FabSwingers.com forum: do you think my preferences are fair?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep what suits you is OK, ignore and comments

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Fair to whom?

You want what you want. It's not about being "fair". Of course the ones not getting what they want moan. Too bad. Ignore them.

Your body. Your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?"

It's your life you should know what you like and want, so if you want what you like that's fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry hun. We all have our preferences. U stick to your guns. X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it matter,its your choice,your profile your life

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

If they can even respect your preferences are they worth giving any thought too?

I love being told 'what i want' by a random stranger

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"does it matter,its your choice,your profile your life"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were there not enough answers on your other threads that asked the same thing?

Anyone would think you were on commision from the club

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

And I suspect that - if the OP was male - it would be said by some that this is a 'look at me' type thread..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?"

Do they also suggest you should hitch hike in your underwear late at night too?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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You seem to have a problem with the messages you get from men. Not much you can do about people moaning about you only meeting in clubs, apart from ignoring the messages that ignore that preference, but why don't you set up your filters to prevent messages from people outside your age-range?

Surely better to prevent the things that annoy you than let them go on and keep posting about how cross it makes you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were there not enough answers on your other threads that asked the same thing?

Anyone would think you were on commision from the club"

that was about single guys, not my preferences and I was asking if they were ok. And no I'm not on commission from the club as they don't need me to work there anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seem to have a problem with the messages you get from men. Not much you can do about people moaning about you only meeting in clubs, apart from ignoring the messages that ignore that preference, but why don't you set up your filters to prevent messages from people outside your age-range?

Surely better to prevent the things that annoy you than let them go on and keep posting about how cross it makes you?"

I have done this but men who are out of my age range seem to crop up still

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?

Do they also suggest you should hitch hike in your underwear late at night too?"

what's that suppose to mean?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Surely better to prevent the things that annoy you than let them go on and keep posting about how cross it makes you?

I have done this but men who are out of my age range seem to crop up still"

The only way you'll get messages from people outside your age range is if you have contacted them first. If you haven't then there's a glitch and you need to report it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And I suspect that - if the OP was male - it would be said by some that this is a 'look at me' type thread..

No it's not, it's just a simple question about whether I'm being fair with my preferences and now I've gotten some feedback, I think I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres always another suitable hole or cock for people

nothing wrong of not getting what u want all the time

move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surely better to prevent the things that annoy you than let them go on and keep posting about how cross it makes you?

I have done this but men who are out of my age range seem to crop up still

The only way you'll get messages from people outside your age range is if you have contacted them first. If you haven't then there's a glitch and you need to report it."

yeah it is a glitch as it's guys I've never contacted before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"theres always another suitable hole or cock for people

nothing wrong of not getting what u want all the time

move on

if they can't respect my preferences (even if it says they are respectful on their profile) they can jog on

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Surely better to prevent the things that annoy you than let them go on and keep posting about how cross it makes you?

I have done this but men who are out of my age range seem to crop up still

The only way you'll get messages from people outside your age range is if you have contacted them first. If you haven't then there's a glitch and you need to report it.

yeah it is a glitch as it's guys I've never contacted before"

Then report it! Bottom of the webpage is a contact link, or you could wait til you get a message outside your filters and report it like that.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

your prefs are entirely and exclusively up to you ... of course i'm too old ... and too far away .. etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?

Do they also suggest you should hitch hike in your underwear late at night too?

what's that suppose to mean?"

I think he means never feel obligated to do anything you aren't comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the same old same old

Block all guys and find the ones you want to play with yourself,put some effort into getting what you want instead of starting the same threads moaning all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres always another suitable hole or cock for people

nothing wrong of not getting what u want all the time

move on

if they can't respect my preferences (even if it says they are respectful on their profile) they can jog on

I've opened my filters to allow hot yet misunderstood young women like urself through, now come have a cuddle and it'll all be better...mmm...sweet wet pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the same old same old

Block all guys and find the ones you want to play with yourself,put some effort into getting what you want instead of starting the same threads moaning all the time"

I like her moans though..

as I imagine driving it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres always another suitable hole or cock for people

nothing wrong of not getting what u want all the time

move on

if they can't respect my preferences (even if it says they are respectful on their profile) they can jog on

Are you asking a question with this thread or making a statement. I could say by putting me outside of your preferences that it is unfair. But that would be silly. They are YOUR preferences. Though having said that, you're not being fair to yourself. You could be having me!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Its the same old same old

Block all guys and find the ones you want to play with yourself,put some effort into getting what you want instead of starting the same threads moaning all the time

I like her moans though..

as I imagine driving it in

You're out of her age range hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the same old same old

Block all guys and find the ones you want to play with yourself,put some effort into getting what you want instead of starting the same threads moaning all the time

I like her moans though..

as I imagine driving it in

You're out of her age range hun.

I'm aging backwards..so there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey its your profile its up to you who you want to meet. I'm white and only like white guys but a lot of black men wink or email.

Just ignore the idiots who moan their the ones with the problem.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Its the same old same old

Block all guys and find the ones you want to play with yourself,put some effort into getting what you want instead of starting the same threads moaning all the time

I like her moans though..

as I imagine driving it in

You're out of her age range hun.

I'm aging backwards..so there!"

Ooooh, I like 'em young.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Your preference is your preference. You should target what you enjoy and go for it. Ignore silly comments.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It's your profile and your preferences so just put in what you are happy and comfortable with, not what you think others think you should have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your profile and your preferences so just put in what you are happy and comfortable with, not what you think others think you should have."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aawww it's not fair!! Stamps feet!! Some guys need to grow a pair..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aawww it's not fair!! Stamps feet!! Some guys need to grow a pair.."

yes lol i'm only up for social meets at the moment due to my ex boyfriend

he's totally put me off sex and I hate him for that

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Were there not enough answers on your other threads that asked the same thing?

Anyone would think you were on commision from the club"

Who could possibly think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?"

Very unfair to me lol

But if thats what you want then that entirely up to you

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not fair at all. Drive down to meet me and Tina immediately.

Immediately I tells ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be concerned about other people's opinions? Your profile, your life, end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are remarkably boring at the moment so in response to your question - I really don't care

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Look at me thread?

Look at me thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shame in having standards.

Some people seem to think that because you are a swinger,you fuck anyone.

At a club the other week a man old enough to be niks dads,short fat and hairy thought he had a chance lol.

Stick to your guns and meet only people you want.

Seen profile updates on here saying things like people are too fussy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?"

why are you being unfair sweety play with the people you want to and meet them where you are comfortable meeting

its your fun its totally upto you x

if the pushy people don't like it there is a block button made just for them

have fun

jo x

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?"

I think you're being very fair.

Say what the hell you like, it's your profile.

Let them whine, ignore them and let them go crying back to mammy - who they probably live with anyway.

Dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet where you want to meet,your choice no one else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one can tell you what to do.

they can express they feel you are being a little inflexible, but if they are interested in meeting you, and the feeling is mutual, im sure comprimises can be made one way or the other.

but its your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men whine about the fact I only meet in clubs or about my age range. Think I'm being fair?

Do they also suggest you should hitch hike in your underwear late at night too?

what's that suppose to mean?"

It was a reference to men whining about you only meeting in clubs. In my mind it's a safety issue. I wouldn't hitch hike either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt worry about moaners i think u make anough moans yourself,stop moaning abt single men there here for our pleasure,just block who is out ur age range and ignore men that dont want meet at a club.

I meet at clubs and partys,i get plenty of tryers im never rude to them i just give them ten points and say no politely,they soon move on

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