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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X

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By *icebloke551Man
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Hi just go with the flow let them take the leed and everything will be ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers. Just wanted some re-assurance I guess

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X "

Our biggest tip would be make sure you have discussed boundaries and are sure of what all three of you want . Good luck and hope all three of you have a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that's all been discussed. I'm looking forward to it thanks for taking time to give your advice. Much appreciated

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X "

ENJOY xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X

ENJOY xxxxxx "

Oh I intend to ha ha x

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Just be yourself, don't be worried about being nervous, and remember there are two of them there, not just the lady.

But most of all...enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh no I completely agree that there are two of them and I'll be completely respectful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself, don't be worried about being nervous, and remember there are two of them there, not just the lady.

But most of all...enjoy it!"

Don't be nervous...its just fun...enjoy yourself with them...don't get up and leave them when your finished...just play with her till everyone is done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok will do! Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sounds as if you been talking to this couple a while so just remember even if your meet turns out to be just drinks, chat and a bit of foreplay you've made progress.

No need to go all the way if it doesn't feel right at the time.

If they are true swingers and you are looking to build a relationship with them they will understand.

Be yourself, happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha ha I believe you

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Lol!!!

Don't panic and don't drink! If you get anxious, things don't work well! Believe me.

Lol

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind "

Agreed the curtains are a no no; tablecloth's fine but not the curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally ignore the male half and try getting the female alone

best advice i can give

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind

Agreed the curtains are a no no; tablecloth's fine but not the curtains "

only if the lady's hair isn't long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and relax, keep within everyone's boundaries, only do what you want to do!

And most importantly...... Have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all! Some varied advice there!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind

Agreed the curtains are a no no; tablecloth's fine but not the curtains

only if the lady's hair isn't long enough "

TBH I usually just pick the lady's knickers up and use those. Can't think why I don't get asked back

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind

Agreed the curtains are a no no; tablecloth's fine but not the curtains

only if the lady's hair isn't long enough

TBH I usually just pick the lady's knickers up and use those. Can't think why I don't get asked back "

Nor me, you seem to be very polite

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"And don't wipe it on their curtains . Not speaking from experience mind

Agreed the curtains are a no no; tablecloth's fine but not the curtains

only if the lady's hair isn't long enough

TBH I usually just pick the lady's knickers up and use those. Can't think why I don't get asked back

Nor me, you seem to be very polite "

Quite. It's not like I just stand there dripping on the floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as has been said, just enjoy yourself, and each other.

try not to get carried away, keep your wits about you so you dont do anything you dont feel comfortable with.

have fun fella

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X "

So...how was it?

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X

So...how was it?"

He has a veri

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Hi guys. I'm meeting my first couple tonight and I'm a bit nervous, any tips? We've been chatting a while and they have great feedback. X

So...how was it?

He has a veri"

Ah, I haven't looked. I guess it was good, then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry guys! It was awesome

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Excellent, glad to hear it!

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By *hil123Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I met my first couple on Saturday mate just be yourself and relax they will make you feel welcome ye the couple I met were really nice so don't be nervous mate all will be ok ye

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