FabSwingers.com forum: Confused!!!

By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?

I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or last minute nerves??

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?

I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house

I have had this. Just take it in your stride and move on.

Some single guys on here seem to forget respect and expect sex on first meet. I always arrange a social meet first and if this can not be respected then they don't deserve me.

Simples

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up."

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me."

Then you have your answer.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me."

Sounds like you had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He realised he wasn't going to get laid and found it too much like hard work not the insta shag he expected.

I had similar, originally invited to his for coffee which I declined and said I'd only meet in public first. He then cancelled saying I wouldn't be his type lol...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

You mean I can't just rock up and whap me cock out? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.

Then you have your answer. "

I thought that. Seems guys can sometimes never get anything right whatever they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reverse psychology, probably backfired..or he simply was just looking for a fuck

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

'Whap' may be a bit ambitious anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.

Sounds like you had a lucky escape

I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is.

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.

Sounds like you had a lucky escape

I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is. "

Fair dos

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.

Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.

Sounds like you had a lucky escape

I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is. "

Nor I!

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?

I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house

At least he cancelled. I'm left to figure it out...

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?

I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house

At least he cancelled. I'm left to figure it out... "

I'm sorry to hear that hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where he is coming from but do men on here have so little control? Makes us little better than apes. ...sad sad and almost embarrassed to have a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean I can't just rock up and whap me cock out? lol"

Of course you can, I gives us violent chicks a visual target!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more"

Thats just bollox and down right rude

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more

Thats just bollox and down right rude"

Wait!!!! So they knew you were single from the beginning....Some people are out of order

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more"

That isn't fair, they could at least have messaged you before you left, very rude.. The only good thing is that they didn't leave you sitting somewhere waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cancelled 2 this week as I just wasn't well enough to go! What I thought was a simple cold seems to be flu!!! Thought I would be fine when I planned them but it wasn't to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out"

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words. "

happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.

happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK

ive even stepped into a meet...and 100% sure the female half hasnt even seen me...wonder where those dirty chats with the xxx's came from...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.

happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK

What a married guy let you down , really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.

happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK

What a married guy let you down , really

you are so anal sometimes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.

happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK

What a married guy let you down , really

you are so anal sometimes...

Mmmmmm anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had this tonight

on the way to the meet x

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"we had this tonight

on the way to the meet x"

Sorry to hear that hun

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I had one Tuesday. Messaged in the morning giving me a choice of two pubs to meet in at two o'clock. I replied. No response. Messaged him at one to say I needed to know where before I set off. Never heard back.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folks are soo inconsiderate sometimes...

If they're not up for shaggin all day, every day....simple solution...shoot them!

....NEXT!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more

Thats just bollox and down right rude"

Agreed! That's how some get their kicks unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human Truffle

There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Human Truffle

There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first ."

I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out

I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words. "

Only a hunch. Thought they were asking.for opinions??

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Human Truffle

There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first .

I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Human Truffle

There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first .

I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker

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