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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi i've been on this site but not really had much luck do people think im too young for this ? as really want to get into swinging alot more but finding it hard to get meets

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

There are not many couples on here who would go for guys .not that we have noticed .the wife has played with a few in late twenties .tho it would not bother me as long as they are legal and she has a good time .but she prefers to meet people more nearer our age. I am happy to have fun with people from 25 to 65 maybe older if they have kept themselves looking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman so its very hard yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It looks like most single men are not having much luck then ? most people like 25+ but me being 20 is a pain lol.

The other thing that i think is making it hard for me is living on the isle of wight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like most single men are not having much luck then ? most people like 25+ but me being 20 is a pain lol.

The other thing that i think is making it hard for me is living on the isle of wight!"

Yeh that isn't gonna help I live in Essex but no1 local to me is interested I find I get most interest from northerners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you living on the Isle of White would make meeting more difficult also. You're a good looking guy. Keep at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in crystal palace and here is no horny women here either lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like most single men are not having much luck then ? most people like 25+ but me being 20 is a pain lol.

The other thing that i think is making it hard for me is living on the isle of wight!"

I don't think its most single men, I find this site a lot of fun and there isn't one particular age group that are more interested in me than others.

But you are right about your location. I think living in a city with a population of around a million in university term time and traveling widely with work has a big part to play in my options of pleasure...

Some ladies and couples won't meet a 19 year old, some will and some seek just that. Try doing a username search for ladies with the words 'milf' or 'cougar' included. Or simply do an advanced search where you tick the box marked 'I match their requirements too'.

Good luck mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live in crystal palace and here is no horny women here either lol ."

Age may be a factor! People have preferences.

But then it could be any number of things!!

Profile names, profile text, profile pics, status updates - profiles are the way people get a picture of someone and they will make decisions both as to whether they are attracted physically to someone, as well as making judgements on their attitudes and personalities.

Some profile portray a positive image - others...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you living on the Isle of White would make meeting more difficult also. You're a good looking guy. Keep at it."

I was thinking much the same thing. Is it the type of place everyone knows everyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live in crystal palace and here is no horny women here either lol .

Age may be a factor! People have preferences.

But then it could be any number of things!!

Profile names, profile text, profile pics, status updates - profiles are the way people get a picture of someone and they will make decisions both as to whether they are attracted physically to someone, as well as making judgements on their attitudes and personalities.

Some profile portray a positive image - others..............."

Yes and also most women are not into lads with a 6 pack and big ego lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think my profile is the best compared to some out there but not really sure how to make it better.

Yeah the island is everyone knows everyone so you have to be very discrete when meeting. i know there is more couples over here then single females but they mostly play with other couples not single males think i will just need to keep trying and find someone!

Thanks for all the help!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I don't think my profile is the best compared to some out there but not really sure how to make it better.

Yeah the island is everyone knows everyone so you have to be very discrete when meeting. i know there is more couples over here then single females but they mostly play with other couples not single males think i will just need to keep trying and find someone!

Thanks for all the help!"
There are lots of meets on the island. Will give you the same advice as I did a couple if weeks ago. Get out from behind your keyboard and out some effort in, go to socials, meet people there. I moved here three months ago, plenty of social meets, and party's but people won't bother with you if you whinge. It's a quick journey to the mainland for a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dude, your 20.

get out to pubs and clubs and meet people that way.

you shouldnt be sat in looking at meeting people off the internet.

whats wrong with the youth of today?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tryed looking for social meets but i can't seam to find any!

I would go out to the clubs and pubs but not many clubs over here lol and you need money to do that

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I've tryed looking for social meets but i can't seam to find any!

I would go out to the clubs and pubs but not many clubs over here lol and you need money to do that "
Then your clearly not looking in the right places. As for needing money then save some or go without, your call.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

a lot of men that mail me are in their 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out / about & on the pull mate, failing that get yourself to a swingers club maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dude, your 20.

get out to pubs and clubs and meet people that way.

you shouldnt be sat in looking at meeting people off the internet.

whats wrong with the youth of today?"

totally agree, my son is 22 and is a male tart, he has more fun than I do. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dude, your 20.

get out to pubs and clubs and meet people that way.

you shouldnt be sat in looking at meeting people off the internet.

whats wrong with the youth of today?"

To be fair its hard to make a comparison. In 1997 the internet wasn't much cop compared to now due to the amount of data most pcs could process in a set amount of time being drastically less.

Plus I still go to pubs and clubs anyway. And yes its easy for most guys to pull merely by walking into a city centre boozer on a Saturday night. But this site gives me many different options, such as being able to have sex with ladies who have the same interests and open mind as I have. And they are less likely to be shitfaced of course.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"dude, your 20.

get out to pubs and clubs and meet people that way.

you shouldnt be sat in looking at meeting people off the internet.

whats wrong with the youth of today?"

Why shouldn't someone his age be on here looking?

Swinging is different to pulling someone at a pub /club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi i've been on this site but not really had much luck do people think im too young for this ? as really want to get into swinging alot more but finding it hard to get meets "

Going to clubs is the best option, save some money and try to go once and I promise you will see this from a different perspective altogether.

I faced the same when i joined and now as i am not the most popular but still i go to clubs and meet new people.

One baby step at a time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice think i will need to save up and go to a club! or get off the island lol. Its hard going out and pulling as i would like to meet people that are swingers really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice think i will need to save up and go to a club! or get off the island lol. Its hard going out and pulling as i would like to meet people that are swingers really."

Well good luck. Regardless of what some have said on here you seem to understand vanilla sex is not the same as swinging and you can't simply 'pull' yourself into a swinging situation.

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