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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

Help/advise is required I've got the chance for a meet but don't know what to do. Here's my problem

1) a late night meet at 12:30 for an hour for car fun

2) go to a club with someone but it involves picking her up and dropping her off round trip of 80 miles ish.

I regard them both of the same caliber and neither is bi.

How should I play it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80 mile round trip? Barking!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Neither sound great!

From the site FAQs:

* Don't put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn't turn up, you'll be upset. So don't travel 100s of miles and book into a hotel in the expectation of meeting someone unless you've met them beforehand.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If it were me... Neither!!

But then I haven't been into car fun since I was 18 and I don't drive so 80 miles on a bus would suck!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"80 mile round trip? Barking!"

Nah, Wigan to Barking is closer to 425 miles round trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the club on yr own and meet other people. if the lady in question drives ask her to meet you there or at least half way for the car fun.

failing that have a nice cozy night in and watch the fireworks and try and set another meet with better terms. go with yr gut instinct

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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

I think I'll go to the club alone yes I can do better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to the club on yr own and meet other people. if the lady in question drives ask her to meet you there or at least half way for the car fun.

failing that have a nice cozy night in and watch the fireworks and try and set another meet with better terms. go with yr gut instinct"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better "

I've done it and I'm pretty high calibre stuff I'll have you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would meet either. Midnight for an fumble in a car or an 80 mile round trip. Go alone Honey & find something better. xx

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Avoid both !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better "

But a woman who has her tits out and legs open on a site like this is real classy!!

People of all classes like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'll go to the club alone yes I can do better"

I hope neither of the women read this comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better "

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By *omSub_bullcplCouple
over a year ago

Biddeford


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better "
Another shining example of why we generally avoid the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better Another shining example of why we generally avoid the forums. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"80 mile round trip? Barking!"

Absolutely Crazy why would you even consider that.

when you get to the club there is no guarantee she will even stay with you..

Go to social events and meet people.

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think I'll go to the club alone yes I can do better

I hope neither of the women read this comment!"

Was just thinking the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better Another shining example of why we generally avoid the forums. "

Touchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better

I've done it and I'm pretty high calibre stuff I'll have you know. "

I've seen your profile...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Both have chancy written all over them. I'd suggest another time to the 12.30 fumble, one that is more socially friendly and the 80 mile round trip, see if she is definite and would be willing to see you for half of the petrol money if it is a case of you being a taxi service.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"class of woman" "do better" blimey! The old judgements still stand then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""class of woman" "do better" blimey! The old judgements still stand then "

Amusing though, considering the site we are all on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said I would do neither. Can I just ask though, why does it matter if either are bi? Found it a little confusing what their sexuality had in your decision. Unless the meet in a car park was with a straight male?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


""class of woman" "do better" blimey! The old judgements still stand then

Amusing though, considering the site we are all on. "

I must admit to an ironic smile that despite claims of sexual equality terms like this are still used here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help/advise is required I've got the chance for a meet but don't know what to do. Here's my problem

1) a late night meet at 12:30 for an hour for car fun

2) go to a club with someone but it involves picking her up and dropping her off round trip of 80 miles ish.

I regard them both of the same caliber and neither is bi.

How should I play it?"

An hour, what the fuck will you do for 55 minutes in a car after sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them..with a bit of patience something better will come along...nette

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

what class of woman

I can do better

oh dearie me

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


""class of woman" "do better" blimey! The old judgements still stand then "

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"As others have said I would do neither. Can I just ask though, why does it matter if either are bi? Found it a little confusing what their sexuality had in your decision. Unless the meet in a car park was with a straight male?"

I was wondering this too... unless the OP was going to try and convince the car meet to come along to the club with him and the other woman

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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool


"As others have said I would do neither. Can I just ask though, why does it matter if either are bi? Found it a little confusing what their sexuality had in your decision. Unless the meet in a car park was with a straight male?

I was wondering this too... unless the OP was going to try and convince the car meet to come along to the club with him and the other woman "

Exactly have your cake and eat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better

But a woman who has her tits out and legs open on a site like this is real classy"

Not on my profile there isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said I would do neither. Can I just ask though, why does it matter if either are bi? Found it a little confusing what their sexuality had in your decision. Unless the meet in a car park was with a straight male?"

thank you, i was going to ask the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, avoid both

Even if they had a valid reason for not turning up, I'd be gutted either making that round trip or being sat in a car a midnight waiting.

Easier and better ways to arrange a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy - Possessing elegance, the attribute of being tastefully designed, decorated and maintaining refined grace and dignified propriety.

Sometimes it is better to say nothing at all..... if you are really a "Classy" person.....

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

My rule of thumb is i never travel more than hour to meet someone that i just dont know. If i have met them beforehand at a club i will travel to see them even if they are a couple of hours away but i will stay over if that is the case

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm just wondering what class of woman meets for a quickie in a car at midnight Swerve both, I'm sure you can do better "

Hilarious ma'am!

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