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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They looked they went away....putting it bluntly they may not have liked what they saw so did'nt feel they had to wink or message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

vieed four times today by the same couple with no wink message or anything else

but we did get a friends request from someone we had never chatted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some people that view everyday,sometimes loads of times in a day.......I just think if they wanted to send a message they would

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Well, I would have liked to have sent you a message, but you have blocked all men!

Best wishes, and keep well wrapped up.....

Brrrrrrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have to look at your profile to find out if the like you. However, someone may like your pics, but not be interested in meeting you due to something they read on your profile that either rules them, or you out. That's just the way it goes.

Do you message everyone who's profile you view? I doubt it x

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

If I blocked every profile I viewed that I wasn't interested in meeting... I'd have about 20 profiles left to look at

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"People have to look at your profile to find out if the like you. However, someone may like your pics, but not be interested in meeting you due to something they read on your profile that either rules them, or you out. That's just the way it goes.

Do you message everyone who's profile you view? I doubt it x"

Oh I like that last question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"vieed four times today by the same couple with no wink message or anything else

but we did get a friends request from someone we had never chatted to "

Often there is no rhyme nor reason the what happens here

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

We dont do single men as no fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes ive looked at a profile a quite a few time, but only because i have forgotten ive already looked lol.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

And what about all those people that view in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we first joined we were getting 600 hundred views a day. Now it's only about 150 and not as many people message us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the shame here it annoys me lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's the shame here it annoys me lol "

Don't be ashamed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx"

Ooh was it me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what way you look at it, we are a couple but not always stuck to each others hips.

So if Im having a nose on fabs and see a profile I like, then I might tell the Mrs to have a look. Therefore viewed twice in maybe a couple of hours. Then we might look at people that have viewed our profile, again not remembering all the weird and wonderful names we all call ourselfs. So may end up looking at a profile several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"vieed four times today by the same couple with no wink message or anything else

but we did get a friends request from someone we had never chatted to

Often there is no rhyme nor reason the what happens here"

Oi you looked at me today !!!! No hello though !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes ive looked at a profile a quite a few time, but only because i have forgotten ive already looked lol. "

this

and i see someone post something i kinda like, or say something about their profile or pics, so i go and look.

its not illegal you know lol.

this profile, as of now, has had 130 views.

3 winks and 1 message.

dont really care either way truth be told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on what way you look at it, we are a couple but not always stuck to each others hips.

So if Im having a nose on fabs and see a profile I like, then I might tell the Mrs to have a look. Therefore viewed twice in maybe a couple of hours. Then we might look at people that have viewed our profile, again not remembering all the weird and wonderful names we all call ourselfs. So may end up looking at a profile several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes ive looked at a profile a quite a few time, but only because i have forgotten ive already looked lol.

this

and i see someone post something i kinda like, or say something about their profile or pics, so i go and look.

its not illegal you know lol.

this profile, as of now, has had 130 views.

3 winks and 1 message.

dont really care either way truth be told"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

they are just perving , it's normal on here . if I see a guy with a huge cock on here I will look at his profile . it doesn't mean I'm gay or interested in meeting him , it's just curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I forgot , there are ladies I've messaged and they are not interested , but I still look at the pictures . normal on here I would have thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont do single men as no fun x"

I think single men are great fun!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We dont do single men as no fun x

I think single men are great fun! "

+1

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

Perhaps they like what they see but think THEY are out of YOUR league ?

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

44 views now and not a wink or message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"44 views now and not a wink or message."

seriously? What is your point? People aren't allowed to look at your profile if they aren't going to wink or message? Out of a whole 44 people, one of them at least should want to meet you?

Maybe you should reassess your expectations of this site and realise people have standards, different likes and dislikes, and most of all, are free to look and move on without any contact.

*shakes head*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"44 views now and not a wink or message."

By 44 people or 44 views by one person? I can have over 100 views a day and maybe only 7-10 messages...people will look and see that something in my profile doesn't fit what they are looking for or they don't match up to what I want so they don't message. Would you have wanted all 44 people to message you or do some of them not match what you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been viewed 11 times, two messaged me, one wink and one friend request. I love d*unken saturday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, getting views is half way, and far nicer than no views at all.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

who cares, its a profile, if people look, they look, if they are interested they will message me (or not).

and if they look a few times... so be it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"44 views now and not a wink or message."
mr looks like he's got small cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw, I was gonna have a look, but I was blocked before I could. What a shame. Having an opinion is such a terrible affliction sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They looked they went away....putting it bluntly they may not have liked what they saw so did'nt feel they had to wink or message"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you expect a message for every view ?

Perhaps you weren't their cup of tea ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that what profiles are For..Looking at ?..Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yours is very nice Muffin

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx

Ooh was it me ? "

No I think it was me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got viewed 4 times today hahahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men view me, sometimes more than once. why not say hi, doesn't make sense really. but I guess im not their type or they are shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few views but they move on. .they have read the profile too ..I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your profile and you're not looking for single guys

So why complain that you're not getting any responses.

Baffled here now

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx"

She may know you...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

You need to get a grip! People use the site how they wish: tough titty if it differs from yours. Some people go through all the local people near them every hour. Others will look at a profile following a forum comment. Some people have you on their hot list and may like your pictures, your verifications, don't meet what you're looking for but hope by looking you'll look and contact them: who knows.

Why get upset because someone looks?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"People have to look at your profile to find out if the like you. However, someone may like your pics, but not be interested in meeting you due to something they read on your profile that either rules them, or you out. That's just the way it goes.

Do you message everyone who's profile you view? I doubt it x"

Exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sometimes ive looked at a profile a quite a few time, but only because i have forgotten ive already looked lol.

this

and i see someone post something i kinda like, or say something about their profile or pics, so i go and look.

its not illegal you know lol.

this profile, as of now, has had 130 views.

3 winks and 1 message.

dont really care either way truth be told"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"44 views now and not a wink or message.

seriously? What is your point? People aren't allowed to look at your profile if they aren't going to wink or message? Out of a whole 44 people, one of them at least should want to meet you?

Maybe you should reassess your expectations of this site and realise people have standards, different likes and dislikes, and most of all, are free to look and move on without any contact.

*shakes head* "

Not just me then.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx

Ooh was it me ?

No I think it was me!"

love your corsets lovely

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

crikey i look at others others look at me more than once twice or three times some even on an hourly and daily basis.....im not expecting them to msg or wink im just flattered they looked .....to be honest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"44 views now and not a wink or message.

seriously? What is your point? People aren't allowed to look at your profile if they aren't going to wink or message? Out of a whole 44 people, one of them at least should want to meet you?

Maybe you should reassess your expectations of this site and realise people have standards, different likes and dislikes, and most of all, are free to look and move on without any contact.

*shakes head* "

Succinctly put! And the extra views are probably people reading this post who aren't in stealth mode.

44 views is nothing, I can get that in an hour - and I certainly wouldn't want all of them to message me!

TBH your profile isn't that appealing and gives the impression you just want a bi fem...

PS single guys most definitely are fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've probably had another 100 odd views by those browsing in 'stealth'.

So that's 144 views and no messages.

Could even be more!!

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx"

OP people are only looking more because you're complaining....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx"

That's a bit funny, my looked at me only show's the last 100!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

people need to view the profile to see if they are compatible...maybe they found they werent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count yourself lucky, looking at my "looked at me page" I've had 1 person look at me 9 hours ago... Sobs throwing his toys out the pram and stomping into the corner

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Count yourself lucky, looking at my "looked at me page" I've had 1 person look at me 9 hours ago... Sobs throwing his toys out the pram and stomping into the corner "

I just looked at you so that takes it to a resounding two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Count yourself lucky, looking at my "looked at me page" I've had 1 person look at me 9 hours ago... Sobs throwing his toys out the pram and stomping into the corner "

2 now !!!!! But I'm Stalking in stealth mode !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I might be tempted to pick my toys up and play nicely lmao

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

what a massive furore over absolutely nothing haha. baffling

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By *iceguy83Man
over a year ago

manchester

I'm constantly bemused at the sheer number of males who view my profile and more so the ones who wink at me and message me.

Nowhere does it state on my profile that I am bi or have any interest in males but it doesn't deter.

18 views today, 16 males, 2 cpls. Some males have winked.

Was beginning to think it was just me but I think it's the sheer ratio of men : women on here.

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

One smokes the other doesn't....that will knock people out straight away.

The one pic on your profile makes it look like Mr has a really small cock - I'm sure a more flattering pic could be used.

Don't worry about the amount of people who don't contact you...just concentrate on the people that do.

Good luck both of you.

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"One smokes the other doesn't....that will knock people out straight away.

The one pic on your profile makes it look like Mr has a really small cock - I'm sure a more flattering pic could be used.

Don't worry about the amount of people who don't contact you...just concentrate on the people that do.

Good luck both of you. "

nothing wrong with size of his cock

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

Thats his arm not his leg hes holding phone takin the pix x

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By *athfindersCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx"

You clearly have too much time on your hands if you are worrying about how many people have viewed you and yet not messaged you.

Personally I think it is not a great profile. No pics and lots of requests in your text. Maybe change things around and you may have better luck.

Your avatar is not particularly appealing either lol

A bit harsh YES but at least honest and if your going to moan about things not going your way in a forum then expect people to critique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been looked at by the same lady 10 times . I messaged her no reply . Baffling xx"

Probably checking through each verification you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One smokes the other doesn't....that will knock people out straight away.

The one pic on your profile makes it look like Mr has a really small cock - I'm sure a more flattering pic could be used.

Don't worry about the amount of people who don't contact you...just concentrate on the people that do.

Good luck both of you. "

What has cock size got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

We've had 54 views in the last 3 hours, out of that 1 message and 1 wink don't feel deflated because the grass isn't that greener on the other side, most are just pic hunters having a quick toss whilst their wife is downstairs making lunch

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx

We've had 54 views in the last 3 hours, out of that 1 message and 1 wink don't feel deflated because the grass isn't that greener on the other side, most are just pic hunters having a quick toss whilst their wife is downstairs making lunch "

thats why are pix are private plus we have tattoos and dont want everyone knowing are personal life in the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get looked at 10-15 times a week, tops, we get maybe a message or a wink a couple times a month... It's just how it is.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My 'looked at me page' never goes beyond 24hrs!

Do I get 100 (as that is all that it will show me) messages a day? No Chance and thank god for that!

Am I complaining? Not a chance in hell! Still not sure what your moaning at to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx "

Many people look and decide someone is not worth messaging as its a people profile why fret that people dont like you after looking there are plenty of others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a polite, well mannered message and get blocked sometimes so works the other way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I being thick here again , unless people look at profiles they don't know anything about you. If they then read and decide for whatever reason not to wink or message does that not mean they just not interested ?

Blooming heck imagine if everybody who ever looked at your profile had to message or wink even just to say not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viewed profile..no photos..moved on to the next one..darn forgot to message you..thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concentrate on the people who message you not the one's who viewed your profile ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep looking! It's all part of the fun!

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"Viewed profile..no photos..moved on to the next one..darn forgot to message you..thanks but no thanks "

we have private photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Viewed profile..no photos..moved on to the next one..darn forgot to message you..thanks but no thanks

we have private photos"

dont blame you keeping them private..some dodgy looking people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People look t other peoples verifications then the person not specifically to meet but to see who the other person has met. It would be far stranger to block everyone on someones verification list than look and pass on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't match Ur requirements they can't wink/message u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep the same has happened to me, a couple view me a fair few times over a week and continuing to do so. I sent a hello message, nothing.... Does it bother me - Not a Jot. I figure if they now want to get in touch they will and if they don't they won't, so look away I say. Enjoy.

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By *b586Couple
over a year ago

pemberton twp

How about sending a message to them if you like them? I look at the looked at me and the winks. Even though our profile states we are looking for local couples, I may message someone off of either list sayin ," Hi, we are K & B ,saw you peeked at us so I took a peek back. You two are very sexy....(adding other info that may have intrest us. )

And I always include a picture or two full body clothed n face pics. Sometimes people respond. Sometimes not.

Be proactive! k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont do single men as no fun x"

They wouldn't know that until looked at your profile, maybe they tried to message and got the "you can't message this user" malarkey.

At end of the day you have a public profile that people can view as often as they wish, if you don't like block them, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx

You clearly have too much time on your hands if you are worrying about how many people have viewed you and yet not messaged you.

Personally I think it is not a great profile. No pics and lots of requests in your text. Maybe change things around and you may have better luck.

Your avatar is not particularly appealing either lol

A bit harsh YES but at least honest and if your going to moan about things not going your way in a forum then expect people to critique!"

Got to agree with this, when we were on site previously with 33 public pictures, OP messaged us accusing us of being fake, never mind we had several meet in person verifications on both or couples and single accounts, there's no pleasing theOP by looks of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People look t other peoples verifications then the person not specifically to meet but to see who the other person has met. It would be far stranger to block everyone on someones verification list than look and pass on. "

Yes we do this, check out verifications of potential meets, don't mean we have any interest in meeting profile looking at, which in OP case we wouldn't, more so after reading this thread, due to fact they come across as very up themselves expecting every single person to wink or message

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"It's the shame here it annoys me lol

Don't be ashamed.... "

Sean Connery?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

People won't know if they are going to message unless they look. Some may look multiple times but not message because they don't have the courage, realise that they don't fit your requirements and may simply like what they are looking at. No harm, no foul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25 time no wink or message.

Whats point if we like we wink or message xx if not we block to save time in future x wish other people would do the same xx

We've had 54 views in the last 3 hours, out of that 1 message and 1 wink don't feel deflated because the grass isn't that greener on the other side, most are just pic hunters having a quick toss whilst their wife is downstairs making lunch

thats why are pix are private plus we have tattoos and dont want everyone knowing are personal life in the pub"

Which is your choice, but always photo software to obscure recognisable features.

Quite frankly I'm glad everyone that looks at our profile doesn't wink/message as we wouldn't be interested in them anyway.

It's z public profile, people can view, message, wink or block as they see fit, if you don't like, block everyone that has looked at you without messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a ridiculous thread.

This is a public site people can do whatever they want. View, not view, message, not message...

Or is this some kind of feeble double bluff?

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

Well ive just looked and didnt wink or message you, you have too many instructions and not enough photos........Snowdrop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ive just looked and didnt wink or message you, you have too many instructions and not enough photos........Snowdrop "

Just done the same to you. How very dare we.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield


"Well ive just looked and didnt wink or message you, you have too many instructions and not enough photos........Snowdrop

Just done the same to you. How very dare we."

I know, I dont know who you couples think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ive just looked and didnt wink or message you, you have too many instructions and not enough photos........Snowdrop

Just done the same to you. How very dare we.

I know, I dont know who you couples think you are "

Terrible, terrible people we are. Outright rotters, bounders and cads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems OP prefers to reply in private having a go instead responding on open thread they started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a complete non-issue to me, I'd forgotten the "looked at me" function was even there.

It did remind me of the other side of the coin though. Before I set my profile to be hidden on the looked at me screen, I used to get loads of messages from guys letting me know they'd seen that I had viewed their profile and to ask if I liked what I saw.

Um no or I'd have messaged them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we looked and blocked hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we looked and blocked hope that helps "

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

:O

wow so am I supposed to start counting views now?

If you dont want people to look, hide the profile. If you leave it open expect people to look. The rocket science I'm good at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking at a profile with no pics isnt going to result in winks or messages and the only pic to go by is your avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't look but blocked anyway, someone that thinks themselves so important that every viewer must wink or message, is not our type of person we'd like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view profiles several times without winking/fabbing/messaging ~ either because I forgot I already have or there's something I like the look of and want to perv over

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I view profiles several times without winking/fabbing/messaging ~ either because I forgot I already have or there's something I like the look of and want to perv over

"

WOW! You as well? I never lol

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"looking at a profile with no pics isnt going to result in winks or messages and the only pic to go by is your avatar.

"

If people read full profile pics are there in private x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looking at a profile with no pics isnt going to result in winks or messages and the only pic to go by is your avatar.

If people read full profile pics are there in private x"

Attracting interest is all about the words in your profile text and the visible pics.

The same goes for singles and couples.

Nobody says you have to show faces/tattoos (I have both!) but a vague, fuzzy shot doesn't draw in the profile viewer - and with an abundance of well written profiles packed with pics on site - who of you think gets the winks and messages ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"looking at a profile with no pics isnt going to result in winks or messages and the only pic to go by is your avatar.

If people read full profile pics are there in private x

Attracting interest is all about the words in your profile text and the visible pics.

The same goes for singles and couples.

Nobody says you have to show faces/tattoos (I have both!) but a vague, fuzzy shot doesn't draw in the profile viewer - and with an abundance of well written profiles packed with pics on site - who of you think gets the winks and messages ? "

But then some people have an excuse for everything others suggest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody views my profile, reads it, decides I'm not for them/they are not for me and moves on. Am I missing something here?? - but isn't that how the sites supposed to work.

Must complain about that!@

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Somebody views my profile, reads it, decides I'm not for them/they are not for me and moves on. Am I missing something here?? - but isn't that how the sites supposed to work.

Must complain about that!@ "

Now stop it! Common sense is not allowed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody views my profile, reads it, decides I'm not for them/they are not for me and moves on. Am I missing something here?? - but isn't that how the sites supposed to work.

Must complain about that!@ "

Only Platinum membership guarantees a message with every view!!

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We don't usually wink or send messages because we quickly deduce the person(s) whose profile we view wouldn't be intetested in us.

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By *iosMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"

Oi you looked at me today !!!! No hello though !!! "

Hello *waves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody views my profile, reads it, decides I'm not for them/they are not for me and moves on. Am I missing something here?? - but isn't that how the sites supposed to work.

Must complain about that!@

Now stop it! Common sense is not allowed on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes ive looked at a profile a quite a few time, but only because i have forgotten ive already looked lol.

this

and i see someone post something i kinda like, or say something about their profile or pics, so i go and look.

its not illegal you know lol.

this profile, as of now, has had 130

views.

3 winks and 1 message.

dont really care either way truth be told"

Lol, me too, like looking didn't see the rule that you had to message them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont do single men as no fun x"

Really

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

Dont get 25 views a year, never mind a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get 25 views a year, never mind a day! "

Bet you do just most of it is done in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get 25 views a year, never mind a day! "

Well you couldn't see me peeping (twice) as I perve under the radar!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Over 250 now but we lookin for bi-females or couples only xx"

???? Come on then, how do you get this number?

I went into 'looked at me' and it shows the last 100 non stealth pervs

(ftr I love them all stealth or non stealth pervs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not a site supporter it tells you on your profile how many people have looked at it,thats how they get to that number

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If your not a site supporter it tells you on your profile how many people have looked at it,thats how they get to that number"

See you learn something new everyday!

Does it also say the timescale? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your not a site supporter it tells you on your profile how many people have looked at it,thats how they get to that number

See you learn something new everyday!

Does it also say the timescale? x"

I have no idea of the timescale,Im assuming its over a 24 hr period,im sure someone will come along and tell us though

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By *ecketwaitMan
over a year ago

London

Yep its in the last 24 hours, or if nobodies viewed your profile today it will tell you how many did yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep its in the last 24 hours, or if nobodies viewed your profile today it will tell you how many did yesterday."

Thank you .....that'll stop people wondering

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yep its in the last 24 hours, or if nobodies viewed your profile today it will tell you how many did yesterday."

I might just let my site supporter run out so I can test this theory, just in the name of science of course....on another subject can you choke on a haribo (like I just nearly did) Or will it continue to dissolve in the back of your throat?(in the nick of time) Just an obscure thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah if you're not a supporter you get it, i have it on fabguys where i'm not a supporter but don't on here where i am.

Admin needs to fix that :p

I think I've only had about 20 views today and 2 messages :p

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Yep its in the last 24 hours, or if nobodies viewed your profile today it will tell you how many did yesterday.

Thank you .....that'll stop people wondering "

So you pay and have to manually count the views over 24 hours (if your list goes back beyond 6 hours) or for free fabs tells you that's different

How does that work with stealth viewers then? Do they count or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont do single men as no fun x

I think single men are great fun! "

I've had great fun as a single guy on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does the OP expect? Making forums and backing yourselves up with feable excuses. Do you honestly expect people who view you and don't like what they see or read to message and tell you that?? They will just move on to the next profile! And you say single guys are no fun?? Well I've probably had more fun that yourselves on here and I'm a single guy!! Must go to show we are fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They looked at you and didn't message? How very dare they!

Some ego's on this site

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"What does the OP expect? Making forums and backing yourselves up with feable excuses. Do you honestly expect people who view you and don't like what they see or read to message and tell you that?? They will just move on to the next profile! And you say single guys are no fun?? Well I've probably had more fun that yourselves on here and I'm a single guy!! Must go to show we are fun! "

If they dont like us then block us saves time in future.

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"They looked at you and didn't message? How very dare they!

Some ego's on this site "

Bit like ur cucumber that your wishing was your cock xx

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By *aughty-PeepsCouple
over a year ago

teesside


"We dont do single men as no fun x"

this is probably at least 20 of your 25 views, they look and cant wink or message as you've blocked that lol

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Maturity, priceless.

For everything else, there is fab forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They looked at you and didn't message? How very dare they!

Some ego's on this site

Bit like ur cucumber that your wishing was your cock xx"

cock size? glass house ,stone ,throw ,dont bother

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By *az1312Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near Coventry

I did not even know you could tell who/how many people view your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This must be the funniest thread I've read since I started using the forum ( not that long) I'm drowning on the sarcasm! Thank you to all that have contributed you have made this lady cry with laughter just what I needed before I go to work. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This often happens when you have verified another member . Cross referencing I guess . And if it's a couple they may both be checking you out . Hence lots of looking but no wink or message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have we looked at ALL profiles... you wouldnt know as we are stealth lookers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many fakes and pic collectors!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have deliberately viewed them loads of times, one after the other.

That will do their heads in.

Awaiting inevitable blockage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They looked at you and didn't message? How very dare they!

Some ego's on this site

Bit like ur cucumber that your wishing was your cock xx

cock size? glass house ,stone ,throw ,dont bother"

Hehe...OP you asked for that one!

Not going to comment again, your negativity and rudeness on this and your other thread has earned you views than your profile merits so I wouldn't bother counting them anymore. ..you obviously thought you were something special, the reality surely must have hit home by now?

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over a year ago

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Only Platinum membership guarantees a message with every view!! "

AND a free tube of Fruit Pastilles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMM fruit pastilles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe a four fingered kit kat or a kit kat chunky, maybe one with peanuts in too!!

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By *az1312Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near Coventry


"MMM fruit pastilles x"

I have got to go and buy some fruit pastilles now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you get some for us too xxx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Make sure you get some for us too xxx"

Wants some, too, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe a four fingered kit kat or a kit kat chunky, maybe one with peanuts in too!! "

Kit Kat with peanuts is sooooo wrong!!

but put me down for a chunky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe a four fingered kit kat or a kit kat chunky, maybe one with peanuts in too!!

Kit Kat with peanuts is sooooo wrong!!

but put me down for a chunky "

It's a shame I can't give you a chunky as I'm out your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo according to the OP if I look at a profile, I should wink or message. I dont do winks so Ill just have to message saying.......

Hi, Ive looked at your profile but you're re not what Im looking for, your profile is boring and your pic is crap. Thanks anyway and have a great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo according to the OP if I look at a profile, I should wink or message. I dont do winks so Ill just have to message saying.......

Hi, Ive looked at your profile but you're re not what Im looking for, your profile is boring and your pic is crap. Thanks anyway and have a great day

"

Exactly what I was thinking! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread still going. I want some fruit pastilies too and some popcorn lol lol lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have sweet popcorn? Don't like the salty stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this. "

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I have some people that view everyday,sometimes loads of times in a day.......I just think if they wanted to send a message they would"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind "

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bigger scheme of things...does it really matter? No offence meant, of course. Make most of your pics friend only so at least you know they are not just getting a free show and if they want to see more at least they will have send a friend request. X

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this. "

Short legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I have sweet popcorn? Don't like the salty stuff "

As long as you share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

Short legs "

I wish they were shorter, im 6'3, the weather is even colder up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So....when you go shopping and look at the window display do you then feel you have to buy something from each shop you look at.....same principle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

Short legs

I wish they were shorter, im 6'3, the weather is even colder up here "

Hey....was double figures today lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"They looked they went away....putting it bluntly they may not have liked what they saw so did'nt feel they had to wink or message"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I have sweet popcorn? Don't like the salty stuff

As long as you share "

Of course! May even treat us to a jumbo sized diet .

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By *insfordcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them. "

NO REAL COCK IS THAT BIG..!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them.

NO REAL COCK IS THAT BIG..!!!"

Penis envy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mandingo would disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them.

NO REAL COCK IS THAT BIG..!!!"

Err (unfortunately) I've seen bigger ones on this site never mind anywhere else. And as I said I really don't need to explain myself here, I could get the people who can confirm this to put your mind at rest if you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them.

NO REAL COCK IS THAT BIG..!!!"

Oh yes they are, and bigger...but you don't meet single guys so you wouldn't know!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not that I need to explain myself to you but it's not a "cucumber" and I have people on here who can confirm this.

I wouldn't worry about it.....the word envy has just sprung to mind

Ha, not worried about that as I have no need to, but what I will say is the attitude of the OP is hardly going to make any of the gazillions of people viewing them want to message them.

NO REAL COCK IS THAT BIG..!!!

Oh yes they are, and bigger...but you don't meet single guys so you wouldn't know! "

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"So....when you go shopping and look at the window display do you then feel you have to buy something from each shop you look at.....same principle."

best analergy i've read

I'm off to perve i mean 'window shop' on your profile now

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