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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is risk of this happening, and what do you do if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stick a tampon in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't have the skill to do it, pretty high as the tissues are delicate.

If you do bleed, seek medical advice.

crystal

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


" what is risk of this happening, and what do you do if it happens"

OMG...go to the DR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok Mrs Thickie here...what's sounding?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Mrs Thickie here...what's sounding????? "

same here i dont know what it is either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just googled it its something about sticking long thin needles up a cock

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston

I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"just googled it its something about sticking long thin needles up a cock "

in the urethra - you can do it with women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like torture to me

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)"

WHY? I ask

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If you don't have the skill to do it, pretty high as the tissues are delicate.

If you do bleed, seek medical advice.

crystal"

^ This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh.... Have heard of the action but didn't know it was called that. Thanks guys.... I've learned something new today....!! XxX

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

WHY? I ask "

Dunno, not something I've ever felt the need to do. Think it was mentioned in a story by Chuck Pahlaniuk (sp?) though. That's my excuse for knowing what it is

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

WHY? I ask "

because some people like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once watch a program where a guy stuck a flower down his japs eye on valentines day to surprise his missis and it pulled his uretha out when she pulled it out

Aaaaarrrggggghhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" what is risk of this happening, and what do you do if it happens"

High risk if you don't understand the anatomy,I can't believe an adult would need to ask what to do if you bleed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it will bleed on occasion, if the guy is on blood pressure tabs or medication for heart condition, ie warfarin, it can be a problem, not an easy place to get a plaster!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

WHY? I ask

because some people like it"

hmmm each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" what is risk of this happening, and what do you do if it happens

High risk if you don't understand the anatomy,I can't believe an adult would need to ask what to do if you bleed?"

Not many adults have experienced an internal bleed, so a very valid question, and a good place to ask it!

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston


"Not many adults have experienced an internal bleed, so a very valid question, and a good place to ask it!"

I'm not a doctor, but I'd say if blood starts coming out of anything (except your nose for a couple of minutes or your fanny for 5 days every 28), you FUCKING GET IT LOOKED AT ASAP, no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not saying he is bleeding. But he wants to do it with longer probes and im worried about him hurting himself. So asking what the risks are. And would it heal itself if bleeding was to happen. Was wondering if anyone had any experience of it. Wouldn't know where else to ask. Not realy something I can discuss with friends and family

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston

I'd try asking on somewhere like Fetlife.com, probably a lot more experienced people on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not sexy , it is not swinging and its a gross practice ....... its ridiculous

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston


"It is not sexy [...] its a gross practice"

Well that's not very helpful. A lot of people find swinging "gross", I'd have thought round here we were safe from judgement. If you can't say something nice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sounding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

WHY? I ask "

i just said the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

purpose made sounds available on most sex toy sites, like anything else plenty of lube, no force and keep a towel on the bed cause he will pee himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant even think of this as an itch to be scratched kind of feeling - made me shudder

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By *ick901Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Just read wot that means and it's making me feel queezy !!!!!!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think it's sticking stuff down the, er, old chap, isn't it? (Was about to call it something that's horribly racist there. Urethra is the technical term I think)

WHY? I ask

i just said the same thing "

It's just another form of physical stimulation. Some people like it. Just like other forms of physical stimulation, it won't appeal to or work for everyone.

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By *ickD38Man
over a year ago

Preston


" what is risk of this happening, and what do you do if it happens"

Found a link on another site, Lovebirds69, if you want the link message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not saying he is bleeding. But he wants to do it with longer probes and im worried about him hurting himself. So asking what the risks are. And would it heal itself if bleeding was to happen. Was wondering if anyone had any experience of it. Wouldn't know where else to ask. Not realy something I can discuss with friends and family"

Before increasing length, he needs to increase the gauge of the sounds he uses. When he increases length, this will make insertion easier but there is always a limit on length before you cause serious damage.

Check out fetlife and look for workshops-good workshops always include lectures on anatomy, safety and hygiene.

crystal

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm not saying he is bleeding. But he wants to do it with longer probes and im worried about him hurting himself. So asking what the risks are. And would it heal itself if bleeding was to happen. Was wondering if anyone had any experience of it. Wouldn't know where else to ask. Not realy something I can discuss with friends and family"

Basically sounds and dilators should never (ever) be pushed. The idea is more to use plenty of lube and let them slide in themselves. So, I could be wrong here, but it seems to me they find their own depth.

Sounds and dilators aren't something I have a vast amount of knowledge of but it may be possible to buy them designed for deeper insertion.

If you buy the right tools for the job, (and please ensure they are stainless steel, which a lot of cheap imports aren't, and are scrupulously sterile), and use them properly, you should be fine.

Using something not designed for sounding or trying to force it deeper is a recipe for very serious problems.

If you do accidentally cause bleeding seek medical treatment urgently. After all, the inside of the urethra isn't somewhere anyone wants an infection!

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