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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding this site is knocking my confidence each day....

Just not getting anywhere, I know it's hard for single lads but I didn't think I was too bad ( not great.) But just don't get any interest?

Wanted to find a nice regular playmate and then maybe even couples with a fb but no joys....

Anyone else find it knocks there confidence getting nowhere?

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By *mma.Woman
over a year ago

DAVYHULME MANC

always hard for a guy cause their is so many who mess about so sorry it does take time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't this site to boost my confidence and wouldn't think a rejection is knocking it.

Maybe the site isn't for you, as you won't be for everyone you ask so will get knockbacks

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"There confidence"..(sic)..no got a thick skin..Forums are fun (mostly)....anything else a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw "

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""There confidence"..(sic)..no got a thick skin..Forums are fun (mostly)....anything else a bonus "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot "

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you understand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you understand "

Haha

Could look through yours all day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate but if this site is so important to you that it affects your confidence then get off it . There are too many other things in life to focus on besides finding a fuck here.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks girls....

Well it's a bit more reassuring, maybe I'm in wrong area haha.

Doesn't effect my confidence in way of being depressed etc... Just bit of hit. Thought it may had been easier.

Enjoying forums and chatting etc... So hopefully meets will come.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Finding this site is knocking my confidence each day....

Just not getting anywhere, I know it's hard for single lads but I didn't think I was too bad ( not great.) But just don't get any interest?

Wanted to find a nice regular playmate and then maybe even couples with a fb but no joys....

Anyone else find it knocks there confidence getting nowhere? "

if your confidence is so easly knocked. I'd get off the horse now.

Imagine a meet where someone says something about either you or your performance or actually declines to fuck bcause you are not what they expected.

lol - think about what you want maybe?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Finding this site is knocking my confidence each day....

Just not getting anywhere, I know it's hard for single lads but I didn't think I was too bad ( not great.) But just don't get any interest?

Wanted to find a nice regular playmate and then maybe even couples with a fb but no joys....

Anyone else find it knocks there confidence getting nowhere? "

3 months on here and 2 meets!!! Some single guys don't get that after a year. I think you are lucky so not quite sure why your confidence is taking a knock but I am not you of course.

I remember that gate pic! Fabbed it a few weeks ago. Very very nice.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Finding this site is knocking my confidence each day....

Just not getting anywhere, I know it's hard for single lads but I didn't think I was too bad ( not great.) But just don't get any interest?

Wanted to find a nice regular playmate and then maybe even couples with a fb but no joys....

Anyone else find it knocks there confidence getting nowhere? "

Why is it knocking your confidence OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ever let the site knock your confidence

Rejection is not personal to you because they don't know you properly,its a numbers game and just words on a page

Keep at it ,keep a sense of humour and remember its not real life its the internet and im sure you'll find lots of fun to have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys...

Like I said, I appreciate the odds and numbers game... Maybe saying knocking my confidence was the wrong term to use. I'm not disheartened just feel not got anywhere recently.

First two meets were in first couple weeks....

Haha thanks bambi... Plenty of your pics are very hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't ever let the site knock your confidence

Rejection is not personal to you because they don't know you properly,its a numbers game and just words on a page

Keep at it ,keep a sense of humour and remember its not real life its the internet and im sure you'll find lots of fun to have "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Finding this site is knocking my confidence each day....

Just not getting anywhere, I know it's hard for single lads but I didn't think I was too bad ( not great.) But just don't get any interest?

Wanted to find a nice regular playmate and then maybe even couples with a fb but no joys....

Anyone else find it knocks there confidence getting nowhere?

Why is it knocking your confidence OP?"

Like I said maybe wrong term to use.... Was just hoping for a better response I guess..

Sure keep at it and get some fun meets under my belt will certainly turn it around

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

If only I was younger!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

you look nice perservere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your lack of success is genuinely knocking your confidence then you have to ask is this the right site for you/ Or at the very least revisit your sense of expectation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular "

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I was closer, slimmer etc

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I am sure that many guys on here feel similar to the way you do sometimes but with the club scene you have in your area you should be able to do quite well on here if your expectations are not too high

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc... "

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"If only I was closer, slimmer etc"

Here here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx "

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

the forum social in xtasia in febuary next year is a good way for you to meet many people who contribute to them on here and that may help with your confidence aswell

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys "

Keep an eye on the club meets section and the parties section of the forums for things in your area! I went to my first social at a club in September. I was bricking it and had never met any of the people before or been to a club. It was a brilliant night x

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys "

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us can have confidence issues at some time or other.

I believe that it's the initial approach where we all get it right or we get it wrong. Partner/playmate selection is the first thing we need to get right.

If your mail keeps getting deleted, change the way you do it.

If you can pull in the "real world" you'll be able to pull on here too.

Have you tried a dating site?

You'll need the same skills there too, so get practicing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you "

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick with it, and expect nothing. Anything else is then a bonus. . . Had a good perve. . . Good profile, and I would not turn you down if you were near me. X

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Just stick with it, and expect nothing. Anything else is then a bonus. . . Had a good perve. . . Good profile, and I would not turn you down if you were near me. X "

thanks for always being entertaining on here with your status and offering good advice via these forums at times aswell and hopefully the op will not give up on here aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come and have a hug..a naked one..i will make you feel Better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys "

There are social nights at No3 Club Thursday nights

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me? "

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got yourself a nice interactive forum thread going here.

How's your confidence now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends."

Iv tried messaging you but can't because of filters...

I'll add you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends."

Can't even add you as a friend as it says everyone of my sex is blocked x

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends.

Iv tried messaging you but can't because of filters...

I'll add you. X"

You can add me to your hotlist if you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've got yourself a nice interactive forum thread going here.

How's your confidence now?"

Must admit, I really wasn't expecting this response...

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends.

Can't even add you as a friend as it says everyone of my sex is blocked x"

I don't know why it's saying that as I have had quite a few messages today....and I've not blocked men only women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular

Ye I have, something i want to do, but dont want to go alone, not knowing anyone there. And i have no friends within thé swinging scène.

Would just be nervous of being stood around alone or not knowing what to expect/do etc...

I was having the convo in a club with some friends last night, as we pulled up in the car park there was a single guy first visit, looked absolutely terrified!! Saw him a bit later on chatting away to a group at a table. Credit to him coz he had more guts than me to walk in alone.

But can I suggest watching out for the organised socials, some are at clubs and some not but it's def a less scary way to get out there and meet like minded people without just walking into a club on a random night. Xx

Ye crédit too him....

I'd be shutting a brick haha.

A group social night would be perfect I think. Will have to keep my eye out. If anyone knows of any around my area please let me know. Appreciate all your advice guys

We you appear to have plenty of friends on here I'm sure you should be able to get one of them to go with you

Haha thanks....

Fancy joining me?

Your right up my street but I'm not one of your friends.

Can't even add you as a friend as it says everyone of my sex is blocked x

I don't know why it's saying that as I have had quite a few messages today....and I've not blocked men only women and couples."

I keep trying but same thing surprised I'm up your street. You look gorgeous.

Try adding me etc.. x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Great pics...apart from the mankini one lol...you could teach some of the whinging guys on here a lesson who think that one out of focus cock pic will get them meets! Keep at it and good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great pics...apart from the mankini one lol...you could teach some of the whinging guys on here a lesson who think that one out of focus cock pic will get them meets! Keep at it and good luck xx "

Haha thankyou....

I try to be one to remember

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"

I keep trying but same thing surprised I'm up your street. You look gorgeous.

Try adding me etc.. x"

I hope your joking I'm average hun, and why wouldn't you be up my street? What's wrong with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I keep trying but same thing surprised I'm up your street. You look gorgeous.

Try adding me etc.. x

I hope your joking I'm average hun, and why wouldn't you be up my street? What's wrong with you?"

Why would I be joking....

Hence the thread I havnt had much luck...

Doing my head in not being able to pm you etc.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont wink now seeing as you have pulled

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"

I keep trying but same thing surprised I'm up your street. You look gorgeous.

Try adding me etc.. x

I hope your joking I'm average hun, and why wouldn't you be up my street? What's wrong with you?

Why would I be joking....

Hence the thread I havnt had much luck...

Doing my head in not being able to pm you etc.. x"

sweetie nothing good comes easy

and I'm surprised with the amount of friends you have on here you haven't meet up with may of them.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I wont wink now seeing as you have pulled"

You can still wink at him hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leerise it says on your profile "not looking for single males" . . . . I think that stops anyone new from messaging you, only those who have messaged you before or are on your friends list can message you. . . .

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Leerise it says on your profile "not looking for single males" . . . . I think that stops anyone new from messaging you, only those who have messaged you before or are on your friends list can message you. . . . "

I'm confused as I've not wrote that I'm not looking for single men as I'm still getting messages in my inbox from them.

How can I check it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I keep trying but same thing surprised I'm up your street. You look gorgeous.

Try adding me etc.. x

I hope your joking I'm average hun, and why wouldn't you be up my street? What's wrong with you?

Why would I be joking....

Hence the thread I havnt had much luck...

Doing my head in not being able to pm you etc.. x

sweetie nothing good comes easy

and I'm surprised with the amount of friends you have on here you haven't meet up with may of them."

Nope certainly doesn't.

Drop me a private message and we can chat some more x

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I've just checked and I've haven't wrote that anywhere.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leerise it says on your profile "not looking for single males" . . . . I think that stops anyone new from messaging you, only those who have messaged you before or are on your friends list can message you. . . .

I'm confused as I've not wrote that I'm not looking for single men as I'm still getting messages in my inbox from them.

How can I check it?"

you need to go to your account, then message filters. You should find single males have an X by them (they cannot message you) x

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Leerise it says on your profile "not looking for single males" . . . . I think that stops anyone new from messaging you, only those who have messaged you before or are on your friends list can message you. . . .

I'm confused as I've not wrote that I'm not looking for single men as I'm still getting messages in my inbox from them.

How can I check it?

you need to go to your account, then message filters. You should find single males have an X by them (they cannot message you) x"

Thanks hun, I've just checked and there is only a tick

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

Is self deprecation the new sexy ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I'm stumped then, because I just checked on my own. If it's ticked, it shouldn't be showing "not looking for single males" on your profile.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Well, I'm stumped then, because I just checked on my own. If it's ticked, it shouldn't be showing "not looking for single males" on your profile. "

i just got his message hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, I'm stumped then, because I just checked on my own. If it's ticked, it shouldn't be showing "not looking for single males" on your profile.

i just got his message hun "

Finally sorted lol....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is self deprecation the new sexy ? Xxx"

I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great pics OP...have you thought about trying a club? I think you would be very popular "

Mmmm x

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Well, I'm stumped then, because I just checked on my own. If it's ticked, it shouldn't be showing "not looking for single males" on your profile.

i just got his message hun "

perhaps if he is a friend of yours on here otherwise it does look like men are blocked from mailing you at the moment

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I wouldn't have the confidence to approach you, you are hot hot hot! I'd be a shy mess! Bx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only I was younger!!!"

and me

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Sorry ladies you will have to form a queue behind me as I'm the lucky chosen one, tee hee

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"If only I was closer, slimmer etc

Here here x"

Ditto that!!

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry ladies you will have to form a queue behind me as I'm the lucky chosen one, tee hee "

Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After Miss Sophie's comment had about the gate pic, intrigued and have to agree, lovely pic and a cute bum too. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Cough* I think I’ve *Cough* got a case of *Cough* low confidence myself!

Any takers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*Cough* I think I’ve *Cough* got a case of *Cough* low confidence myself!

Any takers?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope the OP gets what he wants from the thread and has a fabulous meet

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Think at times we all suffer from a loss of confidence on here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope the OP gets what he wants from the thread and has a fabulous meet "

Thanks... I want we all want. To meet nice people that share thé same interest and have a good time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think at times we all suffer from a loss of confidence on here!!"

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Two weeks ago I was called a S**g, from a bloke who had been on here for six weeks, no pics, no veris, and i had never even spoke to him. Knocked me a little to think that maybe being on here gives men that impression of me.....but gave myself a good talking too and brushed it off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only I was closer, slimmer etc

Here here x"

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Your 26, good looking, below my normal age, but have to phwarr....

2 meets in 2 months, you have it....

Just keep going. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmm if only you lived nearer to me ~ you're well yummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you understand

Haha

Could look through yours all day x"

Sorry it took me so long to ...I was checking train times, be there in the morning lol

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

So ladies he's has been taken by me :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So ladies he's has been taken by me :P"

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"So ladies he's has been taken by me :P "

Okay ladies he's back on the market enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So ladies he's has been taken by me :P

Okay ladies he's back on the market enjoy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you understand

Haha

Could look through yours all day x

Sorry it took me so long to ...I was checking train times, be there in the morning lol "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you "

Your comments peaked my interest, so in the name of Research I had to have a perv,, oops sorry a look at the pics & I have to concur the the gate pic is indeed worthy of closer inspection.

The subject matter appears to be in very good condition, pleasing to the eye & draws ones eye to the pert beautifully formed buttocks.

The majority of guys should study these pics & learn that the OP's type of pics are definitely more appealing than the usual cock shot. This, along with a well written profile will appeal to more women & I'm sure the OP will be needing an extra large mailbox very soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let it do that it's just a bit of a carry on...shouldn't knock anything ....love the gate pic btw

Haha thanks.... Some great outfits and pics. Very hot

I went back for an 'extra large' look ...in the interests of research you

Your comments peaked my interest, so in the name of Research I had to have a perv,, oops sorry a look at the pics & I have to concur the the gate pic is indeed worthy of closer inspection.

The subject matter appears to be in very good condition, pleasing to the eye & draws ones eye to the pert beautifully formed buttocks.

The majority of guys should study these pics & learn that the OP's type of pics are definitely more appealing than the usual cock shot. This, along with a well written profile will appeal to more women & I'm sure the OP will be needing an extra large mailbox very soon.

"

Haha thankyou very much...

I tried to be unusual and different.

Thanks for all compliments girls very flattered by you all

Lets see how the inbox goes then.... Not too much yet

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I guess your confidence will be your killer

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

When it destroys your confidence, as it did mine, get off for a while, concentrate on other things in life, come back when you feel better, repeat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it destroys your confidence, as it did mine, get off for a while, concentrate on other things in life, come back when you feel better, repeat..."

This. I left for a while when the relentless time-sink of it all started to get to me. Felt much better after a month or two away.

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