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By *irstTime4everything OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

I suppose if the couple are into that kind of thing then it's up to them. Also the 3rd person obviously has got to be comfortable with it too. I know I would definitely do it while the partner/husband is away/out but I haven't had a meet with a couple yet and still a little bit nervous about it too. I would love to fuck someone's wife/partner while the male is tied up and blind folded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts "

Would never consider it. To many variables and emotions to get involved with.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

we have just found a new bi friend , shame we are finishing up and heading back for xmas, but roll on next year..connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if you are honest and manage each other's expectations I don't believe it is too hard to do. oh and move to somewhere more convenient lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

love a regular guy joining us ...the longer you all know each other the better it gets in our experience ! .good luck guys !!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts "

It will be difficult to achieve, single guys often have just as much baggage as anyone else here and trying to make it a regular thing will often fall down.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts "

meet a few, or go with your gut on who you trust to keeo a level head. If he's any good, and you're not pushy with what you want from him, it'll turn out good.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts

It will be difficult to achieve, single guys often have just as much baggage as anyone else here and trying to make it a regular thing will often fall down.

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baggage like what?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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baggage like what? "

Work, kids, family, getting in and out of "relationships". We just don't believe that this place/lifestyle lends itself to regular all that well.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


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baggage like what?

Work, kids, family, getting in and out of "relationships". We just don't believe that this place/lifestyle lends itself to regular all that well.

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ahh, being single I dont think like that. Do profiles not give it away?? Wome/couples for instance say they can only meet whenever or casually or what..

(dont mean to hijack OP_

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago

third star on the right

At the end of the day people have feelings people become attached or some sort of feelings become involved probably best to stay clear.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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ahh, being single I dont think like that. Do profiles not give it away?? Wome/couples for instance say they can only meet whenever or casually or what..

(dont mean to hijack OP_"

I don't want to go deeply into it and by all means not everyone does but quite a lot of them, or maybe the ones we engage with are flat out lying about their situation or it "changes" or various other things (oh had a car crash wont be able to swing again etc).

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


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ahh, being single I dont think like that. Do profiles not give it away?? Wome/couples for instance say they can only meet whenever or casually or what..

(dont mean to hijack OP_

I don't want to go deeply into it and by all means not everyone does but quite a lot of them, or maybe the ones we engage with are flat out lying about their situation or it "changes" or various other things (oh had a car crash wont be able to swing again etc).

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let dows are let downs. The amount of single women model types that come on here is somethign similar. You can sit drooling at some and their 'come get me , I like it rough as' profiles.. but they are a little see through and as a usual they disappear or dont ever meet. i.e. it'd just be a wasted mail to them

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"love a regular guy joining us ...the longer you all know each other the better it gets in our experience ! .good luck guys !!"

This.

We've been looking for a regular playmate but without luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the dynamics of both your own marriage relationship, and the relationship with the 3rd party.

personally i can only ever see it ending with a broken marriage, but am happy to be proven wrong

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I have a couple of regular fuck buddies. Everyone knows the score and all are happy so it works very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but having a couple of regular fuck buddys changes the dynamics of the situation. totaly different to one regular,

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By *dynlisaCouple
over a year ago

Notts


"love a regular guy joining us ...the longer you all know each other the better it gets in our experience ! .good luck guys !!

This.

We've been looking for a regular playmate but without

luck."

So have we but its impossible to find someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a "solid" couple who do this...shes now going to leave her husband for her fuck buddy...approach it with caution x

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Works for us. But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on the dynamics of both your own marriage relationship, and the relationship with the 3rd party.

personally i can only ever see it ending with a broken marriage, but am happy to be proven wrong"

This

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Well you could say another term for "regular fuck buddy" could be "Boyfriend" we know personally of a few couples have gone down this route and an emotional attachment has developed on one or both sides (after all there must be an ongoing attraction to keep seeing someone its natural to form a bond. Most of those we know who have taken this path have found their marriages crashed and burned or at least caused major issues. yes it sounds erotic and horny in theory but in practice you are playing with fire !! But best of luck if you do try it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on the dynamics of both your own marriage relationship, and the relationship with the 3rd party.

personally i can only ever see it ending with a broken marriage, but am happy to be proven wrong

This "

I can relate to this comment , however some balance from,y own experience . I have been playing with the same couple for 2 years now . Basically me and Mrs fuck and he likes to video. We are all really good friends and meet approx 7-8 times a year . Absolutely no chance of them breaking up , it's fun for them , just an extension of there sex life together . It can work .

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By *cott katieCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury Shropshire

Not a good idea, gets too complicated and no matter what you think now emotions do get in the way xx Best to steer clear and just have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a good idea, gets too complicated and no matter what you think now emotions do get in the way xx Best to steer clear and just have fun xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts

Would never consider it. To many variables and emotions to get involved with. "

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts

It will be difficult to achieve, single guys often have just as much baggage as anyone else here and trying to make it a regular thing will often fall down.

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It's just as hard for guys to find regular meets too! Would too regular not spoil the excitement anyway?

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes


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ahh, being single I dont think like that. Do profiles not give it away?? Wome/couples for instance say they can only meet whenever or casually or what..

(dont mean to hijack OP_

I don't want to go deeply into it and by all means not everyone does but quite a lot of them, or maybe the ones we engage with are flat out lying about their situation or it "changes" or various other things (oh had a car crash wont be able to swing again etc).

let dows are let downs. The amount of single women model types that come on here is somethign similar. You can sit drooling at some and their 'come get me , I like it rough as' profiles.. but they are a little see through and as a usual they disappear or dont ever meet. i.e. it'd just be a wasted mail to them"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i do understand how it can go wrong but we also have experience (about 10 years) of how it can work for all concerned. weve had a few long term guys over the years ...two actually moved in with us and there has never been any dramas. i think clearly stating expectations and limits from the outset can be key to success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do understand how it can go wrong but we also have experience (about 10 years) of how it can work for all concerned. weve had a few long term guys over the years ...two actually moved in with us and there has never been any dramas. i think clearly stating expectations and limits from the outset can be key to success"

We are assumming there were no children involved etc. Still a hell of a gamble as you could not be assured of emotional detatchment thoughout. Glad it worked for you though.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

correct ..there were no children involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are getting into this more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what we are looking for, something more regular with a third, someone we both get along with and we feel comfortable with to see together and separate. It is harder than you think though especially as we're seeking a bi male so it's just another thing to throw into the mix.

We did have a regular though he was so unreliable and would ignore texts and PM's on fab we decided it wasn't for us! It's quite a big thing for a couple to open up their relationship to a regular third so that person needs to understand and respect both parties.

Back on the hunt again, this time we will take more time finding the right person and enjoy the fun along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you read opening up? It's a very interesting read on open relationships, helps you set boundaries and understand some of the emotions you might feel.

From a males perspective it can be an emotional roller coaster watching the woman you love desire another man so much. everyone gets that NRE (new relationship energy) at the start of something new, watching it grow is a turn on but can make you anxious in equal measures but is something I can't get enough off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts "

I've been playing with the same couple for 2 years and it just gets better and better .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as long as respect for each other is kept then regular would work well...

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"Well you could say another term for "regular fuck buddy" could be "Boyfriend" we know personally of a few couples have gone down this route and an emotional attachment has developed on one or both sides (after all there must be an ongoing attraction to keep seeing someone its natural to form a bond. Most of those we know who have taken this path have found their marriages crashed and burned or at least caused major issues. yes it sounds erotic and horny in theory but in practice you are playing with fire !! But best of luck if you do try it !! "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"love a regular guy joining us ...the longer you all know each other the better it gets in our experience ! .good luck guys !!"

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

i was the extra in a couples marriage ,it was sort of uneasy at first but after a few meets it just became the norm ,and we shared his wife for a number of years ... cool as ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although it's not for us we have met a couple and their fuck buddy who love it, they even socialise as a three person group. It works for them so no reason why it can't work for you too. x

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Based on previous experiences what's your opinion on involving a third guy as a regular fuck buddie to have fun with her both as a threesum and one on one sessions? Penny for your thoughts "

It works for us - she likes her single guys anyway, and there are some decent gents out there I can have a laugh with especially when I get in from work and they've been keeping her entertained for me in my absence

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

One year on I'm still looking for a regular fuckbuddy, couple or single lady.

I believe a mental and physical connection can only enhance the experience.

I'm either not a good prospect or there's no ootions in kent. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the couple, have over the years met couples together or just me and the female partner many times, it does however only last for a while, longest was for 3 years every couple of months or so we would meet up. and still speak now but lives have moved on.

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