FabSwingers.com forum: patience

By *heekySmiler79 OP Man
over a year ago

Andover Hampshire

I have been a member for a whole now, so am used to the etiquette!, I mean you wouldnt buy the first item you saw if you had a selection, right?!. I was looking for.conjecture and opinions on whether multiple viewings of a profile necessarily shows interest and is worth a follow up message?, most people are kind enough to reply with at least a nay in my experience. Also winks?, (still), I use them as an ice breaker, how do you females feel about winks, pointless?, speak your brains!, thanks x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I couldn't say why someone would view your profile multiple times but I would say if they haven't messaged you then I wouldn't bother messaging them.

As for winks, I personally don't even look at them but I know some do. I did go through mine once and out of 200 only 2 were within my preferences and those 2 were married x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oops I hit send too soon. And at the time my profile stated single guys only. I don't bother checking my winks any more x lol x

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By *heekySmiler79 OP Man
over a year ago

Andover Hampshire

Does make me wonder if winks are worth doing?, as I say, for me, it's used to show an interest, whats better, wink or nice one liner?, while we are at it, fabbing pics, if I like them, I will fab them, how do others view fabbing?, also a wink wouldn't go a miss!!, it's not easy being this cute!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I don't look who fabs my pics either. Or friend requests unless it someone I've specifically spoken to and we have said to request. Lol x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Does make me wonder if winks are worth doing?, as I say, for me, it's used to show an interest, whats better, wink or nice one liner?, while we are at it, fabbing pics, if I like them, I will fab them, how do others view fabbing?, also a wink wouldn't go a miss!!, it's not easy being this cute!!

I do look at who's fabbed me or who's winked, but people sometimes do both in passing, so I only very occasionally wink back, otherwise I only respond to messages so would advise any guy to start there if he is properly interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been a member for a whole now, so am used to the etiquette!, I mean you wouldnt buy the first item you saw if you had a selection, right?!. I was looking for.conjecture and opinions on whether multiple viewings of a profile necessarily shows interest and is worth a follow up message?, most people are kind enough to reply with at least a nay in my experience. Also winks?, (still), I use them as an ice breaker, how do you females feel about winks, pointless?, speak your brains!, thanks x

We have had a couple of occasions since we joined this site where we have noticed people looking at our profile almost daily. In the end we messaged and said do you like our profile. Both times we had a message back. And they were both the only rude messages we have ever had. In a nutshell one said we don't like bisexual people and the other was a bit direct about L's dress size. Who knows why they were looking? So in our experience leave well alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple viewings no. Winks not worth it for us prefer messages as we just glance at winks and unless your picture catches our eye then we don't follow up.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I very rarely check my winks, so not for me. Fabbed pictures, I don't even really bother with them.

One liners would need to be very witty or again, its a no.

A well crafted message always wins it for me.

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