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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong?

I've set my profile up, added pictures, got verified. I'm not a weirdo or a sex maniac, pretty down to earth and laid back.

However in struggling to find my first meet lol... Someone suggested going to a club but I think I'd look a weirdo a 24 year old lad lurking around a club by himself lol...

Advice is needed!

Much appreciated for any useful tips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here seven days. What were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure, think I just thought it was one big open Buffett! Couldn't be further from the reality lol what a NUMPTY!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh freaky pic. That would put me off straight away OP sorry

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

my tip is give it sometime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I agree, thanks. I think I just thought, once I'd joined that was it BOOOOOOOM I'd be all sexed out but that's just not the case. It could take months before a meet because I suppose it's quite an intimate thing for a couple to let someone in to have sex with them. Curiosity killed the cat! In a few months I'll have a couple of meets under my belt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of that Guy Fawkes mask might help. Although it may appeal to the quirky.

Rome was not built In a day. I don't think a 24 year old in a club will be felt as strange more like welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time lots of it clubs will bring more success.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Yeah I agree, thanks. I think I just thought, once I'd joined that was it BOOOOOOOM I'd be all sexed out but that's just not the case. It could take months before a meet because I suppose it's quite an intimate thing for a couple to let someone in to have sex with them. Curiosity killed the cat! In a few months I'll have a couple of meets under my belt!"

Keep thinking like that and you wont go far wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical giving the OP the usual patronising comments. You might consider that quite a lot of single guys are genuine here. It's not just about couples and single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get rid of your first paragraph and your chances will shoot up instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I agree, thanks. I think I just thought, once I'd joined that was it BOOOOOOOM I'd be all sexed out but that's just not the case. It could take months before a meet because I suppose it's quite an intimate thing for a couple to let someone in to have sex with them. Curiosity killed the cat! In a few months I'll have a couple of meets under my belt!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha well any advice is better than no advice! I'll just give it time!

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"What am I doing wrong?

I've set my profile up, added pictures, got verified. I'm not a weirdo or a sex maniac, pretty down to earth and laid back.

However in struggling to find my first meet lol... Someone suggested going to a club but I think I'd look a weirdo a 24 year old lad lurking around a club by himself lol...

Advice is needed!

Much appreciated for any useful tips! "

This website is called fabswingers not shagsrus or instantshag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are they real websites?! Are they easier?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The mask photo is scary. It suggests something sinister. You answered you own question - patience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here a week

You need to have patience on this site! It's not instashag

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are they real websites?! Are they easier?!"

Lol, google them

You have a sense of humour and clearly take advice (or say you do that Mack is still there), I think you'll do well if you have patience. Join in the forums with that cheerful air and you might find you attract attention too. Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Damn this phone that mask I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical giving the OP the usual patronising comments. You might consider that quite a lot of single guys are genuine here. It's not just about couples and single females. "

are we reading different comments?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mask is gone. Later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mask pic - instant delete

2nd para - slagging off milfs - instant delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got bored reading about monks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am I doing wrong?

I've set my profile up, added pictures, got verified. I'm not a weirdo or a sex maniac, pretty down to earth and laid back.

However in struggling to find my first meet lol... Someone suggested going to a club but I think I'd look a weirdo a 24 year old lad lurking around a club by himself lol...

Advice is needed!

Much appreciated for any useful tips! "

Go to a club and lurk and you'll look like a weirdo. Go and socialise you'll probably be quite surprised

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By *kyhighstilettoCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


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Go to a club and lurk and you'll look like a weirdo. Go and socialise you'll probably be quite surprised"

Not that we have much experience with clubs, having only been to two, but this is what unsettled us;single guys loitering and just being a bit weird.Just act normally please!

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