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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

I'm planning to organise my first swingers party at mine: nothing massive, just a few people...

But I have a few questions:

1/ being a single guy, are people likely to resond positively?

and 2/ as I'm planning to invite couples only (I don't believe the elusive single woman actually exists ), am I not risking of ending up with a sausage fest because "the mrs wasn't feeling very well tonight"??

If you have any advice, let me know

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

you still not sorted this out??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, it was just a vague idea: now that I finally moved and have a bit of spare time, I try to properly organise it!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

What do you mean, the elusive single woman doesn't fecking exist??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find your Fem partner first...and let her do the inviting. I've see lots of guys trying this- you will be doomed to failure on your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean, the elusive single woman doesn't fecking exist??"

I thought she wasn't existing anymore: because of your username change, I thought you left the site!!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Yeah yeah

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What do you mean, the elusive single woman doesn't fecking exist??"

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have you ever had this feeling? When a simple joke makes everyone hate you??

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract


"What do you mean, the elusive single woman doesn't fecking exist??

+1

"

1 here too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually, you know what: the elusive single female definitely exists! That's why I will only invite females and be the only man.... This plan can't fail

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Serious answer now... When I've had parties before... All the single females have turned up ... One or two couples have sometimes not arrived...

But single guys... average about 20-25% turning up..

Still waiting for that elusive sausage fest party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious answer now... When I've had parties before... All the single females have turned up ... One or two couples have sometimes not arrived...

But single guys... average about 20-25% turning up..

Still waiting for that elusive sausage fest party "

If only you thought about buying some cumberlands in Tesco...

More seriously then: you're a single woman so having people coming round should not be complicated.... but for a single man, wouldn't it be harder as someone said earlier?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Serious answer now... When I've had parties before... All the single females have turned up ... One or two couples have sometimes not arrived...

But single guys... average about 20-25% turning up..

Still waiting for that elusive sausage fest party

If only you thought about buying some cumberlands in Tesco...

More seriously then: you're a single woman so having people coming round should not be complicated.... but for a single man, wouldn't it be harder as someone said earlier?"

Possibly... Obviously I've never arranged one as a single man lol.

A male friend of mine has had a few parties, which were well attended and a good mix... I suppose it depends on what sort of Fab / swinging network you have

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Theres several single guys on here that arrange parties successfully, at least one is in your area. The best way to get noticed is to do it well - if you arrange something, make sure you carry it through and not cancel at the last minute.

You'll want to have nibbles, soft drinks, and condoms available. Make it a bring your own bottle and that should keep the costs down. Invite at least twice as many people as you want to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll want to have nibbles, soft drinks, and condoms available. Make it a bring your own bottle and that should keep the costs down. Invite at least twice as many people as you want to turn up."

Ouhhh could actually be fun to pretend I'm Jamie Oliver (well, 2001 Jamie Oliver) and prepare some nibbles naked in front of the guests

Seriously, thanks for the advices!

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