appropriate for your meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nearly everyone is going to be nervous before their first meet but I reckon you'll be surprised at how easy it is to get on with the other couple, especially seeing as you've met them already. Best of luck anyway!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

From a bloke's point of view I understand why your hubby is slightly worried about Stage Fright as I get that as well... but if the meet is going well with a few laughs and giggles to reduce the tension, the natural worries soon pass over

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