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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello people.

were new too this and cant wait too get stuck in. Who wants to take our swinging virginity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to but your a bit far away.

Hope you find what your looking for. Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!

Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to oblige but im too old for you and too single too.

Good luck in your search though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to oblige but im too old for you and too single too.

Good luck in your search though x"

Same here and too far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!

Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"

thanks btw you both look gawjus. Shame not close or can you travel little bit??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!

Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"

why have you been told you have no chance? I cant see a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to a club xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We keep trying with loads people. We send messages n they delete straight away :/

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Are they just one liners, cut and paste or a tailored message aimed at the couples preferences?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!

Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"

was it by one of the forum trolls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be, mostly other women C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be, mostly other women C x"

Well I would love to meet you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might be, mostly other women C x"

shame xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be, mostly other women C x

shame xx"

Can not understand why you guys can not get any meets, try going to one of the socials near you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might be, mostly other women C x

shame xx

Can not understand why you guys can not get any meets, try going to one of the socials near you "

people just read messages n delete lol. Very rude....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often that happens because of the volume of messages they get, what do you say in them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"

or do the pub thing first and foremost.

if the meet turns up and there is only a guy sat there, then about face and go home.

plenty of lovely couples in telford, when you start meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"

shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x

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By *avesueCouple
over a year ago

hull

Long way away or we gladly would xx??

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x"

That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!

We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All people do is read n delete.......

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By *exOnTheRocksWoman
over a year ago

WINCHESTER

Well, Im a single woman, and this rocking horse certainly isnt fond of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insatiable, yeah, pretty much the problem. But we are hitting the swinging clubs soon to try and break the spell. Not a lot more to do, don't think we can improve the profile/pics but tips are always welcome! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone like to take mine away?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is always important to temper expectations with reality in whatever you do in life, swinging is no different to this.

If your entire search is for single females then understand the numbers of these that are real, attractive, young, actually single and meet couples is so small on this site and indeed within the community you might never meet one.

Temper expectations you will get far less frustrated at the site if you do so

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x

That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!

We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't!"

Rare as rocking horse shit? I think not! I'm a genuine single female and love meeting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello people.

were new too this and cant wait too get stuck in. Who wants to take our swinging virginity x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x

That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse

shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!

We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't!

Rare as rocking horse shit? I think not! I'm a genuine single female and love meeting on here"

you look so sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x

shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for "

I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

"

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

"

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were? "

I think there problem is the ages and age range, 20 and 24 and 10 to 30, that has got to limit there target group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were? "

yep

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

To the OP

I think I know why your messages are being deleted.

You winked us even though we are way out of your age range.

We wink back because not everyone's is set in stone so why not.

Then you message us, with a one liner asking if the mrs plays alone.

Good luck with that approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X"

bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X

bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x"

well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X

bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x

well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here "

ok thanks. Wanna take us x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x

shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for

I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

"

I was just thinking that. ..

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?

yep"

Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

e not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?

yep

Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples. "

cant see profile. It hidden

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

e not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?

yep

Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples.

cant see profile. It hidden"

Telfordcouple's profile is not hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They sometimes change there preferences.....

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello people.

were new too this and cant wait too get stuck in. Who wants to take our swinging virginity x"

Hang in there guys, it's worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello people.

were new too this and cant wait too get stuck in. Who wants to take our swinging virginity x

Hang in there guys, it's worth the wait "

thanks

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"

I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...

Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples

I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?

yep

Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples. "

Have you asked all the couples if the mrs meets alone as you did us?

Is your mrs even involved in this?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.

Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.

The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.

As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"

Sorry I'm confused. You don't send face pics but you cam?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It female here. Look at pics. Does it look like a fake account??Were veified but need get cam n meet verifications though

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"It female here. Look at pics. Does it look like a fake account??Were veified but need get cam n meet verifications though"

Can't look at your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be just that you describe yourself as a Gawjuss bloke

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time. "

ok thanks. Happy swinging

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield


"Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time.

ok thanks. Happy swinging"

Lights on , no one in

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X

bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x

well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here

ok thanks. Wanna take us x"

love to but sadly we are well above your age range

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