FabSwingers.com forum: Should i mention femdom?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey folks.

After reading a post where they said it's good say what you really love doing rather than just a "open to anything" kinda thing on your profile.

I was wondering if i should add on that i really do enjoy Femdom. It's something i find a massive turn on and was a major thing in my past relationship but on here most single women/couples seem to have "no sub men" etc on their pages, I'm perfectly happy playing normal and can be a bit dom, but i do really love the femdom thing (tried male masters in the past but they don't seem to be the same for some reason and don't do it for me).

so what do you guys think, put it o nan potentially put off a lot of people but maybe get a really good fulfilling meet, or leave it off be more appealing to a wider group but miss out on a big interest?

thanks for suggestions :p

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say put it in. Our profile has stuff on it that has put some people off but has made the kind of people we do want to meet contact us. I look at it this way if you go into Costa and ask for a cappuccino but what you really want is a latte what are you going to get?

There are probably sites that cater for this too.

By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"I would say put it in. Our profile has stuff on it that has put some people off but has made the kind of people we do want to meet contact us. I look at it this way if you go into Costa and ask for a cappuccino but what you really want is a latte what are you going to get?

There are probably sites that cater for this too."

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah i understand it's a bit don't ask don't get, but it's a bit annoying missing out on other fun simply for wanting to indulge another interest.

heh yeah i'm sure there are, if anyone knows any good ones let me know :p

i like fab though, people here seem really friendly and chilled.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Say that you are more than happy to play "normal" indecision and lack of commitment to what you really want will result in you not getting close to the meets you really want. How successful are you now?