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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.

I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!

There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.

Can someone please give me advise?

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Your profile looks fine to me. xxx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

not a clue,

I see people posting for meets all the time - theres a couple that have been on for well over a year that post weekly meets for this and that and are still not verified.

I think you essentially have to just keep with the spirit of it and not get frustrated at people 'trying' it out - when in fact they are either nervous of meeting, in a relationship, overly fussy, only into 1 type and nothing else, talk more than necessary, or want a relationship more than good sex.

It's a shame really - as people to have tastes as to what they want, but when they are only looking for say, hyper muscled, model types.. it makes you wonder - if they have good sex on the back of it, or just enjoy the more 'film maker' type sex..

maybe, put "exceptional" in your profile somewhere lolo

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hey!

Bad pics and poor profile sums it up for me. Make the pics happy, fun, welcoming. Not dark background. Psychologically, that means that something is hidden or dangerous. Make it a light background... always smily happy pics. Place the emphasis on 'this is me' rather than 'this is my cock'. Try to get across that you want to be social with a woman more than wanting quick sex.

Make the profile good and interesting to read, fun and welcoming. Make yourself sound like a nice guy, easy to get on with, sociable and confident - but in a round about way.

Good luck!!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Oh, no offense meant by the way. You probably are a really descent guy.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hey!

Bad pics and poor profile sums it up for me. Make the pics happy, fun, welcoming. Not dark background. Psychologically, that means that something is hidden or dangerous. Make it a light background... always smily happy pics. Place the emphasis on 'this is me' rather than 'this is my cock'. Try to get across that you want to be social with a woman more than wanting quick sex.

Make the profile good and interesting to read, fun and welcoming. Make yourself sound like a nice guy, easy to get on with, sociable and confident - but in a round about way.

Good luck!!"

I mustn't sound like a nice guys at all then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.

I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!

There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.

Can someone please give me advise?"

You think you meet there criteria. They obviously don't if they haven't replied.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Get to socials or a club, meet people socially there and get some veris, your profile is pretty bland as well. It wouldn't catch my eye x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your pics are a bit crappy to be honest! The usual single bloke thing that you can't accommodate will scream 'married and cheating' to many, whether it is true or not! Yoy say you want to go to a club but want a partner - why not go alone and socialise and meet people? Just a few suggestions! goid luck

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Poor pictures, whinging status, lack of information on profile and cannot accommodate.

Whilst my profile is very specific about what I want, there are a few things that I've deliberately missed out. If you don't hit those things, I'm going to delete.

I personally click on the profile before I read the message, I'd just delete your message based on your profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.

I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!

There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.

Can someone please give me advise?

You think you meet there criteria. They obviously don't if they haven't replied. "

This!

I've lost count of the messages that start "I've read your profile and I meet what you're looking for..." I look: erm, no...they don't!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Poor pictures, whinging status, lack of information on profile and cannot accommodate.

Whilst my profile is very specific about what I want, there are a few things that I've deliberately missed out. If you don't hit those things, I'm going to delete.

I personally click on the profile before I read the message, I'd just delete your message based on your profile.

"

...and this!

I too have a couple of additional things I look for/don't want to see on a profile that would interest/put me off meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me I don't meet anyone over the age of 30 and still get men messaging me who are over that age. I always don't like it when men put cock pics in messages. Just a body shot will do! or sending me a very long paragraph of dirty talking like "I rip your clothes off and shove you on the bed" what is the point? A hello will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses everyone, I will take everything into consideration to better my profile, I think the main thing I need to do personally is get my ass to a social and get more veri's

Appreciate what was said

Good luck to everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like,

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like,"
deffinatly!! OP what are you waiting for! Loads of fun to be had at clubs... Plenty close to you!

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol


"Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like, deffinatly!! OP what are you waiting for! Loads of fun to be had at clubs... Plenty close to you! "

Yes ... go to a few clubs! You'll meet genuine people, avoid no-shows and exaggerated profiles, and hopefully get a few fabswinger contacts. You might even get to play!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a party like bmfc, ews or taboo noir . Or just talk to my wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.

I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!

There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.

Can someone please give me advise?"

As others say your profile looks fine maybe its the message you send out.

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Get yourself better pics and as your in London you have no excuse, get your ass to a BMFC night, you'll be like a kid in a sweet shop!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Get yourself better pics and as your in London you have no excuse, get your ass to a BMFC night, you'll be like a kid in a sweet shop!"

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