FabSwingers.com forum: ffm meet where are we going wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi peeps we have been here a few weeks now and we are looking for a single bifemale to join us in a threesome. Where are we going wrong? Spoke to loads of ladies who say they are well up for it then just disapear

looking for some advice pls how does our profile look be nice pls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably good idea to meet with a bi fem couple. as a single girl i had a bad Experience with a couple so now would only play like that at a club or party. play as a couple with joint profile and also a a ff profile too. safety in numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus i wouldnt meet anyone new due to In Experience and you dont Know how people will actually React when face to face with someone else in the dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic of the male, no one likes blind dates.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bi fem. I'm looking for a local couple but wary about who I meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou for your input white angel unfortunatley we not looking for a couple though bi fem or not.sorry to hear you had bad experience does our profile look ok ? X

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

You have been on here 2 weeks, no male pics.

Get to a club and a social, that way you get verified.

If I was bi, I would not just meet a couple. the single bi female is what every couple is looking for.

Good luck in your search.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

its the holy grail the bi fem

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You are seeking what so many others try to find on here.

We decided to try clubs after months of searching on the Internet which totally changed things for us. Now we play with couples as well as our confidence grew what we were happy to experience changed as well. It's worth considering if you haven't already.

Also as mentioned your pics don't include the male and you can't really see much of the female. Try and put yourself in the single girls position and now imagine a couple of bad meets and factor that in. How so many couples can mess up meets with a single girl is beyond us but an awful lot of girls seem to go through it.

Good luck

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol Cheers _am123

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks _hoenixcouplexx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Single bi female are not difficult to find, you just need to be patient and act of the very good advice given so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou _renchbambi x

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I would say get better photos. Put more effort in to your text, for example: what exactly you looking for and what are you offering the single female. Single bi females get plenty of offers, what have you got that would make her choose you, sell yourselves better.

Also a lot of those single bi-females that just disappeared after you talked to them for a while where probably male fantasists, so watch out for that.

Lastly don't discount couples profiles. A lot of couples are happy to just have the female half playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou rosie and snappo thats a really good response will take it on board have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what's already been said on here ~ pictures of the male half for sure.

Also maybe your expectations of a bi~female might help ~ for example does she get to play with both of you or just the fem and then is cast aside....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

One thing I look for in a couple where the F and/or M clain to be bisexual are pics showing them playing with a same sex partner. There are too many pillow princesses and queens on here. They are vary rare those pics and when I find them I feel sure I won't be used as a treat for the mister.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

What are you looking for from a 3sum? What would be my role as a sbf? Will I be playing with both parties, am I able to kiss both? Or am I just there to have a bit of fun with the female and then banished out the room or front door while you have your own fun?

I personally prefer to know this before I get involved with a couple.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

OP is there a reason why there's no male photo's on your profile? I find that bizarre.

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By *iceguy83Man
over a year ago

manchester

"What are you looking for from a 3sum? What would be my role as a sbf? Will I be playing with both parties, am I able to kiss both? Or am I just there to have a bit of fun with the female and then banished out the room or front door while you have your own fun?

I personally prefer to know this before I get involved with a couple. "

But wouldn't these be questions you'd ask via messaging / getting to know one another, after initial pictures / age criteria / genders etc are established to be a match ?

Just curious.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think there is more effort in writing this thread than there is in your profile.

maybe start there... good luck

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

While it's true that you will get lots of people who chat and then dissappear, and there is a percentage of fems on here who are not fems at all, you've only been a member a few weeks, you don't any verfications and no male pics.

Some couples are on here for years and still haven't met a bi fem.

Meeting some people's at clubs will be a good start for you.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I personally prefer to know this before I get involved with a couple.

But wouldn't these be questions you'd ask via messaging / getting to know one another, after initial pictures / age criteria / genders etc are established to be a match ?

Nope, if I read them in a profile, it gives me more incentive to answer a message either with a no thanks or 'let's see where it goes', I've had way too many problems with people who aren't clear on their boundaries when they start chatting, they are just happy to get a sbf answer a message, they constantly change the goal posts, at least if it is an profile we know where we stand at the beginning.

Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bi females are like hens teeth . . they reportedly exist, but you'll have a hell of a job finding one who doesn't have a man in tow.

Accept it and meet a couple.

Ask yourself why you need a single fem anyway and just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single bi females are like hens teeth . . they reportedly exist, but you'll have a hell of a job finding one who doesn't have a man in tow.

Accept it and meet a couple.

Ask yourself why you need a single fem anyway and just get on with it."

Iv been called a few choice names over the yrs, but never been refered to as hens teeth!!

Updated profile looks much better, with updated pics, more of mrs and some of mr, it'll look great. Im new, and just been browsing and reading forums, left pics off for now, to deter mail. As a single fem id want a social meet 1st, so i felt safe.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask yourself why would a single woman (never mind a genuine, attractive one) meet you on the basis of that profile?

Your pictures are unappealing, the p

e text coarse, you both smoke and you are inexperienced and unverified.

Sorry tp be harsh but you are trying to sell yourself in a competitive market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the 'updated' version.

You need better pics - the dark ones are hard to make out and rather than concentrating on graphic close ups try and show body shots - clothed, in underwear, even naked if you want.

As for the text - it's a little too 'he's a sex god' - people don't want to read how amazing someone thinks themselves to be, it screams ego!! Just because you believe each other to be amazing at certain activities doesn't mean you'll hit the right buttons with anyone else.

Play it down a little and concentrate on what you can offer in terms of making sure any woman that joins you will be part of the equation rather than a plaything to fulfil your fantasies.

Get to socials and clubs - there's plenty about of both. And I'd suggest looking to meet socially first as meeting a couple can often be daunting for a line female.

Good to see you've acknowledged good advice from the forums - but I'd also suggest browsing similar couples to yourselves, particularly those with veri's from single females - and seeing how they portray themselves.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - and if you've no kids for that weekend (read your meet post!) - I'd recommend the short trip to xtasia on the 7th - it's a free weekend for fab members and if you check the forum thread there's a fair few single females on the guest list - and it's a great chance to do some 'Social networking' !!

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