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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many years ago I (male) was at mates d*unk after night out. He put some porn on after half a while we were both aroused. We ended up wanking to it, did'nt touch each other was at opposite ends of sofa. Any other guys ever done this?

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

Ew.

No.

Gay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

straight never done anything with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

How is that gay? Even if they are/was what gives you the choice to judge??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay.

How is that gay? Even if they are/was what gives you the choice to judge?? "

yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have known a few men who have had wank buddies.

And the local porn cinema has its share of straight men (of all ages) popping in for a quiet wank on the way home from the shops or work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have known a few men who have had wank buddies.

And the local porn cinema has its share of straight men (of all ages) popping in for a quiet wank on the way home from the shops or work.

"

this was just d*unken one off, we've never spoke about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

should have gone to spec savers, mate.

they would sure your shortsightedness.

when i was about 14/15 we used to have wanking competitions. half a dozen of us wanking furiously to porn seeing who could cum first lol

no idea why

just something to do i guess lol

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley


" yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?"

It does if the guys have sex with each other. Two man having sex with each other is gay sex. Surely you won't dispute that.

But anyway, even if wanking with your mates isn't gay I still stand by my two other syllables. If there was a girl in the room watching both of you having a wank would that make me want to join in? No.

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seems controversial but getting your cock out in front of another man and waking off till you cum is not the behaviour of a straight man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?

It does if the guys have sex with each other. Two man having sex with each other is gay sex. Surely you won't dispute that.

But anyway, even if wanking with your mates isn't gay I still stand by my two other syllables. If there was a girl in the room watching both of you having a wank would that make me want to join in? No.

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seems controversial but getting your cock out in front of another man and waking off till you cum is not the behaviour of a straight man. "

its not the behaviour of a gay either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

being interesting to if other straight guys have had similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?

It does if the guys have sex with each other. Two man having sex with each other is gay sex. Surely you won't dispute that.

But anyway, even if wanking with your mates isn't gay I still stand by my two other syllables. If there was a girl in the room watching both of you having a wank would that make me want to join in? No.

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seems controversial but getting your cock out in front of another man and waking off till you cum is not the behaviour of a straight man.

its not the behaviour of a gay either."

Surely it's the behaviour of two people with voyeuristic and/or exhibitionist tendencies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?"
Think that makes you the best mate in the world lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?"

No, makes your mate a lucky sod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see this as straight. I'm guessing you're not going to get a list of guys saying they've done this but still think they're straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see this as straight. I'm guessing you're not going to get a list of guys saying they've done this but still think they're straight."
so touching your own cock in a room with a guy there makes you gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?"

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid. "

What if he kept his eyes shut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid. "

Seeing as I am being stupid, would you be kind enough to allow me to tag along to all the meets you're going to get after everyone reads your posts. You are going to be inundated with meet requests in the next few days. Thanking you in advance T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see this as straight. I'm guessing you're not going to get a list of guys saying they've done this but still think they're straight. so touching your own cock in a room with a guy there makes you gay?"

Is that what I said? No. I don't see two guys alone together sharing a sexual experience as a straight thing.

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley


"So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/"

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's not gay. What a Neanderthal response. Why does anyone feel the need to classify each and every sexual act as either gay or straight. Pathetic!

But to answer your question, no, never done it. I would expect it would cause a few awkward moments and jeapordise the friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same."

so, if the other guys are loking down, the same time as you are wnaking over a woman, how would you know he is looking at your cock or the woman?

how would he know you arent looking at his dick?

i think the gentleman doth protest too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whether you define two blokes having a wank in the same room but independently and not aroused by each other by sight or touch as a shared sexual experience.

To me it's just a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same.

so, if the other guys are loking down, the same time as you are wnaking over a woman, how would you know he is looking at your cock or the woman?

how would he know you arent looking at his dick?

i think the gentleman doth protest too much"

I agree.

I mean, if he's looking at your spunk dripping off your cock onto her face... Is that gay or straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them."

you should with a dick like that lol

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By *hocolate WhopperMan
over a year ago

dagenham


"Depends whether you define two blokes having a wank in the same room but independently and not aroused by each other by sight or touch as a shared sexual experience.

To me it's just a wank. "

Best answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them. you should with a dick like that lol"

Then we could all play hoopla!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them. you should with a dick like that lol

Then we could all play hoopla!"

With swimming rings!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them. you should with a dick like that lol

Then we could all play hoopla!"

or they could sign their names on your cock lol

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield


"Depends whether you define two blokes having a wank in the same room but independently and not aroused by each other by sight or touch as a shared sexual experience.

To me it's just a wank.

Best answer "

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

Why whats wrong with being gay?

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My mate and I when we were teens when I stayed over at his, would be looking at his dads porn mags whilst watching Michaela Strachen on the Hitman and Her....him on the floor and me on the bed.....we both knew the other was wanking but no eye contact was made or neither one of us could see the other.

Does that make me gay??

I don't remember wanking harder when the Village People came on.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

A friend of mine began with this and now enjoys gay sex x

I enjoyed it with him and his mate too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine began with this and now enjoys gay sex x

I enjoyed it with him and his mate too lol"

eww, gay...

no wait

straight

er....i dont know...overload....bzzzzzz *BANG!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine began with this and now enjoys gay sex x

I enjoyed it with him and his mate too lol"

Darn so jealous bi men mmf

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What if the guy wanking and watching the couple having sex, opens his closed eyes and keeps his eyes firmly on her vagina but accidentally sees the guys wet, throbbing, erect cock thrusting in and out? Then he shuts his eyes quick but can hear the slap slap slop of his heavy balls bouncing of her swollen and eager labia major?

Is the watching guy straight or gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if the guy wanking and watching the couple having sex, opens his closed eyes and keeps his eyes firmly on her vagina but accidentally sees the guys wet, throbbing, erect cock thrusting in and out? Then he shuts his eyes quick but can hear the slap slap slop of his heavy balls bouncing of her swollen and eager labia major?

Is the watching guy straight or gay? "

Pansexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay.

Why whats wrong with being gay?"

or Bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a male who's had plenty of time as a singleton, I've found many an interesting times and places to pleasure myself.

In front of my friends isn't one of them. you should with a dick like that lol

Then we could all play hoopla! or they could sign their names on your cock lol"

Hopefully they don't use cartridge pens, they're awfully scratchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if the guy wanking and watching the couple having sex, opens his closed eyes and keeps his eyes firmly on her vagina but accidentally sees the guys wet, throbbing, erect cock thrusting in and out? Then he shuts his eyes quick but can hear the slap slap slop of his heavy balls bouncing of her swollen and eager labia major?

Is the watching guy straight or gay?

Pansexual.

"

isnt that someone with an unhealthy obsession with kitchen items? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many years ago I (male) was at mates d*unk after night out. He put some porn on after half a while we were both aroused. We ended up wanking to it, did'nt touch each other was at opposite ends of sofa. Any other guys ever done this?"

OMG that is so bad!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Labels are for jam not people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay? Think that makes you the best mate in the world lol."

Now that made me chuckle

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Labels are for jam not people "

You are a man and a woman...that's a label isn't it.

In all seriousness I never understand when people don't like to put label to their sexuality. If your straight you tick the box that says straight don't you. Then there are those that are honest about being bi and happy to tick that box. I would rather meet a bi male who ishonest than someone who says they are straight but really bi.

If you can't be honest with yourself then who are kidding most?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"A friend of mine began with this and now enjoys gay sex x

I enjoyed it with him and his mate too lol

Darn so jealous bi men mmf "

Omg I slashed my bucket list that night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend of mine began with this and now enjoys gay sex x

I enjoyed it with him and his mate too lol

Darn so jealous bi men mmf

Omg I slashed my bucket list that night "

You are gorgeous love your pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have and never will wank off with a lifelong mate, I would class that as creepy but certainly not bi/gay.

Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never have and never will wank off with a lifelong mate, I would class that as creepy but certainly not bi/gay.

Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality."

Wish i'd never mentioned this lol we we're young and d*unk for god's sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality."

That would probably be because, the way I see it, women are associated with affection and men with competition - if one woman got another in a headlock and they started rolling around grappling, onlookers would probably find that strange, if two guys did it however I reckon most would simply say 'boys will be boys'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality.

That would probably be because, the way I see it, women are associated with affection and men with competition - if one woman got another in a headlock and they started rolling around grappling, onlookers would probably find that strange, if two guys did it however I reckon most would simply say 'boys will be boys'."

So what you saying? it was a cock competion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fact you're still friends shows it was a one off d*unk thing and neither gay not straight.

Just mega horny and you were wanking over the porn not each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality.

That would probably be because, the way I see it, women are associated with affection and men with competition - if one woman got another in a headlock and they started rolling around grappling, onlookers would probably find that strange, if two guys did it however I reckon most would simply say 'boys will be boys'. So what you saying? it was a cock competion?"

No, I was referring to the post I quoted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality.

That would probably be because, the way I see it, women are associated with affection and men with competition - if one woman got another in a headlock and they started rolling around grappling, onlookers would probably find that strange, if two guys did it however I reckon most would simply say 'boys will be boys'. So what you saying? it was a cock competion?

No, I was referring to the post I quoted."

yeah so maybe it was'nt a sexual thing for us but a competitive thing. as you say 'boys will be boys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have and never will wank off with a lifelong mate, I would class that as creepy but certainly not bi/gay.

Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality."

Well I would.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?

It does if the guys have sex with each other. Two man having sex with each other is gay sex. Surely you won't dispute that.

But anyway, even if wanking with your mates isn't gay I still stand by my two other syllables. If there was a girl in the room watching both of you having a wank would that make me want to join in? No.

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seems controversial but getting your cock out in front of another man and waking off till you cum is not the behaviour of a straight man. "

In my valid opinion, you are talking bollocks. And I am a straight man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid. "

So when a man enjoys watching/seeing another guy fuck his wife, he is gay ? Or only if he looks at the guys cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same.

so, if the other guys are loking down, the same time as you are wnaking over a woman, how would you know he is looking at your cock or the woman?

how would he know you arent looking at his dick?

i think the gentleman doth protest too much"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How big was the sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of double standards around if 2 females masturbated together, I doubt many would question their sexuality.

That would probably be because, the way I see it, women are associated with affection and men with competition - if one woman got another in a headlock and they started rolling around grappling, onlookers would probably find that strange, if two guys did it however I reckon most would simply say 'boys will be boys'."

Two girls wrestling ? Oiled up in bikinis? Sounds like fun. Yes I know. I'm a male chauvinist pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

Why on earth would this make him gay & what a horrid thing to say, a bit narrow minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NonConformistLikeU... for someone who thinks most things are gay have you took a look at your own shower pic on your profile haha looks pretty gay to me

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seem contraversal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NonConformistLikeU... for someone who thinks most things are gay have you took a look at your own shower pic on your profile haha looks pretty gay to me

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seem contraversal "

Aha !! You must be gay, as you checked him out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NonConformistLikeU... for someone who thinks most things are gay have you took a look at your own shower pic on your profile haha looks pretty gay to me

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seem contraversal

Aha !! You must be gay, as you checked him out."

I'm not gay but... the guy I've just sucked off is (wipes cum from lips)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a bunch of guys get together and wank in a room it's kinda gay?

Lotta gay men like bukkake parties then eh?

"/

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same.

so, if the other guys are loking down, the same time as you are wnaking over a woman, how would you know he is looking at your cock or the woman?

how would he know you arent looking at his dick?

i think the gentleman doth protest too much"

thinks hes talking bollocks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me 2 too haha If they were looking at my cock then that's up to them, I'm happy with my sexuality and I'm not worried about the guy next to me or at the other end of the sofa

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London

How about a Dutch Rudder between good friends...is that gay?

MrsW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see D using a stiff cock. I am definitely not gay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never done anything like that had a bird wank me and my mate of at the same time when I was 13 or 14 then we just kept calling her the skiing champ very mature

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By *uy4couplesMan
over a year ago

south kent

I don't make the rules, I just laugh at them. I'm not into bukkake anyhow. If, however I was at a bukkake party and guys spent most of their time making eye contact with me or watching my cock I'd assume they were gay. If they were watching how the girl reacted to being covered in spunk I'd consider that straight.

Two guys in a room alone wanking is not the same.

sounds like you want to be perfect and criticize others all the time,

where dose it say he was gay???????

as the post said it was just porn,

it don't mean to say he was gay,

by doing what they did,

just because you think its gay to do things like,

that tells us you haven't lived for the moment,

my advise to you is to get a life,

and stop making judgments on others, think before you speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about a Dutch Rudder between good friends...is that gay?

MrsW"

I've just had to google what one of these is haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid. "

ermm luvvy!!...they didnt have sex!!.. they did not even touch each other...... they knocked one out in the same room....big deal!.....you need to learn the difference.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Long story short. Wife and I with my mate present. Few drinks, loosened inhibitions, wife and I fuck, mate watches and wanks. Does that make us gay?

No, you're having straight sex, your mate's a wanker regardless of his sexual orientation, it depends who he's looking at. Don't be stupid.

What if he kept his eyes shut? "

This actually made me snort out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity, what would peoples opinions be if the mates in question were a male and female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, after a d*unk night out, a girl and a guy sit at opposite ends of the sofa wanking off to porn?

Possible. But not on my sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, after a d*unk night out, a girl and a guy sit at opposite ends of the sofa wanking off to porn?

Possible. But not on my sofa.

"

Well my thoughts would be 'why wank when you could be having sex?'

...but then I am of course a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of curiosity, what would peoples opinions be if the mates in question were a male and female?"

That's just bloody perverted.

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By *anfiona2Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

It's not gay but it's certainly weird

I have watched porn with a mate who I had previously had an MMF with along with my ex and didn't feel the need to start wanking whilst watching it!

There's a time and place FFS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, after a d*unk night out, a girl and a guy sit at opposite ends of the sofa wanking off to porn?

Possible. But not on my sofa.

Well my thoughts would be 'why wank when you could be having sex?'

...but then I am of course a guy."

Exactly, if it were a guy and a girl, horny over porn, they'd probably just shag.

If the guys were gay surely the same thing would happen.

I have never done it, although I did use my wand on a straight female friend when we were both d*unk. Over leggins mind, and I am bi....so for her, although she was enjoying it, it doesn't make her gay or bi, it was just one of those weird awkward moments, glad it didn't go further otherwise I don't think we'd still be mates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay.

How is that gay? Even if they are/was what gives you the choice to judge?? "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ew.

No.

Gay."

He's from Chorley, nothing new there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting judgement to one side, doing this with a female friend, for me would be unbelievably hot. With one of my mates... No.

So, there is an element of sexuality in evidence here. But how you interpret it or how you accommodate it into your friendship is entirely up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont see that as gay. If you wanked eaxlchother off you may be.. but a companion wank isnt the same. Ask status quo. They all sit together and have a "polish". Id love to have been there tho and who cares if you are gay or not.. did it FEEL GOOD? Result!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe more straight guys without group experience could get used to wanking together. Would allow them to get over the barrier about being hard, naked etc around others. If ones verified, he could verify the others.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I've wanked at parties where hubbys/partners have been wanking beside me while their wives/partners are enjoying themselves with others.

But I would not wank beside another guy over porn. Not sure I see it a gay though, just wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done this loads mate, nothing to worried about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yeah and surely that would make mmf gay?

It does if the guys have sex with each other. Two man having sex with each other is gay sex. Surely you won't dispute that.

But anyway, even if wanking with your mates isn't gay I still stand by my two other syllables. If there was a girl in the room watching both of you having a wank would that make me want to join in? No.

I'm sorry if my valid opinion seems controversial but getting your cock out in front of another man and waking off till you cum is not the behaviour of a straight man. "

I bet your popular with the ladies you stud of a man....Oh maybe not.

Grrrr...great to be straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was your mates name Rolf??

Sorry, it is odd.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is a great idea..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many years ago I (male) was at mates d*unk after night out. He put some porn on after half a while we were both aroused. We ended up wanking to it, did'nt touch each other was at opposite ends of sofa. Any other guys ever done this?"

Bet he doesn't remember what porn it was, but remembers how his mate knocked one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mates cum and go.... it seems...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the OP's own admission they were both d*unk, I doubt very much either one of them would have done the same sober.

I'm struggling to see the difference between two d*unk guys having a wank whilst watching (presumably) heterosexual porn and guys standing around having a wank whilst watching heterosexual couples having sex in an open room in a club, or all the guys who go dogging and wank whilst watching a couple having sex - Lordy the ratio of gay men on Fab has just reached new highs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't talk shite... The rooms in the clubs are full of straight guys all wanking at the same time at the show they are watching... Doesn't make them gay!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't talk shite... The rooms in the clubs are full of straight guys all wanking at the same time at the show they are watching... Doesn't make them gay!! "

If that was directed at me that was exactly my point - it doesnt make them gay!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, there are some wankers on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but sitting watching porn wanking in the same room as another guy doing the same does not make you gay, like the other posts it's no different to doing it in a club or dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless posting. O P has left. You must have all scared him off. You bullies.

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By *ovincple1924Couple
over a year ago

lewes

Mmmmm wife wants to Skype with guys wanking together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

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By *ungrylikethewolfMan
over a year ago

Cheadle

Can we all just sit in the middle and say it's bi? Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!"

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time

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By *ungrylikethewolfMan
over a year ago

Cheadle


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time"

And we have a troll in the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time

And we have a troll in the room."

And how am I a troll? I'm just stating the plain obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time

And we have a troll in the room."

How the hell is that being a troll ?

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By *ungrylikethewolfMan
over a year ago

Cheadle


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time

And we have a troll in the room.

And how am I a troll? I'm just stating the plain obvious "

Every room you have been in you only have negative things to say. Could it just be that the other couple have not been on for a while? I don't know what side of the bed you got out of this morning but cheer the hell up. Or at least don't bring other down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey sussexcouple would love to chat on skype! Uve seem to have blocked all single men tho!

because they obviously aren't interested so you're wasting your time

And we have a troll in the room.

And how am I a troll? I'm just stating the plain obvious

Every room you have been in you only have negative things to say. Could it just be that the other couple have not been on for a while? I don't know what side of the bed you got out of this morning but cheer the hell up. Or at least don't bring other down"

that doesn't make me a troll at all. and cheer the hell up?? this is how I've always been, I can't "cheer up". and saying negative things? you were asking advice and I gave you advice by pointing out the negative things, I'm in no way a troll.

The couple clearly aren't interested in single guys if they have blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it now illegal to be depressed and you have to be so chirpy all the time?!

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