FabSwingers.com forum: Too young for a swingers club

By *ifemcouple21 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

What's the youngest age the majority of you would feel you could "accept" in a swingers club like chams or xtasia? we are both 21 but feel we may still look out of place? We aren't looking for full swap but have met for FF play in the past and want to watch/be watched, soiit's a great place for us to go. Thanks!

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By *ittle-Miss-NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Worksop

I always feel really young if i go to a club, my boyfriends 22 and most of the time we go wer the youngest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as a couple are mature enough to enjoy a club I don't think age is at all relevant. I've seen couples much older than you in clubs with no idea how to behave and met couples yiur age who have been great company.

If you are concerned that you might look out of place then consider voing to a club that does nights specifically aimed at the younger crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same really been both clubs and tend to feel

like my age may hinder me, however gotta get

past it no one knows your age unless they ask,

or judge you at 1st glance, enjoy yourself anyway....

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By *ifemcouple21 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Thanks

we really wanna go and actually prefer more mature and older people to watch and play with, so hopefully we would be accepted quickly

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown

Hi both x

Just go for it....we have met/chatted/played with some great young couples on their mid 20s. It's not something we have ever asked or been asked in a club either. ...hi how old are you-so just bite the bullet if its something you want to do plus im sure most would love to socialise and be naughty with hot young couples xx

Xtasia in west brom hosts foam parties & other events you might like with s.d.c parties as well check them out its a night club vibe with wet & dry areas. Have fun x sharron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a younger looking couple than most we struggle to find similar young/young looking couple.

We've been to many clubs, such as Liberty Elite on their supposedly hotties night which is meant to attract younger club goers, and other clubs around too, although never Chams.. so try it, and see what you think and report back to us!..lol

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By *ifemcouple21 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Thanks KinkyS!

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By *ifemcouple21 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Haha will do Miss Blonde, we will let you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to meet many younger people... And to be honest I'd say that clubs are attracting younger crowds.

I first started going clubbing in my mid twenties.. and was often youngest there.. it didn't bother me x

Never worry about others and just enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be hit and miss,although when walkin around you spot couples you fancy and you see them looking a you,that's when you can hunt in a pair lol x

Go for it,you should enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both 21 and have never felt out of place or unwanted. Quite the opposite if anything

Go enjoy yourselves !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am late 50's and in some clubs I feel too young, it depends on a persons outlook, not on a persons years.

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By *oung-dreamCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Me and my partner have only been to one club and that was a few years ago now when we was 20 and we was by far the youngest there, but it depends if your bothered about that I guess

The atmosphere of being in a club was fun but would of preferred it if there was a few more people our age there so we didn't draw so much attention to us as it was our first time xx

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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago

around walsall, wolves, cannock

We have been going to chameleons for over six years, we have often been the youngest there and in recent times seen younger people there. The ages of people there vary - as it does at xtasia where we have been going to for a year or two.

Although there is no guarantees of a young crowd attending, if you go with an open mind you will find fun. There are all sorts of people who go to clubs, you'll not look out of place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going to clubs the past 6 months or so and I'm only 20. I could probably easily say I think I've been the youngest there whenever I've gone but I've never let it bother me and nobody else I'd have thought has been bothered by it either. Sometimes it'd be great if they were some more younger people around when I go but as others have said it can be hit and miss, still always end up having a brilliant night though regardless. So just enjoy yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any clubs in the south coast that do nights aimed at the younger crowd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it on hard on here to get people to tlk to me with me bein young nvm in a club hahaha

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By *ovejay711Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I (jay) am one of the djs at Xtasia and regularly see people of all ages in the club. When it comes to having fun surrounded by like minded people there's no need to worry about age. As long as you're old enough to be a member then you will always be welcome through the doors.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"What's the youngest age the majority of you would feel you could "accept" in a swingers club like chams or xtasia? we are both 21 but feel we may still look out of place? We aren't looking for full swap but have met for FF play in the past and want to watch/be watched, soiit's a great place for us to go. Thanks!"

Hi cpl, the truth is you can be 29 like me and still considered "too young" for some people. All you can do is act mentally mature and decent and I'm sure you'll have people having fun with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks

we really wanna go and actually prefer more mature and older people to watch and play with, so hopefully we would be accepted quickly"

Last few times I (female) have been to new paradise club, there's been a few younger there 20-25 age group,

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By *ifemcouple21 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Thank you to all who replied here for your advice! the general idea is that we would be the youngest there but as long as we have a mature mind we will be welcome! thank you

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Physical age has no bearing its whether mentally you are able to cope with swinging , and you wont know that till you do it. I know "mature swingers" who struggle with jealousy etc so good luck and hope it works for you

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a club a few weeks ago and I'm only 19 so imagine how I felt! I was really welcomed and everyone was very friendly so it was fine (:

For some reason most people thought I was mid 20's, I'm hoping that was from my confidence and not any premature wrinkles I don't know about though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've noticed a lot more young people in Chams recently. It's nice to see younger people there. Everyone is welcome; young, old, skinny, not skinny, respectful, unrespectable

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

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"We've noticed a lot more young people in Chams recently. It's nice to see younger people there. Everyone is welcome; young, old, skinny, not skinny, respectful, unrespectable

here here thats the way to view it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

check out phukt on the 30th at xstastia we went to the last one it was as good looking crowd with an lower average age than most events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us youngsters should all plan to go to a club on a specific night then well all feel not the youngest lol

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

I went to one in the south west with a lady friend and I think I was the youngest at 40!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 23 Mrs TP is 20 and we're members of Xtasia Chams and Infusions and we go as regular as we can don't worry about your age we don't. We get down and funky and don't worry what others think, if your too young for someone they don't have to talk to you...simples

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