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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there, I'm very new to this scene and would love to go to a club, I know there is a stigma attached to single males thinking they can get an easy lay but I would love to go just to see what happens. I understand this is probably asked a lot but is this etiquette acceptable? To just go along as a first timer and see what happens? I am quite nervous so please excuse my ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with going along to find out what clubs are like fella.

And after the first visit the nerves should start to go.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

been on my own a few times always have fun just dont expect it! or hang around perving.

just socilise as u would in a bar and see what hapens

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol

I agree with the others who've posted on this topic. If you go along thinking that something is going to happen, then you're likely to end up frustrated and embarrassed. But go expecting to enjoy the other stuff (chatting, relaxing in the jacuzzi if there is one, etc) and things just might Oh, and I tend to avoid alcohol - the evening's good enough without it and nobody wants a beery fool leering at them (as far as I'm aware).

Try it and have fun.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I agree with the others who've posted on this topic. If you go along thinking that something is going to happen, then you're likely to end up frustrated and embarrassed. But go expecting to enjoy the other stuff (chatting, relaxing in the jacuzzi if there is one, etc) and things just might Oh, and I tend to avoid alcohol - the evening's good enough without it and nobody wants a beery fool leering at them (as far as I'm aware).

Try it and have fun."
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I've been to clubs I've arranged to meet people there, be it single women or couples. I always think single males there 'looking' look a little sad, hanging around hoping to be included.

I suppose if you're the type to go to a bar and chat up and pull then you'll be fine. But it's survival of the fittest!

I don't hold with this go with no expectations of action, it's a sex club. If you fail to play you've wasted time and money. My advice is take a playmate with you or arrange a meeting there.

Don't be the guy pulling his Pud and looking longingly at others from outside a playroom.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Are we talking swingers clubs or sex clubs?

Because I believe there is a difference.

I only go to swingers clubs, and I chat to a lot of people. I never go with any expectations.

I pay entry to use the sauna, jacuzzi, steam room and park my car. Yes other facilities are there and if I need/want/get the opportunity to use them but I've been in and just chatted.

Its a social environment, with facilities for sex and sex happening at different times and different places.

I wouldn't get upset if sex was only happening behind closed doors, because I don't go just for sex.

If you have unrealistic expectations, then you could be disappointed.

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